What is it about women that you don't understand?, for the confused male population Options

[buckfuddy]

the ones I know talk about:
"omg is my eyeliner smeared?"
"what do i do since he did that?"

[lyin_in_wait]

A girl keeps making references to being "together" and "seeing me" and "me and you" etc. Does she want to really be with you?

Honestly, do most girls enjoy an awesome personality over looks or are many just shallow?
50/50. you must be attracted but nobody wants an idiot

Why wear thongs...to school?
tight pants...to make boys sweat

Why do girls focus on such little things about their appearance (hair, nails, etc.) when all guys care about is the big picture (how you look overall)?
because we think yall will see one flaw and it would ruin everything we had

Girls travel in pairs almost always. Why?
safety

Does it really matter if a guy has cold hands sometimes? Is it a big turnoff?
not to me. hell my hands are always cold. so i cant make him change something he cant

Why do girls completely avoid guys that they're pissed off at sometimes?
we will say something we regret

I know that hugs mean just friends. Can they Ever, EVER mean that the girl sort of likes the guy?
yep

Girls act alot differently with guys they have crushes on then those who are just their friends. True or false?
depends. if we are comfortable enough then we wont

How easily do you girls really understand subliminal messages?
really easily we analyze everything. including the signs that werent meant to be

Why do many girls not like eating in front of guys?
sometimes you dont want to seem like a pig. so some may figure the less is better

Why do some girls like saying they aren't shallow but then they only hang out with a specific group of friends whom they don't like but make them look cool?
because if they seem cool then their social status is boosted

Why do girls like to tinker with the hearts of boys?
its not intentional. but its not only the girls

Why do girls always smell good? Is it possible for a guy to smell better?
is a gift i guess....take a shower and do your laundry. what girl doesnt like the laundry matt smell?

Why do girls insist on liking our adorable/embarassed side? We try hard to build up the whole tough-guy facade, why break it down????? lmao.
because your just as vulnerable now. so we dont feel so stupid when we mess it up

[lanbexx]

why has no one answered kevin's first question (the bra one)??

i want to know that answer!!

lol but serious one

why do girls go to the bathroom in packs and stay there for roughly 15 min in what should take at max 5

[AngelinaTaylor]

why has no one answered kevin's first question (the bra one)??

i want to know that answer!!

lol but serious one

why do girls go to the bathroom in packs and stay there for roughly 15 min in what should take at max 5

I answered both >.<

Taylor``

[JTHMjulia]

I will also answer these questions in my way



OK fine, here are a new set of questions for you then, to keep this interesting. Remember, I'm thinking of these questions with the majority of guys in mind and these are not based on my personal experiences.

A girl keeps making references to being "together" and "seeing me" and "me and you" etc. Does she want to really be with you?
A. Yes...if she keep throwing hints like that, generally she does want to be with you

Honestly, do most girls enjoy an awesome personality over looks or are many just shallow?
I personally Like a great personality and looks don't really matter...but there are a lot of girls out therewho just care about a hot bod

Why wear thongs...to school?
to not have the pantie lines showing....DUH! JK

Why do girls focus on such little things about their appearance (hair, nails, etc.) when all guys care about is the big picture (how you look overall)?
Most girls don't know that, and they want to look good for you all the time. I don't usuallly focus on the little things like nails, make up whatever....but a lot of girls do. tell them you like them just they way they are

Girls travel in pairs almost always. Why?
It's kind of this security thing. A lot of girls don't like going places by themselves...so they usually take a "buddy" of some sort

Does it really matter if a guy has cold hands sometimes? Is it a big turnoff?
I honestly hate cold hands. It's not a turn off, it's just that it doesn't feel good. I'm sure girls like you for more than just you're cold hands

Why do girls completely avoid guys that they're pissed off at sometimes?
they want you to come after them. they want you to care...but they won't tell you that.

I know that hugs mean just friends. Can they Ever, EVER mean that the girl sort of likes the guy?
Not necessarily. Hugs can be a lot of things. hugs can mean friends...hugs can mean that they like you. Its all about body language. and be observant....do you see the girl hg other guys besides you...or is it just only you....ect.

Girls act alot differently with guys they have crushes on then those who are just their friends. True or false?
it's in the middle. It's sometimes really hard to tell, or blatently obvious. You have to pay attention to the little things she does.....the little signs she has when she's with you or another guy or whatever

How easily do you girls really understand subliminal messages?
honestly. subliminal messages from guys are VERY hard to read. VERY hard. thats why sometimes girls just don't get tit. they don't see it

Why do many girls not like eating in front of guys?
they don't want you to watch them eat. I have to admit...its embarassing


Why do girls like to tinker with the hearts of boys?
we don't do it on purpose....but sometimes it's the other way around

Why do girls always smell good? Is it possible for a guy to smell better?
definatly a gift. I guess its just a thing girls have.

Why do girls insist on liking our adorable/embarassed side? We try hard to build up the whole tough-guy facade, why break it down????? lmao.
we feel smarter...and have more courage to do something we wouldn't have done with the tough guy facade

[phoenixpyre]

Why are woman such bitches to each other, almost vicious

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

i want voluptuous breast

Skaterdrummer -
when you girls say "I don't know" do you really don't know, or do you just don't want to tell us? and why? ... Depends on the question. Sometimes we say we dont know because 1) you're annoying us and we think saying I dont know is the quickest way to shut you up 2) We dont feel like saying what we really feel and then explaining it 3) Really dont know.

What the heck does "maybe" really mean? It means maybe. Not a yes but not a no. Again, depends on the question.

If you want to stay single for a while, how long is "a while"? Until we find someone who makes us not want to stay single, which happens at random points.

Why dress slutty? Is it for attention, or do you just not like confinement? To attract eyes.

Is it true that if you girls tease back it usually means you like us? Sometimes. A girl might just be a flirt, other time the girl might like you, other times the girl might not even know she's 'teasing' you back.

What enjoyment do you find out of gossip and drama? I dont know. Lol. Hard to explain. I really dont enjoy drama, but seeing it is always fun. It's exciting Lol.

Why use ipods as mirrors? Cos we don't have a mirror handy ?

Is "so..hows life" or "hey whats up" your default phrases to talk to us or can you be more creative? Would you rather us ask " How is your life going, go into depths about your deepest darkest secrets and reveal to me the world beneath the hard exterior " W'sup is an icebreaker. Guys say the same thing.

Abercrombie and fitch, hollister, hot topic, etc. really who gives a damn? Its all just clothes! AMEN BROTHA. I shop at Hot Topic bcos their clothes are cool but Im not into 'prep' style.

Do you girls understand that "secret" is not an invitation to share with your closest 20 friends? Yes. At least I do.

How the heck do you get your pants on?? We put one leg each into the leg thingies and we pull up. Sometimes we have to suck it in, but thats for the girls who are wearing skin tight pants and just cant accept that they have gotten too fat for those jeans.

A girl keeps making references to being "together" and "seeing me" and "me and you" etc. Does she want to really be with you? Most of the time. She might just enjoy your company.

Honestly, do most girls enjoy an awesome personality over looks or are many just shallow? Looks attract us, but personality keeps us. ( As well as the looks Lol )

Why wear thongs...to school? So you don't see our pantyline.

Why do girls focus on such little things about their appearance (hair, nails, etc.) when all guys care about is the big picture (how you look overall)? Because without the little things, it doesnt surmount up to a big overall thing.

Girls travel in pairs almost always. Why? We hate the feeling of loneliness.

Does it really matter if a guy has cold hands sometimes? Is it a big turnoff? My hands are ALWAYS super warm so when I hold a guys cold hand i instantly warm his up, and he likes that. So i think its okay for guys to have cold hands. But to have ugly hands is a HUUUUUUUUUGE turn off.

Why do girls completely avoid guys that they're pissed off at sometimes? Because we might kick you in the balls if we dont avoid you. Would you like that ? Thought so.

I know that hugs mean just friends. Can they Ever, EVER mean that the girl sort of likes the guy? Yes. But a hug is still just a hug.

Girls act alot differently with guys they have crushes on then those who are just their friends. True or false? True most of the time. Sometimes we cant help the way we feel or act when we get around a guy we like. But we always try to act the same, at least I do.

How easily do you girls really understand subliminal messages? Depends on what type of message you are trying to send subliminally.


RiceBoy-

Whats the worst thing a girl wants to hear. Anything negative about our appearance or you want to break up with us or anything about infedelity.

Do women really want voluptuous breasts? Not all. Do men really want big wankies ?

Ninjamagelayouts-

omg why do girls complain so damn much?!and why do they act so b-tchy? Because boys like you piss us off.


Nocturnal Phantom-
Why do some girls like saying they aren't shallow but then they only hang out with a specific group of friends whom they don't like but make them look cool? I dont do that, I truly am friends with preeeetty much everybody and I dont give a f**k how i look as long as im happy. The girls that DO do that are superficial losers who care too much about what other people think and you shouldn't waste your time on then.

Why do girls like to tinker with the hearts of boys? For the same reason boys do ?

Why do girls always smell good? Is it possible for a guy to smell better? It's our shampoo's and lotions and sprays and allathat. Yes it is possible for a guy to smell better.

In the dictionary of women, is there a word in there that looks like this?

Idunno
An answer to all questions. A universal philosophy. No. Lol

Why do girls insist on liking our adorable/embarassed side? We try hard to build up the whole tough-guy facade, why break it down????? lmao. Cos it's CUUUTE seeing you all vulnerable and shy and CUTE CUTE CUTE.


Why can't girls just be straight up? What's the big cover for? Say what you mean and mean what you say! Im like that. Other girls are just afraid of being bold and what you might think of them

Why do many girls not like eating in front of guys? Because we feel like big fat cows and that you're watching what we intake and judging us about it.

lanbexx -
why do girls go to the bathroom in packs and stay there for roughly 15 min in what should take at max 5 So we can talk about cute things/boys/re-apply makeup.




I was bored.

[AngelinaTaylor]

Why are woman such bitches to each other, almost vicious

Because they rarely fight physically. I like the guy way so much better.. two people staighten it out for 5 minutes.. haha. But girls are pure evil.

Taylor``

[xyzzy314]

If you girls want to ask questions you don't understand about us guys, go ahead.

[rainbow piss]

This should be fun. :D

Q: when you girls say "I don't know" do you really don't know, or do you just don't want to tell us? and why?
A: Well, sometimes when we say we don't know, we really don't know, but most of the time, we do know, but we're just afraid of what you'll think about our response & how you'd react to it, so we just stick to saying we don't know.

Q: What the heck does "maybe" really mean?
A: Well, this also depends. If it's something like, "Do you like me?" it's most likely a yes. We girls like to make guys wonder, so sometimes we say maybe, but it could just mean a yes or a no.

Q: If you want to stay single for a while, how long is "a while"?
A: I'm sorry, but they don't wanna be w/ you, so they just use that as an excuse.

Q: Why dress slutty? Is it for attention, or do you just not like confinement?
A: Some do it for attention, & some just do it to feel better about themselves. Like, if they dress slutty, more guys will pay attention to them, thus making them feel better about themselves. Or it could just be a combination of those both.

Q: Is it true that if you girls tease back it usually means you like us?
A: Either that, or they're just naturally flirts.

Q: What enjoyment do you find out of gossip and drama?
A: Well, to tell you the truth, I enjoy gossip & drama. Why? I don't know, maybe because it just gives us something to talk about or it's just plain amusing. LOL.

Q: Why use ipods as mirrors?
A: Maybe we have nothing else to look at ourselves with.

Q: Is "so..hows life" or "hey whats up" your default phrases to talk to us or can you be more creative?
A: We just use it as a conversation starter since we usually don't know what else we can say to start up a conversation.

Abercrombie and fitch, hollister, hot topic, etc. really who gives a damn? Its all just clothes!
To you it might just be clothes, but some of us feel that these clothes make us who we are. Besides, dressing up & such can be fun for us.

Q: Do you girls understand that "secret" is not an invitation to share with your closest 20 friends?
A: I do, but mostly ever girl you'll ever meet will dish out what you told us. Hey, it gives us something to talk about, just like how some guys kiss & tell.

Q: How the heck do you get your pants on??
A: By getting them on.

Q: Do you have bras that unhooks in the front or the back.
A: LMAO. Both, but most girls use the bras that unhook in the back.

Q: girl keeps making references to being "together" and "seeing me" and "me and you" etc. Does she want to really be with you?
A: Yes.

Q: Honestly, do most girls enjoy an awesome personality over looks or are many just shallow?
A: Well, we like both, I'm not gonna lie. You gotta look good while you have that awesome personality w/ you.

Q: Why wear thongs...to school?
A: Because... you do. But I think why some girls *coughslutscough* show off their thongs to the world is for attention.

Q: Why do girls focus on such little things about their appearance (hair, nails, etc.) when all guys care about is the big picture (how you look overall)?
A: The littles things make up how we look overall, & besides, fixing ourselves makes us feel better about ourselves.

Q: Girls travel in pairs almost always. Why?
A: Because... we just do.

Q: Does it really matter if a guy has cold hands sometimes? Is it a big turnoff?
A: Nah, but it's nice if the guy's hand can warm mine up, & no, it isn't a big turnoff.

Q: Why do girls completely avoid guys that they're pissed off at sometimes?
A: Sometimes like you guys need times to yourselves to think, we need times for ourselves to think about things. That also helps us get over it & calm down.

Q: I know that hugs mean just friends. Can they Ever, EVER mean that the girl sort of likes the guy?
A: Depends on the way she hugs you. Like, if she gives you a longer (& maybe tighter) hug than everyone else she hugs, she could possibly like you.

Q: Girls act alot differently with guys they have crushes on then those who are just their friends. True or false?
A: True.

Q: How easily do you girls really understand subliminal messages?
A: Not that easily. For some reason, we always feel the need for MORE proof that you like us.

Q: When a girl messes up and you ask advice from another girl why does she always say, "Well shes a girl."
A: I don't get you.

Q: omg why do girls complain so damn much?!and why do they act so b-tchy?
A: Well, not girls complain all that much, but I guess that the reason they complain is that they need someone to hear them out. & sometimes girls act bitchy either because we're not getting something our way, we're simply in a bad mood, or are really bummed out about something they heard.

Q: Why do some girls like saying they aren't shallow but then they only hang out with a specific group of friends whom they don't like but make them look cool?
A: Maybe the only reason they say they're not shallow is to not look bad, just the way they hang out w/ a certain crowd of people to look cool. Makes sense?

Q: Why do girls like to tinker with the hearts of boys?
A: They've probably had their heart broken in the past & most likely don't really trust guys.

Q: Why do girls always smell good? Is it possible for a guy to smell better?
A: LOL. Because we apply lotion & all that stuff. & yes, it is possible. You just have to spend as much time pampering yourself as we do (this should be easy if you're metrosexual).

Q: In the dictionary of women, is there a word in there that looks like this?
Idunno
An answer to all questions. A universal philosophy.
A: Go look at the first question I answered.

Q: Why do girls insist on liking our adorable/embarassed side? We try hard to build up the whole tough-guy facade, why break it down????? lmao.
A: Because it's cute. & besides, it really means something when a guy shows us his sensitive side, especially since most guys try acting tough & all that stuff.

Q: Why can't girls just be straight up? What's the big cover for? Say what you mean and mean what you say!
A: Because we're afraid of what you'll say, what you'd think, & all that. But eventually as we trust you more, we'll learn to be more straightfoward about things. Just give us time.

Q: Do women really want voluptuous breasts?
A: LOL no.

Q: Why do many girls not like eating in front of guys?
A: Some girls get embarrassed. Some also feel fat, therefore they don't eat. Most of the time, when a girl does this, she has a low self-esteem.

Q: why do girls go to the bathroom in packs and stay there for roughly 15 min in what should take at max 5
A: Girl talk.

Q: Why are woman such bitches to each other, almost vicious
A: That's the way we are. When we don't like someone, we're bitches.

You're all replying that it depends on the context. You know, that's the confusing part. There usually is no unusual context.

Girls are confusing because they expect you to understand how they are feeling through no actions at all, though guys usually have absolutely no idea how the girl is feeling in these occasions.

For example.
Guy: What movie do you want to watch?
Girl: Anything you want. *secretly wants guy to pick The Notebook*
Guy: Okay, lets watch Saw.
Girl: *sad*
Guy: What's wrong?
Girl: Nothing.
Guy: Oh, okay.
Girl: *sadder*

The guy has no idea what's going on, and why. The girl thinks the guy does, but doesn't want to pay attention to her feelings.

Girls are confusing because they communicate with subliminal messages and get disappointed when guys don't pick them up. They're confusing because they expect guys to always be thinking about what they mean about random statements. I'm not saying girls enjoy thinking this way, I'm saying thats how they think.

Exactly. I honestly think it's better for a girl to be straightfoward, that way, in the future the guy will atleast have a clue about what she wants.

[doork]

If you girls want to ask questions you don't understand about us guys, go ahead.

Okays.

Do guys perferr the smart and pretty girl or the know-nothing slutty DIME PIECE?

Thats a serious question because most of the guys I know goes for the DIME PIECES. lols.

[xyzzy314]

Do guys perferr the smart and pretty girl or the know-nothing slutty DIME PIECE?

Seriously, sometimes our wang thinks for us so we go for that perfect dime piece just to get some action and something to boast about. Yea, unfortunately looks go over personality for most guys, BUT, sometimes that smart and pretty girl can be extremely irresistable, and if a guy gets to know both, he might forget about that slut and go for the smart but extremely cute girl. At our school, there was this girl who was extremely "smart", would always ask the teacher questions, answered every question, debate club, glasses, huge bookback, all of that stuff but her looks + personalty made her extremely irresistable and tons of guys had crushes on her.

[*Uronacid*]

AGH!!!! when you say, "whats wrong?" and they say, "nothing.." and there is something seriously wrong and they won't say it....

When they don't say how they feel.. they imply how they feel and expect you to understand them...

When they complain about you treating them like crap, and when you treat them nice they walk allover you...

[marzipan]

what does a guy usually do to show a girl he likes her?

[AngelinaTaylor]

AGH!!!! when you say, "whats wrong?" and they say, "nothing.." and there is something seriously wrong and they won't say it....

When they don't say how they feel.. they imply how they feel and expect you to understand them...

When they complain about you treating them like crap, and when you treat them nice they walk allover you...

We say "nothing" because we either don't want to talk about it, or it's something you should know. Either way, just keep trying to get more information.

And because we complain about treating us like shit, treat us nice and we'll love you :)

Taylor``

[sarcastic biscui...]

AGH!!!! when you say, "whats wrong?" and they say, "nothing.." and there is something seriously wrong and they won't say it....

When I do that, I usually want whoever to persist until I give in and tell them. Because I don't feel like saying it outright, and I want them to show that they care enough to not give up after one "what's wrong" and laugh and be happy and join their perky little friends. /venting

[doom_diver]

OK my questions:

Why do girls want to put on make-up? - Frankly, I find no use for them. If you are pretty, all boys will look at you anyways. If you are ugly, no make-up can help.

Why are girls always late? - Is being on time THAT hard?

Why do you always ask about your appearance and when someone tells the truth, you freak out?- Well, girls seems to love white lies.

Why do girls only hang out with the 'popular' people?

Is is that hard for girls to put some effort into school?- No offence to any that do, but is it that hard to do homework that takes 15 minutes, instead of acting pretty to the teacher and make up lame excuses?

What is school to girls? - It doesnt seem like they treat it as a place to learn

What place does intelligence of boys in the hearts of girls? - Never understand why girls like boys who gets D- for exams

Thats all for now..............

[*RiC3xBoy*]

Is farting and burping in fron of you bad?

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

Why do girls want to put on make-up?
Make up DOES work actually. Look at the prettiest girls in school who you think don't wear make up. They actually do they just find ways to make it natural. Make up makes us look better in some ways. I looked real pretty with make up when my aunt had her wedding.

Why are girls always late?
Well it depends on what's making them so late: traffic or not knowing which dress to wear.

Why do you always ask about your appearance and when someone tells the truth, you freak out?
I'm a girl and I hate it when my sister does it. Those girls are just attention whores.

Why do girls only hang out with the 'popular' people?
Boosts their self-confidence and preserves their "reputation"

Is is that hard for girls to put some effort into school?
Do you really think this happens often? Every girl in my school works hard academically..excepy for a few.

What is school to girls?
To me, school is a place where insecure girls can bitch/make fun of/ say bullshit about people to make themselves look better

What place does intelligence of boys in the hearts of girls?
My friends and I prefer intelligent boys actually. Stupid boys are clueless creatures who cannot do anything for girls. The girls who like stupid boys probably just want him to stay oblivious about what she wants with him.

Is farting and burping in fron of you bad?
That depends on the mood. When I'm on a good mood I'd laugh and say "that's gross" in a joking way. If I'm a bit tired I'd ignore it. If I'm pissed off I'll just ignore it.

[lanbexx]

if she says "youre fly is open" and you say "so's your mouth" is that plus or negative points

[AngelinaTaylor]

Why do girls want to put on make-up? - It's not a matter of ugly/beautiful. People wear it to enhance their features, or for self-expression, or simply for confidence. I don't see a problem with that. Besides, half the guys don't even know when most girls are wearing make up. One of my guy friends was surprised that I do, even after knowing me for three years.

Why are girls always late? - That's sexist. Men are late too.

Why do you always ask about your appearance and when someone tells the truth, you freak out?- because women like hearing that they're pretty.

Why do girls only hang out with the 'popular' people? - not specific to girls.

Is is that hard for girls to put some effort into school?- No offence to any that do, but is it that hard to do homework that takes 15 minutes, instead of acting pretty to the teacher and make up lame excuses? - sorry, but you're arrogant and sexist. Will it surprise you that I have straight A's (in BOTH high school and music school)? And yes, I'm a female. Also, it's been proven that recently, more females than males have gone to university.

What is school to girls? - It doesnt seem like they treat it as a place to learn. - I can argue the same thing about guys. That's just bullshit.

What place does intelligence of boys in the hearts of girls? - it depends who you ask :) Most girls go for the hot, but stupid type.

if she says "youre fly is open" and you say "so's your mouth" is that plus or negative points

Uh.. negative.

Taylor``

[doork]

Is farting and burping in fron of you bad?

Yeah.. for me it is.

[doom_diver]

Well Angelina sorry if I offended you. What I said was just the situation in my school (Well, all the boys work hard but the girls dont........)

[*Steph Chan*]

What I want right now is a chicken breast. or thigh.

I'm super hungry.

Oh yeah... and about that. Why do many girls not like eating in front of guys?

I don't think i've seen anybody answer this.
Sometimes I have a problem eating in front of guys.. but only the ones that I like.
esp. in school. i think maybe it's because if i eat too much i think i'm gonna look really fat?
& no i do not have an eating disorder.

[redpeony]

Why can't girls just be straight up? What's the big cover for? Say what you mean and mean what you say!

This might sound a little evil, but for me personally... at first I refuse to be completely straight up with a guy to 'test' him... and to guard my own heart I guess. In case something doesn't work out, I still have my pride and didn't reveal my true thoughts. And also I want to see if the guy is interested enough to try to pry the real truth out of me (of course I'm sure most guys will because of curiosity anyway). I like it when a guy figures out where he went wrong without me telling him so there's a bigger chance his apology is sincere. I know that sounds pretty bad but that is how I've rationalized the way I see and do it.

Why do many girls not like eating in front of guys?

Only in front of the guys I like in the initial stage of a relationship or before I get comfortable with him, because I'm so preoccupied with being interesting and talking I guess... it's an insecurity issue; one that I don't really experience at the moment because I've been with my boyfriend for quite a long time.

Why are girls always late?

Shut up. Males are so much worse in that department.

What place does intelligence of boys in the hearts of girls?

A lot. At least for me, my man better be smarter than I am, seeing as he is supposed to be the leader and take care of me. Plus intelligence in studies most often directly correlates to his character and his willingness to work hard.

Is farting and burping in front of you bad?

Only if you're anal and call me immature when I laugh.