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| *Steph Chan* |
 Jun 11 2006, 03:25 PM
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In my case, it's not that nobody likes me..
Plenty of guys like me (not to be conceited), it's just that I'm searching for a boyfriend who I can talk to like a good friend, & at the same time be intimate. I can never seem to be able to mix those two elements. |
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Jun 11 2006, 09:08 PM
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QUOTE(Steph Chan @ Jun 5 2006, 3:38 PM)  Sometimes I say that being single is better, funner, etc.. but at the end of the day I sometimes find that my only reason for saying so is to make myself feel better.  Trust me, I know how you feel. I'm the exact way. And the only reason I say this is to make myself feel better and so my friends get the impression that I'm just waiting for the right one. Even though I have this majoy crush on one of my closest guys friends. Yeahhh. >_____> |
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Jun 11 2006, 09:25 PM
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Honestly, you're not missing out on anything. Don't even feel sorry for it. You don't need all the bullshit, the heartbreak and the frustration that "dating" brings. Most of it is one big avalanche of crap. Just focus on school, friends, fun and all that.
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Jun 11 2006, 11:18 PM
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QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jun 11 2006, 10:25 PM) Honestly, you're not missing out on anything. Don't even feel sorry for it. You don't need all the bullshit, the heartbreak and the frustration that "dating" brings. Most of it is one big avalanche of crap. Just focus on school, friends, fun and all that. Taylor`` Just out of curiosity, are you seeing anyone right now? |
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Jun 12 2006, 06:28 AM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 12 2006, 12:18 AM) Just out of curiosity, are you seeing anyone right now? Haha.. yes, but it's an actual, serious relationship. Believe it or not, I do hate dating.. Taylor`` |
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Jun 12 2006, 08:22 AM
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QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jun 12 2006, 7:28 AM) Haha.. yes, but it's an actual, serious relationship. Believe it or not, I do hate dating.. Taylor`` I don't mean to single you out, of course, but I do find that most of the time, the people that say that dating and relationships aren't anything special are people who are currently in one. 
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Jun 12 2006, 02:23 PM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 12 2006, 9:22 AM) I don't mean to single you out, of course, but I do find that most of the time, the people that say that dating and relationships aren't anything special are people who are currently in one. So I fit the category? And nah, don't get me wrong - a meaningful relationship is a good thing, but these days teens don't really get into those (it's just rare). It's always the puppy love type, or the "f**k me/leave me" situation. And in both cases, it's just plain stupid. Taylor`` |
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Jun 12 2006, 02:33 PM
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I think its fine being single... though it sometimes makes me sad to see other couples and how cute they are together...
QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jun 12 2006, 12:23 PM) So I fit the category? And nah, don't get me wrong - a meaningful relationship is a good thing, but these days teens don't really get into those (it's just rare). It's always the puppy love type, or the "f**k me/leave me" situation. And in both cases, it's just plain stupid. Taylor`` and i totally agree with that... I wanna be in a "meaningful relationship" but its hella hard to find someone who want the same thing... |
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| *Steph Chan* |
Jun 12 2006, 02:40 PM
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QUOTE(REBELnDISGUISE @ Jun 12 2006, 3:33 PM) I think its fine being single... though it sometimes makes me sad to see other couples and how cute they are together... and i totally agree with that... I wanna be in a "meaningful relationship" but its hella hard to find someone who want the same thing... It's VERYY hard. |
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Jun 13 2006, 11:10 PM
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QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jun 12 2006, 3:23 PM) So I fit the category? And nah, don't get me wrong - a meaningful relationship is a good thing, but these days teens don't really get into those (it's just rare). It's always the puppy love type, or the "f**k me/leave me" situation. And in both cases, it's just plain stupid. Taylor`` Dating's a beginning phase to many relationships. It's hard to get anything really serious going without that part of getting to know each other. |
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Jun 14 2006, 08:27 AM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 14 2006, 12:10 AM) Dating's a beginning phase to many relationships. It's hard to get anything really serious going without that part of getting to know each other. Yup.. but I can't help hating beginnings. Mostly, because they rarely really develop. But that's me :) Taylor`` |
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Jun 14 2006, 09:26 AM
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QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jun 14 2006, 9:27 AM) Yup.. but I can't help hating beginnings. Mostly, because they rarely really develop. But that's me :) Taylor`` Well, not everything develops into a deep, meaningful relationship; in fact, in theory, only one relationship should develop into a deep, meaningful relationship. |
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Jun 14 2006, 09:43 AM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 14 2006, 10:26 AM) Well, not everything develops into a deep, meaningful relationship; in fact, in theory, only one relationship should develop into a deep, meaningful relationship. this is one of the very few things i have ever heard you say that i accually agreed with... >.> |
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Jun 14 2006, 10:53 AM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 14 2006, 10:26 AM) Well, not everything develops into a deep, meaningful relationship; in fact, in theory, only one relationship should develop into a deep, meaningful relationship. You mean marriage? I don't think so. I'm in a meaningful relationship right now, and I'm not married :) Taylor`` |
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Jun 14 2006, 12:42 PM
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QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jun 14 2006, 11:53 AM) You mean marriage? I don't think so. I'm in a meaningful relationship right now, and I'm not married :) Taylor`` Well, yes, but in theory, only one will last. |
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Jun 14 2006, 01:16 PM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 14 2006, 1:42 PM) Well, yes, but in theory, only one will last. By only one, do you mean once you find your soul mate? -I don't believe in soul mates, I think thats a big load'. |
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Jun 14 2006, 01:18 PM
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QUOTE(Steph Chan @ Jun 14 2006, 2:16 PM) By only one, do you mean once you find your soul mate? -I don't believe in soul mates, I think thats a big load'. Yeah, neither do I. I'm just trying to make a point. |
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Jun 14 2006, 01:39 PM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 14 2006, 1:42 PM) Well, yes, but in theory, only one will last. Well, in theory, 50% of marriages in the U.S. end up in divorce. A lot of people remarry after that, right? So I guess it's more than one. Taylor`` |
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Jun 14 2006, 01:41 PM
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All the more reason why people have to start a serious, meaningful relationship somewhere.
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Jun 14 2006, 01:49 PM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 14 2006, 2:41 PM) All the more reason why people have to start a serious, meaningful relationship somewhere. I'm not saying they don't. I'm saying that wasting your time on "dating", heartbreaks and all that shit while you're a young teenager is insipid. Trust me, even I sometimes think it's something that I shouldn't worry about so much. Taylor`` |
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Jun 14 2006, 01:52 PM
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I just see the "perils of dating" as a part of life. You can't expect to go through life without disappointment or heartbreak. Dating while a teen allows teenagers to make all their mistakes before they really matter.
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Jun 14 2006, 01:54 PM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 14 2006, 2:52 PM) I just see the "perils of dating" as a part of life. You can't expect to go through life without disappointment or heartbreak. Dating while a teen allows teenagers to make all their mistakes before they really matter. It shouldn't be a main focus. Taylor`` |
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Jun 14 2006, 01:55 PM
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QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jun 14 2006, 2:54 PM) It shouldn't be a main focus. Taylor`` Certainly not, but I didn't think it was said that it should be the primary focus of teenagers. |
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Jun 14 2006, 01:57 PM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 14 2006, 2:55 PM) Certainly not, but I didn't think it was said that it should be the primary focus of teenagers. I know. I also never said that you can't expect to go through life without disappointment or heartbreak :) I just can't help but notice that teens are "oh-so-stressed" about "relationships", while it's not very wise to do so. There are so many more things to enjoy. Taylor`` |
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Jun 15 2006, 10:27 AM
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Im single. Its good & simple , but also very empty.
I like it most of the times. But on the end of the day i kinda wish i had somebody to love.. |
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