What is it about women that you don't understand?, for the confused male population |
 Jun 17 2006, 02:10 PM
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 daughter of sin  Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134  |
Ok, so I decided to make this thread about you (guys) and about what you don't really understand about us.
I (and any other females who want to post here) will try to answer your questions to clear up some of the confusion between the sexes, in fact, we may ask some questions ourselves. Taylor`` |
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Jun 18 2006, 11:11 AM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
A girl keeps making references to being "together" and "seeing me" and "me and you" etc. Does she want to really be with you?
Yes. Honestly, do most girls enjoy an awesome personality over looks or are many just shallow? Many are shallow. But a lot do care about personality. Why wear thongs...to school? Why, do you want us to wear them on a special occasion only? Haha.. It's just the type of underwear that some people wear. No one sees it, so it shouldn't matter. Why do girls focus on such little things about their appearance (hair, nails, etc.) when all guys care about is the big picture (how you look overall)? Because without those little things, the "overall look" wouldn't be so nice. Come on, man, that's pure logic. Girls travel in pairs almost always. Why? Because they gossip. And because it's a way of feeling "secure". Does it really matter if a guy has cold hands sometimes? Is it a big turnoff? That depends on each individual. Why do girls completely avoid guys that they're pissed off at sometimes? Because it's just a way that they deal with it. I know that hugs mean just friends. Can they Ever, EVER mean that the girl sort of likes the guy? I guess sometimes. Girls act alot differently with guys they have crushes on then those who are just their friends. True or false? Slightly true. How easily do you girls really understand subliminal messages? Sometimes easy, sometimes hard. By the way, those are very specific questions and most of them will vary on each person. ---------------------------- Why do some girls like saying they aren't shallow but then they only hang out with a specific group of friends whom they don't like but make them look cool? Because they ARE shallow. Why do girls like to tinker with the hearts of boys? Why do some boys like to tinker with the hearts of girls? That can be answered in many ways. Why do girls always smell good? Is it possible for a guy to smell better? Because girls use ALL sorts of different things. Body lotions, deodorants, perfumes... In the dictionary of women, is there a word in there that looks like this? Idunno An answer to all questions. A universal philosophy. Women have a hard time making up their minds. Why do girls insist on liking our adorable/embarassed side? We try hard to build up the whole tough-guy facade, why break it down????? lmao. Because the "tough-guy" thing is fake, most times. In a relationship, that thing doesn't matter at all. It's the romantic, sensitive side that we care about. Be tough with your guy friends. We're not guys. Again, those are mostly specific questions. Taylor`` |
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Jun 18 2006, 11:17 AM
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You're all replying that it depends on the context. You know, that's the confusing part. There usually is no unusual context.
Girls are confusing because they expect you to understand how they are feeling through no actions at all, though guys usually have absolutely no idea how the girl is feeling in these occasions. For example. Guy: What movie do you want to watch? Girl: Anything you want. *secretly wants guy to pick The Notebook* Guy: Okay, lets watch Saw. Girl: *sad* Guy: What's wrong? Girl: Nothing. Guy: Oh, okay. Girl: *sadder* The guy has no idea what's going on, and why. The girl thinks the guy does, but doesn't want to pay attention to her feelings. Girls are confusing because they communicate with subliminal messages and get disappointed when guys don't pick them up. They're confusing because they expect guys to always be thinking about what they mean about random statements. I'm not saying girls enjoy thinking this way, I'm saying thats how they think. |
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Jun 18 2006, 11:58 AM
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 Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
^ yeah, i'd say most of the time
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Jun 18 2006, 12:08 PM
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 Doesn't Smell Like Ham, Yo. Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 425,298 |
Girls are super confusing. Like, confusing as to why they call themself confusing. See? I'm getting confused just trying to explain myself.
How about: Why can't girls just be straight up? What's the big cover for? Say what you mean and mean what you say! |
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Jun 18 2006, 12:11 PM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
QUOTE(ermfermoo @ Jun 18 2006, 12:17 PM)  You're all replying that it depends on the context. You know, that's the confusing part. There usually is no unusual context. Girls are confusing because they expect you to understand how they are feeling through no actions at all, though guys usually have absolutely no idea how the girl is feeling in these occasions. For example. Guy: What movie do you want to watch? Girl: Anything you want. *secretly wants guy to pick The Notebook* Guy: Okay, lets watch Saw. Girl: *sad* Guy: What's wrong? Girl: Nothing. Guy: Oh, okay. Girl: *sadder* The guy has no idea what's going on, and why. The girl thinks the guy does, but doesn't want to pay attention to her feelings. Girls are confusing because they communicate with subliminal messages and get disappointed when guys don't pick them up. They're confusing because they expect guys to always be thinking about what they mean about random statements. I'm not saying girls enjoy thinking this way, I'm saying thats how they think. That's so true. The problem is that girls DO expect guys to just know things. But most don't understand that they have to communicate with them. You can't just expect them to read your mind. And the problem with guys is that they don't listen to women most of the time. Women have the NEED to talk. When they're upset, they talk. Unlike men - when THEY're upset, they have to do something physical (sports, etc.) A woman talks three times more than a guy does, daily. And when the guy doesn't give her the chance to talk, she gets moody and all that. Hmm.. went a little off topic. Taylor`` |
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Jun 18 2006, 12:49 PM
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QUOTE(ermfermoo @ Jun 18 2006, 9:17 AM) Girls are confusing because they communicate with subliminal messages and get disappointed when guys don't pick them up. They're confusing because they expect guys to always be thinking about what they mean about random statements. I'm not saying girls enjoy thinking this way, I'm saying thats how they think. A lot of women are like that, unfortunately. I'd love to say that it changes with age but it doesn't, it just evolves a bit. Instead of unspoken context being related to movies, it's unspoken context about the color of throw pillows. And no, we do not like thinking that way. I don't even think it's intentional. I can, if I may offer this bit of advice - Say words like, "Tell me what you think," "Tell me what you want," etc. It may seem like beating a dead horse, but eventually it will tear down those inhibitions, because that's what I think it is. Girls can be subliminally afraid to say what is on their mind. Eh, I had more to say, but I need coffee. |
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Jun 18 2006, 01:04 PM
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Doesn't Smell Like Ham, Yo. Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 425,298 |
On behalf of all guys, I apologize. We don't think of you as confusing at all.. -ahem- Now... what are you doing this friday? Maybe we could grab a cup of coffee?
Lol. I'm playing. But we tend to do this unintentional as well. Like look at other girls. It's not like I'm going home with the other random girl on the street... You are the one I'm gonna be with. This topic is getting us nowhere. I'm still super confused about girls. |
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Jun 18 2006, 01:38 PM
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QUOTE(ermfermoo @ Jun 18 2006, 6:17 PM) For example. Guy: What movie do you want to watch? Girl: Anything you want. *secretly wants guy to pick The Notebook* Guy: Okay, lets watch Saw. Girl: *sad* Guy: What's wrong? Girl: Nothing. Guy: Oh, okay. Girl: *sadder* LMFAO 
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Jun 18 2006, 01:58 PM
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Doesn't Smell Like Ham, Yo. Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 425,298 |
^it's funny because it's the truth!
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Jun 18 2006, 02:26 PM
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QUOTE(RiC3xBoy @ Jun 17 2006, 10:30 PM) No they don't. omg Kevin why are you so mean?! All I ask for is some respect! QUOTE Why do girls insist on liking our adorable/embarassed side? We try hard to build up the whole tough-guy facade, why break it down????? lmao. Because women are sensitive creatures. We (well most of us) look for sensitivity in a guy. I mean we don't want guys who are all touch in the inside AND the outside. How can you offer love if you're nothing but a dumb, expressionless brute? We want to know you're capable of showing feeling. |
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Jun 18 2006, 05:07 PM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
I don't see what's so confusing about us. There are basically two types of women - normal ones and those who've been hurt. The normal ones just want to be loved and will love again, and they'll do basically anything for their man.
The other ones can't really be trusted and they don't really trust men much. They're the ones who've been somehow scarred from the past - abusive relationships, cheating, etc. They will leave before you can hurt them or they will give you wounds instead. However, once they're loved and respected, and once they feel secure, they can get back to normal. Taylor`` |
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Jun 18 2006, 05:26 PM
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QUOTE(The Nocturnal Phantom @ Jun 18 2006, 10:04 AM) Why do girls insist on liking our adorable/embarassed side? We try hard to build up the whole tough-guy facade, why break it down????? lmao. Make no mistake, these are serious questions. I am desperate and anxious for an answer. lol  the answer to that? i really don't know but it's so true. maybe it's because girls like to think that they are capable of making a guy (that they like) react in a 'non-manly' manner? I know that's how i think at least 
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Jun 18 2006, 05:27 PM
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^x2 normal ones? <_< to me there are two types of women. Women who can take pain and move on and ones who might need extra time to do things. In a certain point of view, no one is normal, and in another point of view, most us are normal. I just thought it was harsh that you'd say the other type of women aren't normal <___________<
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Jun 18 2006, 06:56 PM
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Hey I have one. How come girls hair always smell good??? My friend noticed too like we try some nice shampoo but it just doesn't work like it does for girls. Yeah even the flowery smelling ones. Is it cuz they got long hair or what?
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Jun 18 2006, 07:04 PM
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Do women really want voluptuous breasts?
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Jun 18 2006, 07:22 PM
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Only because of men.
I dontknow. |
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Jun 18 2006, 07:52 PM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
QUOTE(RiC3xBoy @ Jun 18 2006, 8:04 PM) Do women really want voluptuous breasts? Yes. Haha.. I don't know. Some do. QUOTE(Tribal J_Rome @ Jun 18 2006, 7:56 PM) Hey I have one. How come girls hair always smell good??? My friend noticed too like we try some nice shampoo but it just doesn't work like it does for girls. Yeah even the flowery smelling ones. Is it cuz they got long hair or what? It probably is because we have long hair.. but I'm no expert at hair :P Taylor`` |
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Jun 19 2006, 02:39 PM
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QUOTE(RiC3xBoy @ Jun 19 2006, 2:04 AM) Do women really want voluptuous breasts? Not all of them. I don't. |
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Jun 19 2006, 03:28 PM
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i want voluptuous breast
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Jun 19 2006, 05:08 PM
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Doesn't Smell Like Ham, Yo. Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 425,298 |
What I want right now is a chicken breast. or thigh.
I'm super hungry. Oh yeah... and about that. Why do many girls not like eating in front of guys? |
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Jun 19 2006, 05:33 PM
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^ Yeah, somebody explain that to me too. I don't get it. Girls like that piss me off.
I remember the first time my boyfriend n I went out to eat ..It was at KFC. I had a stomach ache n I couldn't eat (esp fast food cus it would make things worse) so I told him I didn't want anything. He got realllly frustrated n gave me this big talk about girls not wanting to eat in front of guys. " I knowww females!! Gosh " lalalala. |
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Jun 19 2006, 05:40 PM
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Girls going to the bathroom with there friends.....
 what's with that? i mean i have an idea but im not sure....
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Jun 19 2006, 05:49 PM
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QUOTE(Programmer @ Jun 19 2006, 3:40 PM) Girls going to the bathroom with there friends..... what's with that? i mean i have an idea but im not sure.... if you're thinking dirty thoughts, no. usually, it's to talk without interruption of males, but you would know that, right? after all, you're a girl.. |
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Jun 19 2006, 05:53 PM
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QUOTE(buckfuddy @ Jun 19 2006, 6:49 PM) if you're thinking dirty thoughts, no. usually, it's to talk without interruption of males, but you would know that, right? after all, you're a girl.. dirty thoughts..no...never thought that. but...can you be more definitive on what yall talk about? just curious  since you go to the bathroom to avoid the presence of men. 
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Jun 19 2006, 06:15 PM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
QUOTE(Programmer @ Jun 19 2006, 6:53 PM) dirty thoughts..no...never thought that. but...can you be more definitive on what yall talk about? just curious since you go to the bathroom to avoid the presence of men. It's because women like to gossip there, and redo their make up, etc. It's sort of a stupid, girly thing. QUOTE(The Nocturnal Phantom @ Jun 19 2006, 6:08 PM) Oh yeah... and about that. Why do many girls not like eating in front of guys? I don't know.. I want this explained too. I've always had food when I've gone out for lunch/dinner. Taylor`` |
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