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 Jun 10 2006, 01:47 PM
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I went to a party a couple nights ago, and my best friend thinks its sluty for people to grind. And my boyfriend and I started grinding, but I really didn't consider it that, and we're going out & everyone was doing it so I didn't think she would be like EW! But she was like "um you were GRINDING..."
Do you think its sluty? |
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Jun 10 2006, 02:11 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
I don't really see anything wrong with it unless you guys are like 12 years old.
She is probably an undercover slut anyhow. |
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Jun 10 2006, 02:17 PM
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WHOA grinding is not sluty lol it just depends on how old you are lol and how you do it ....
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Jun 10 2006, 02:43 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
well if you're like...a teeny middle schooler then its like "uhh....children?" but i guess its not that bad as long as you're doing it with your bf/gf or someone you know, and not just some random stranger.
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Jun 10 2006, 03:38 PM
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 banana ham! Group: Member Posts: 661 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 227,050 |
yeah.. i don`t think grinding is sluty. she`s probally jus mad cause she cant do it.
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Jun 10 2006, 04:11 PM
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I agree with sunshine, above me. &It can seem sluty when you aren't used to going to partys and seeing ppl do it. But come on, if you're grinding with your bf whats the big deal?
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| *Zatanna* |
Jun 10 2006, 04:25 PM
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Subjectively, no, I don't think it's slutty.
To clarify my opinion though, I *don't* think it's very classy. But that's just me. |
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Jun 10 2006, 04:36 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
i dont see a problem if its your bf.
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Jun 10 2006, 04:37 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(Zatanna @ Jun 10 2006, 5:25 PM)  Subjectively, no, I don't think it's slutty. To clarify my opinion though, I *don't* think it's very classy. But that's just me. I agree. I don't think it's really slutty, but I just don't like it. And it should be fine if it was with your boyfriend. |
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Jun 10 2006, 05:33 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(Zatanna @ Jun 10 2006, 4:25 PM) Subjectively, no, I don't think it's slutty. To clarify my opinion though, I *don't* think it's very classy. But that's just me. Agreed. If you're very young like 11 or 12 years old and you are "grinding", I can understand why one might call you slutty. Grinding is just an intimate (and not very classy) way of dancing. |
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Jun 10 2006, 05:37 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,459 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,021 |
QUOTE(Zatanna @ Jun 10 2006, 5:25 PM) Subjectively, no, I don't think it's slutty. To clarify my opinion though, I *don't* think it's very classy. But that's just me. Yeah. I don't think it's slutty, but I don't like it. If you were 11 or somewhere around that age, however, yes, I would consider that slutty. |
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Jun 10 2006, 05:38 PM
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I love getting dry humped, I mean grinding.
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Jun 10 2006, 05:44 PM
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 peace&love, earth flower Group: Member Posts: 651 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 398,938 |
^Lol.
QUOTE Subjectively, no, I don't think it's slutty. To clarify my opinion though, I *don't* think it's very classy. But that's just me. Agreed. And will people stop spelling it sluty? Please. |
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| *This Confession* |
Jun 10 2006, 10:04 PM
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What ever people are comfortable doing and their not taking it to far. Then I could care less. So sometimes yes it can be quite slutty.
i don't find it very respectful or "classy" though. |
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Jun 10 2006, 11:15 PM
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Grinding in public is slutty.
Wait, grinding as in dry humping or as in dancing? Dry humping in public is slutty. |
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Jun 10 2006, 11:18 PM
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 L!ckitySplit Group: Member Posts: 4,325 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 129,329 |
were any guys dancing with your friend during all this.
most girls i know that say that type of stuff look like yeti's |
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| *Steph Chan* |
Jun 10 2006, 11:31 PM
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QUOTE(Zatanna @ Jun 10 2006, 5:25 PM) Subjectively, no, I don't think it's slutty. To clarify my opinion though, I *don't* think it's very classy. But that's just me. I don't think it's too classy either. But that doesn't mean I wouldn't do it.
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Jun 10 2006, 11:53 PM
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Thats what I'm talking about!! Oops, I mean, I respect your opinion.
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Jun 11 2006, 01:33 AM
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 Your love is a razorblade kiss ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,794 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,959 |
I don't see anything wrong with grinding, as long as it's at a dance or a club. But if it's done at the wrong place, then that's slutty. But he's your boyfriend, that's cute. No problem with that.
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Jun 12 2006, 08:41 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
i think its fun, theres nothing nasty about that. she could just be paraniod because she doesnt have the skills to grind. thats what i thought until i was comfortable enough to let myself go. then again, i let go with my boyfriend and not some random stranger. it all depends on where you are, dance/club/school peprally are ok. but church/school hallway/mall are not
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Jun 13 2006, 11:30 PM
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LIke freaking? Dancing? I dont see how thats slutty..
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Jun 13 2006, 11:32 PM
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Everyone else does it, why can't you? Maybe she's just a prude =o
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| *stephinika* |
Jun 14 2006, 12:07 AM
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It depends just how far grinding goes...at a point, it can become slutty, but otherwise no. Also depends on the circumstances of course, like where & when.
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Jun 14 2006, 04:41 PM
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^i agree, it's ok to a certain point.
And what's wrong with perfect strangers? you don't go to a club with your boyfriend. |
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Jun 15 2006, 05:54 PM
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 Kris is getting bonified. Group: Member Posts: 3,172 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,366 |
^ Lol, agreed.
At the end of the year dance, I saw 7th graders grind and they were all wild and crap. No. Just stop it. 
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