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 Jun 20 2006, 06:50 AM
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hi!
im suret, 23. im a malaysian. im working as an executive officer. i love a vietnamese operator who working in my factory. she is 25. we love very deeply... but im confused... shall i marry a foreigner? what is the rules? what i should do? someone please advice me..... am i right? |
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Jun 20 2006, 07:00 AM
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Could your write all of that better and explain your suitation and what you want to know? I don't exactly get what your seeking advice in?
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Jun 20 2006, 07:12 AM
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Well, you should always follow your heart, and do what you think is right.
I'm not sure of any "rules" and such about this sort of thing. In America, it's sometimes advised not to date coworkers, but there are usually no problems with dating foreigners, and even the coworker thing isn't a big deal. I'm not sure how your culture handles these sorts of situations, though, so it's hard to say. |
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Jun 20 2006, 07:14 AM
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 Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
if you love her, then why not? but just do what you think is right.
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Jun 20 2006, 07:15 AM
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"follow your heart"
that statement bothers me at times. But do that I suppose. Do what you feel is right and do it. |
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Jun 20 2006, 10:11 AM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
If you really like her..sure. Its not a bad thing to marry a foreigner.
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Jun 21 2006, 10:21 PM
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hi everyone...
today i would like to share my life story with all of you. i'm a male from malaysia. basically i suffered a lot in my young age. im 19 years old now. my family is very complicated. my father is an alcohol addicted. i dont know where is him now.. i have 1 younger sister, 1 elder sister and 1 elder brother. 1 elder sister passed away in a accident when i was 17 years old. my elder brother married a woman and settled in singapore. he dont want to return home or help family. my elder sister married and settled but not contribute to my family. now im staying with my mother 50 years old and my younger sister studying in nearby school. im working in a nearby factory. im afford all family expenses, house rental, foods, electricity, water bill, sister school fare and a lot. actually i supposed to continue my studies after i'd finished my high school. but as my family situation, i'd started to work. but my current job consider a good offer. but unfortunately this company is very unstable. now i'm wonder a lot how i'm going to afford my family.. and now im love a co-worker. she was a foreign girl. we love each other a lot. she is the one who can share my tears.... and i'd never been happy in my teenage.. everyday a new problem... in my family.. actually i had a plan to work in foreign country to earn more money so that i can afford my family. but unfortunately the chances less. now i'm very confused... i dont know how im gonna build up my sister life... take care my mother... buy a house...afford family.. besides my personal life.. how should i build my career....? what i should plan...? what i should do....shouldn't do...? please advise me... and if you think you can help me... please tell me.. im very confused on my future... -------------------- life is like an ocean... wider... i'm a swimmer..... i swim... swim.. and swim... very long journey, no end... i'm finding a single drop in the ocean.... """ OMG ARE YOU LYING?!?!? i got this quote from a previous topic by the SAME person "SINGLEDROP IN DA OCEAN" how can in one topic you say that you are 19 and in this topic you say that you are 23? dude this is not the place for liars and be serious and tell the truth that is really dumb if you have to go saying in one place your some age and the next your some other age.... |
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Jun 25 2006, 10:49 PM
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QUOTE(iROCKYOURSOCKS @ Jun 21 2006, 11:21 PM)  hi everyone... today i would like to share my life story with all of you. i'm a male from malaysia. basically i suffered a lot in my young age. im 19 years old now. my family is very complicated. my father is an alcohol addicted. i dont know where is him now.. i have 1 younger sister, 1 elder sister and 1 elder brother. 1 elder sister passed away in a accident when i was 17 years old. my elder brother married a woman and settled in singapore. he dont want to return home or help family. my elder sister married and settled but not contribute to my family. now im staying with my mother 50 years old and my younger sister studying in nearby school. im working in a nearby factory. im afford all family expenses, house rental, foods, electricity, water bill, sister school fare and a lot. actually i supposed to continue my studies after i'd finished my high school. but as my family situation, i'd started to work. but my current job consider a good offer. but unfortunately this company is very unstable. now i'm wonder a lot how i'm going to afford my family.. and now im love a co-worker. she was a foreign girl. we love each other a lot. she is the one who can share my tears.... and i'd never been happy in my teenage.. everyday a new problem... in my family.. actually i had a plan to work in foreign country to earn more money so that i can afford my family. but unfortunately the chances less. now i'm very confused... i dont know how im gonna build up my sister life... take care my mother... buy a house...afford family.. besides my personal life.. how should i build my career....? what i should plan...? what i should do....shouldn't do...? please advise me... and if you think you can help me... please tell me.. im very confused on my future... -------------------- life is like an ocean... wider... i'm a swimmer..... i swim... swim.. and swim... very long journey, no end... i'm finding a single drop in the ocean.... """ OMG ARE YOU LYING?!?!? i got this quote from a previous topic by the SAME person "SINGLEDROP IN DA OCEAN" how can in one topic you say that you are 19 and in this topic you say that you are 23? dude this is not the place for liars and be serious and tell the truth that is really dumb if you have to go saying in one place your some age and the next your some other age.... LOL THE INTERNET honestly nobody cares |
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Jun 26 2006, 01:44 AM
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 Mrs. Delonge Group: Member Posts: 426 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,185 |
um if you love her marry her
there are no rules!!! seriously! if the shoe fits, wear it, if you love the girl, marry her!! of course don't marry her if she don't love you back 
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Jun 26 2006, 08:35 PM
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QUOTE(magicfann @ Jun 25 2006, 10:49 PM) LOL THE INTERNET honestly nobody cares yea but HONESTLY its a waste of time if other people take THEIR time to read his problems and try to find out a solution when they can be reading other peoples problems you know what i mean? anywayz you are right it is the internet and he can lie all he wants but he can do it without making another topic about the basically the same thing =) |
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