Are you one of those girls?, Because I am.. Options

[j-kw0n]

Hmm. I'm not really sure if we have the same case...

But guys at my school are just jerks <_< So, I don't have a lot of guy friend at my school, I'm 13 in 8th Grade. I just have a few... but I have MORE girlfriends. But when it comes to Highschool friends, I got more guys friends. So basically, most of my guy friends are in Highschool, like I was with Thai Club, && NONE of the girls talked to me or anything, it was mostly the guys, I was with them the whoel time. But when it comes to Junior High guys, I only have a few guys friends, not a lot. I don't know, but I'm not girly either, I DON'T PUT ON MAKE UP, actually, I even hate make up >.< But I mean, I do talk about shopping and about hot guys... but no, I'm not girly. I mean, I love A&F && Hco tho... but yea, I don't know. Welps, I hate wearing dresses though, like on Graduation Day, I was htinking of just wearing as pair of jeans and a shirt and jacket, I hate dresses <.< && I totally hate make up, eye shadow, etc whatever. Though I do use body spray and all.

Sometimes, I even hate girls. Some are just soo vsbdchjsbdncjdnbjs, GRR. && but guys at my school are retarded... but maybe when I get to highschool I MIGHT get more guy friends.

I think my case is weird, I only get along with older guys, guys in Highschool...

[mickybeans]

And here I was thinking that I was the only girl that had that problem!!

I'm just like you, almost exactly! I think because I grew up with two brothers, I was always really tomboyish. I'm not like a... to the extreme tomboy but I don't wear makeup and I just don't really CARE too much for all that jewelry and girly stuff. Majority of my friends are guys, and my boyfriend haaaates that. He always tells me that guys and girls can never just be "friends". There's always a reason. But I've been like for as long as I can remember. I always hung out with my brothers and their friends, it's always been that way. I hate it whenever I hear about girls having sleepovers or "girls night out". I've never had those before and I wish that I could! I mean, although I'm not into all that makeup and girly jazz, it would still be nice to have some girl FRIENDS, you know?

I do have some girl friends but it'sjust not that same... connection that I have with my guys. And oh goodness, a lot of the Asian girls at my school that DON'T talk or associate with me, HATE me. Only because they say that I am a flirt, a tease, and that I'm "too good" for the other girls. It's horrible because I don't like to be labelled like that, although I know that I am not. I always tell my guy friends about it but they just tell me to not worry about it, because I know that that's not true.

Plus I can never really get along with girls around here. They are all always into gossip, trash talking, etc. It's disgusting, I hate being around them. They're just not my people. And if they are, then they are JUST like me as well, can't stand the girls around them.

Ahh I'm sorry that I couldn't answer your questions because I actually want to know myself how I can attain girl friends as well. I just wanted to reply and tell you, I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL!!

[priyas]

i can relate to girls more. cuz im a girl.

[sarahjung]

Okay, a couple more questions. BTW, I'm so so so happy that I'm not alone in this. =]

1. Do you ever feel like you're weird or you did something wrong to make girls "avoid" you?

2. Do you feel more awkward around girls than guys?

Yeahhh, 'cause that's how I feel. Like I said before, I'd much rather have girl friends than guy friends, because as much as I'm not girly, I'm still a girl. I still get my period, have boy problems, and dress in American Eagle. Girls are definitely the best to talk about these things with, and I wish I could have that. I have my sister, but she's leaving for college this year. I just really wish that girls were as easy to get along with as guys are. Guys accept you for who you are. Girls constantly judge, critisize and gossip. I hate how all girls say, "If you have drama, I don't want to talk to you because I hate drama." DUDE. Everyone has drama. It's a fact. Without drama, your life would be a boring, lifeless...nothing. Drama is the center of all girl conversations/lives. Don't kid yourself by saying you hate drama. It's hypocritical.

Okay...I kinda rambled off there. I need to get some things off my chest, obviously. =\

[swimgirlarc]

i know exactly how you feel
when i talk to girls, they seem to be turned off by me because i look at things the way they are. The hard facts of life. I get along better with guys because of this. I can relate to guys because i can put things into perspective like they can and make fun of it. I totally know what you ;mean by the "drama". I dont really want a bf till college either, and girls think i'm gonig out with a guy just because he rides me places or we go to the movies just to hang out...not as a date at all. Then the rumors start. I cant really get into the whole fashion thing either. Like i dont really care what I look like. just as long as i look presentable. It drives my mom crazy, because when we go shopping, i cant stand trying on clothes that are in style over and over again. I just like wearing what I like. Also when we're going to like a semi formal ceremony, like a banquet, she always complains i dont have enough makeup on. i put on eyeliner in the corners of my eyes, mascara, and copper eyeshadow. She thinks i need the bronzer and loads more mascara. It makes me feel like theres something wrong with me because i dont want to look like a geisha girl.


i mean i'm not like a tomboy liek you said. I like skirts once in a while, and like experimenting with different haircuts.
I like trying on shoes too, but I never end up buying them because I know i'd only wear them once and then shove them in the back of my closet like all my other non-sneaker shoes.

When i do talk to girls though, its like i feel out of place because i cant talk about who's going out with who and all that gossip. I mean I like gossip and everything, but only if it affects me in some way. Who doesnt like gossip? seriously i think my dad likes it more than i do. I just dont have an interest in what girls talk about. all they care about is what they're going to wear and how they look. the thing is, there are girls just like me at my school, but they're either gothic, do some kind of drug, or skip class and fail. I just cant hang out with someone like that because ya know...it'll drag me down.

but i totally know what you mean.
with guys i can have a decent conversation.
I cant seem to connect with girls...they bore me...the girly girl ones that is

or it maybe just because i'm a cynical, pessimistic person.

: )

[livia208]

i dont have any problem like ur but my problem is i dont have that much guys friend i dont know why? if i dont have much guys friend would that mean its going to be hard for me to find a boyfriend

[Miayako]

Girls basicly suck. I have alot of online girlfriends, and in real life, at school, I have alot of girl friends. But I never hang with girls. I love hanging with my guy friends.

[jealoushearts]

That definitely sounds like me.

[makeshiftwings]

somewhat.
guys are sometimes easier to be around, and they tend to be easier to talk to. their world doesn't revolve around gossip, drama, and whether or not some girl is wearing the right shade of compact. you can just hang out and be casual with guys.

but i still think it's fun to have girl friends, too, because you can be able to talk about things that only other girls relate to.

[*This Confession*]

well when i was in school
i was the exact same as you

yay

hah.
I just sort of got over it and just
didn't care what other people think.
Easpecially girls that sit there and get
all jealous because im friends with the
guy they supposedly love..
Although my only probably with it
is that i would be in the middle of to
much stupid pointless drama.

so really
i wouldn't worry about it.
just let them think all this stuff
and just sit back and laugh
and be who you are. =]

[SarahxJoy]

Well, there are a lot of times when guys are easier to get along with, due to the fact that yeah---they don't all of that girly stuff (gossiping, being boy-crazy, and whatnot).

But I have about an even amount of guy and girl friends, so..I don't know.

[eccentricity]

^Yeah. I have an even amount, but sometimes I like hanging out with guys more because they're easier to talk to. And sometimes I do feel awkward around my girl friends.

I think guys are easier to talk to than girls.. it also depends how close you are with the guy. And they're more fun to talk to and joke around with.

[xCrys]

Haha, I had that problem when I was in school... It was hilarious though. I just let the girls think what they wanted to. The guys knew I wasn't girly, and that's why I didn't have many female friends. I guess the guys just liked to use my homework answers, and the fact I wouldn't spill whatever they told me... Maybe the fact I played sports too... hm...

Just ignore them. If thats what they think.. Let them.

& I wasn't very good at the whole, socializing the way girls do, thing either... plus guys don't have PMS, so they don't get moody with you all of the sudden ;] Haha, and if you're desperate on becoming friends with a girl, just treat em the way you do the guys, talk normally, if they don't like you, thats their issue, not yours

[msladyliberty]

Ah!! It's the *Fitting IN* issue!

In highschool....I hung out with the party girls...when deep down inside...I'm really a nerd. I wanted popularity or whutever...and when i tried to hang out with the *smarter* people...they made me feel dumb...'cuz my friends were.

Well...my friends did me wrong in highschool...so my highschool years are the worst years of my life!

Now I'm friends with smarter people in college.

I think you're doing the right thing...you're comfortable with the guys...and that's ok! you're in highschool...and of course most girls in high school ( i "used" to be one of them) have nothing better to do than gossip and judge. That's how high school is! Everyone is a judge whether you like it or not.

Just be smart about it...don't care what anyone thinks. Those other girls ain't your friends...right? They're not the ones who grade your essays or wipe yer a$$...

[PrincessAda]

I`m still in Middle School where the guys are still childish..soo yeah.But hanging with guys don`t mean you just wanna get with them..but if I was you..then I would start to hang with girls more or try to balance it out.

[typh-a-knee]

Oh yes. It spawns alot of problems when I actually am in a relationship. I get called a caker/flirt ALOT. And it's really annoying especially when I've known these dudes since snot nose days. Like with my ex for example. He'd get mad when I'd say hi to them in the hallways and it was quite frustrating because we'd argue about it everyday. And it got to the point where I just felt like dropping everyone and asking him if he was happy, but I realized I can't just x out everyone for someone that isn't guaranteed to stay and whatnot.

[AnnahhbeL]

I'm more of a tomboy at heart.
On the outside, I look more girly.
But on the inside, I hate drama, makeup, and people that use the word "like" and keep on repeating it over and over in a sentence. I may try to drees up all nice, but that's only on the looks.

I have more guy friends than girls.

[Crich323]

I'm not like that, but I have a friend is.
She's just friends with guys and all the girls hate her for it.
She's a great friend though, but the only problem is that sometimes she will ditch me for the guys but, like you, she doesn't want a boyfriend for awhile.

[iminlovewithTomD...]

Well, being as I'm in a Christian school with like Nine dudes in my grade, and that like two thirds of them think I'm a total suicidal freak because of Will (a.k.a. mr. bitchypants), I'm not capable of having many male friends except the ones that are my brother's friends... But personally, I like guys waaay better than girls. I mean... they're like more real. I mean girls are real, too... But there's something about how free they seem... Like they don't give a sh*t about their appearance or anything. And they're more open and crap... it's amazing.

[swaying]

im able to sometimes connect with girls but lets face it they are Snobs..and they always give me dirty looks whenever i do something that they dont like...

i connect way better with guys...because their jks are funnier and they always goof off...mommy like to goof off!!

[doork]

Yeah, I`m a little bit like that.. I love hanging out with guys because they`re not drama-ish and i dont know.. Its hard to trust females over here. They`re messy.. but guys they`re laid back and yeah.. But the thing is that I can talk and hang out with both types of gender so yeah..

[Cupidangel81092]

If u didn't explain b4, I thought u were lesbian. lOL okay. it doesn't really matter who u hang out with. It's who u go out that is comfortable. Maybe you like to be friend with ppl that is not GIRLY so u like to hang out with guys. I am kinda a bit like u too. Like sometimes. LOL!