How'd you find out he/she liked you?, Your bf/gf... Options

[SeoulJah4God]

We were really great friends to start with and the school dance was coming up so i asked if she would go with me. Then i asked her as i walked her home.

[iambaybala]

haha uHh he told me

[twistedfate]

he told me and then asked me out, how else? i hate that 'i told my best friend who told his best friend and then his best friend told my best friend that he liked me too' that just bothers me soooo badly

[177emories]

well here it is... my bf goes to uni and i'm still in HS so ummm if did NOT go around the school lol...

first we hang out with a bunch of friends, and than after that he asked me to go to the moves with him like just me and him, and than during the middle of the movie he asked me if i like him (i did and for a long while too but i didn't tell him) so i'm just like uhhh i dunno... and he's like well i do! and than asked me out...

so yeah thats how he told me he likes me lol

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

him n i were making up hypothetical situations about a girl liking this guy etc. etc. etc. we both know we were talking about each other. but it was all the fun of the game =] .. so we kept talking like that for a while and eventually we just decided to meet up and it all happened from there hehe.

[lemonlina]

After a while I suspected he might like me so I asked him and he said yes. x]

[Re-Mixxed]

Hmm ..He used to stare at me alot, not just glance but i mean STARE . Me, not being VERY bright didn't think much of it untill it got a bit scary, i liked him, but i just didn't admit to it . So then, i asked why he kept staring (IN A NICE WAY),then he got a bit shy and turned red and told me that he liked me . I thought that what he was doing was a bit Cute, so then without thinking, i blurted out that i liked him as well, then he started grinning. So then we got hooked . BUT, i dumped him because i didn't really want to be in a relationship, but we still chat and we're the best of friends.

[hannie]

uhhmm.. my frend randomly told me that he liked me a lot and we barely talked cuz he went to the neighboring highschool, but at my bday party there were some vibes haha and i had a tiny crush on him but i didnt think i had a chance !

[straightedge9]

i found out last year when he wrote me a note saying that he wanted to go out with me.... and so of course i said yes, he's the sweetest guy i know... we split up because he was going off to another school and i wasnt, yet he always slipped in a little "i love you" whenever he could... then i got over him, then about 4 months ago, i started to reallllllly like him again, but he got a girlfriend....and he even wrote me another note to tell me about it.....

[sandra]

we were good friends, talked everyday on msn and then we started talking everyday on the phone. yep, i began to like him and i guess he figured. so he asked me if i like him and i said yea.

[x0143637x0]

he told me and then ppl started to see whats going on after a few weeks

[Caitlin]

his best friend told me because he was too chicken to tell me.

[MiszAmy04]

This is...er...a very hard question to answer? Me and my boyfriend knew eachother for a year before actually going out. And...I hated him. I absolutely abhorred him. In fact, I wanted him dead at times. In my mind, he was annoying, self-centered, mean, perverted, and just utterly wrong. Well, then I was shocked to find out...I was wrong entirely about him. In the months after he became a great friend, he always supported me, even when he knew what I was doing was stupid. The many times my ex-boyfriend broke my heart, he was always there to talk to me, and then...I would always get back with my ex. I still wasn't close to my current boyfriend, even though I was very open with him, because he was just easy to open up to. Here's where I found out that he liked me as more than I friend, I just didn't know he loved me at that point. My ex once again hurt me, and I was furious. I HATED all guys. I went to my current boyfriend, who was just a friend at that point, and was all like, "Ya know what, f*** guys...I'm bi, I'll just go lesbian and date a girl. I'm sick and tired of getting toyed with and hurt by guys like (insert ex-boyfriend's name here)". Well, we were only IMing at the time, and before I know it, he gets mad, and starts "..."ing like he's upset. So I ask him what's wrong, and he replies, "The girl I like...pretty much just stated I never have a chance with her." Well, stupid little me didn't realize until later that he was talking about me. So, I just said, "Oh, I'm so sorry." How stupid am I? Anyways, then he got offline, and disappears for a long time. And...that's when I realize just how much I miss him, and that maybe...just maybe I could like him...as more than a friend...and maybe I could love him. But, stupid girl that I am, I got back with my ex for the umptenth time. L****, my boyfriend now, finally got to where he talked to me again, after what felt like forever of not talking. And we grew close yet again, I still complained about my had been boyfriend (who was still my boyfriend at this time), and he just kept with it, but something I did that really surprised me, I flirted with L****. Anyways, my boyfriend and I took "seperate time" from eachother the Monday before Valentines. L**** started calling, we talked nonstop. I was his Valentine on Valentine's day. We talked for a long time, then he had to go for awhile (his friend was over), and then he called back around nine. I was home alone; until later that night. We talked, from 9p.m. to 2a.m. After we hung up, I was lovesick to be honest. I liked him, alot. I was like a lovesick puppy, but I didn't reveal that to him (now that we've been going out, he's told me that he felt the same way). Well, my ex and I officially broke up that Tuesday, and then February 18, the following Wednesday, I introduced L**** to my two bestfriends (who ironically are in a relationship with eachother). They really liked him. Then, L**** and myself found ourselves in a, "You know...if you wanted to, I'd go out with you, but you know, only if you wanted to, I mean, I'd want to to, you know?" conversation. Finally, after asking my friends for their permission, he asked me out that day. We've been going out for a little over three months, and I love him a ton. I also found out, that he's liked me a lot longer than I've liked him...

Hehehe...love is so odd...

Awwwwwwwwwwwww so sweet..i actually read word for word..heeh wish u two da bestest of luck..and sometimes i be feelin like i wanna become bi too..im like ..dese fucken guys play too much..so fudge it im gonna become gay..but nahh i was never close to bein a lesbian..lol

Hmmm..Well me and my bf knew each other for a lil over 8 months..but we was just normal friends..but we had a lot of things in common..and he made me laugh shit load of times..then he introduced me to his cousin..jes for us to become friends..but then we ended up going out for like 3 months..and while me and his cousin wus goin out..he told me dat he liked me a lot..since the 1st time we talked..and i think i did have feelings for him while i was with his cuzzin also..i know dats messtup..but i couldnt help it..so i ended up breakin up with him and 2 wks later..he asked me out..and of course i said yes..it has been 1 month and 11 days..*5.13.04*

[Winter]

I found out from his xanga. He didn't knew I read it.

[koreansaga510]

friends.. u gotta love them..

[sadolakced acid]

when her best friend asked me who i was.

upon revalation i was who i am, she mentioned that the girl talk about me a lot.

and plus, multiple people knew.

but that relationship crashed and burned and was never resurrected. it now lives as an undead zombie of a strained friendship.

[y0urmistake]

i knew he did, and he told me

[xBaBiEGrLx]

he told me..

[islandkiss]

hm.. my first bf.. current ex. he told me he liked me.

[Ekay]

well...i started to like her when she was dating another guy from another school..but she broke up w/ him like after a week so i was like F*** YEAH! anyway after that i kept buggin her about who she liked...and finally she cracked and said me..i was happy...no more like giddy i couldn't stop smiling

[Longhorn]

i did not really know he liked me as more than a friend because we were best friends and we had gone to a six flags and we were really tired to we went back home to sleep and then while we were in bed he just kissed me. it was nicce!

[inthemudhole]

Well, I had written 2 notes to 2 of my friends.. Liz and Zena.

Zena lost the note I gave her (it was about me liking Alec), and one of Alec's friends found it and noticed Alec's name in there, so, he gave it to Alec.

Then, Alec got ahold of a note I wrote to Liz (about me liking Alec once again).
So, Alec read both of the notes, and he signed online. He said that on one of the notes, he noticed "#1- Alec" (which meant he was #1 on my crush list) and he asked me about that. I wouldn't tell him. He said, "so, you hate me?" and I said, "the exact opposite" and he said "ohh.. well, I like you, too." and then it was all awkward. So, he finally said "Will you..... go.. out with me...??" and of course I said yes.

Wow. Sorry if that was confusing.
So, basically, he found a few notes about him, confronted me about it, guessed what they were about, was correct, told me how he felt about me, and then asked me out..

[ur_my_sweety20]

well me and my bf were friends like 4 months before we went out. then after i broke up with my ex, we became closer for 2 months. then one month, we started acting like a couple like being *wow ur so awesome, ur so cute, i want you* etc but we wernt going out at tht time cause neither of us actually said *do you wanna go out* but then on his birthday, he asked me if i wanted to go out w/ him and im like *yea DURR*. it was strange but it was fun and adorable XD

awww...how cute!!! that kinda seems like me and my bf

[laurn65]

he was a new student and in about 5 of my classes so we became good friends for the first couple of quarters of school. then he asked me out as 'friends'.. but everyone knew it was sorta more than that.

[kyootE_krn_bebe]

he was really..touchy..so i asked him if he had a reason that he was so touchy..or if he was just that touchy to everyone...