A very serious problem, advice please., IDK what I should do |
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 Jun 14 2006, 10:28 AM
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I have a huge problem and I really don't know what to do. Let me give you a little background on this. My girlfriend and I have been dating for quite some time and neither one of our parents agrees with our relationship, so we had decided to keep it away from their eyes all together. During this process we agreed that we would do nothing that could get us found out by her or my parents. Her parents know who I am and hate me and never want her talking to me and vise versa. The problem is that for the past two days I have not heard from her. She was suppose to come to NJ yesterday and call me as soon as she got here but she hasnt. This has never happend before. Above all else, her phone has been off this whole time. Now I don't know if I should call her house and try to find out what happend. I am really worried and really wanna know if everything is alright but at the same time I don't really need her parents finding out about us.
Should I call? |
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Jun 14 2006, 10:33 AM
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 in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
If you can't figure any other alternative method of contacting her I suggest calling. Just because you make a call doesn't exactly mean you are dating her anyways, her parents could not be sure of anything. But, if you're still real paranoid about such a thing, maybe you could get a female friend to place the call for you? May be a bit extreme, but it'll get the job done in a kind of in cognito way.
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| *Programmer* |
Jun 14 2006, 10:50 AM
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just ask if they've talked to her you needed your summer reading list....that should let you know if everythign is alright...
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Jun 14 2006, 11:51 AM
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The problem with calling her house is that everyone in her house would know my voice. I like the idea of having someone else call the house for me, should work. I can't use the summer reading excuse because she is a college student with no summer reading.
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Jun 14 2006, 12:13 PM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
Alright. Send her parents dynamite.
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Jun 14 2006, 12:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 246 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 420,832 |
Alright thanks for your help
I called and no one picked up so I guess that was a waste of time. I am going to have to figure out another way. |
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| *mipadi* |
Jun 14 2006, 12:39 PM
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Maybe she just lost her phone, wasn't able to call, isn't getting service, when on a hasty trip, etc.
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| *Uronacid* |
Jun 14 2006, 12:52 PM
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Just wait a while, if it goes on for about a week... then you can start worrying ...
here: What sucks abouta relationship is that if that parents don't like you then the relationship is almost doomed for failure... i suggest you try to get acceptance from her parents... try to talk to them, even tho they hate you... when people see that you care, they gradually start to listen... :O |
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Jun 14 2006, 01:10 PM
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yea I guess you are right. I just spoke with her uncle who told me that he has not heard from her in a while either. Now he is worried too. He called her parents and found out that they know nothing about her where abouts. I just hope she is okay.
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| *This Confession* |
Jun 14 2006, 03:55 PM
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^ well i wish you the best of luck
Just give it time. or if you think of any other places she could be. |
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| *Uronacid* |
Jun 14 2006, 05:32 PM
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i would probably be freaking out if i were you... I always get paranoid.... O-o but that doesn't mean to freak out. In fact, don't freak out... it's bad.
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| *This Confession* |
Jun 14 2006, 06:05 PM
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^ listen to him
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Jun 14 2006, 06:19 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Quit being such an impatient ninny!
It's been TWO days. Just wait it out awhile. |
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Jun 14 2006, 06:25 PM
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How old are you by chance?
and a month is a extreme. That really shows how much you care when you don't worry about her any and don't call until a month has gone by. yea real smart. 
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Jun 14 2006, 06:39 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
No shit it's serious.. damn, I didn't even expect that degree of seriousness!
Call her. Taylor`` |
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| *Uronacid* |
Jun 14 2006, 06:46 PM
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don't just call her! goto to her house pull out the goods and say, "I MISSED YOU SO MUCH I THOUGHT YOU WERE DEAD.... LETS DO IT NOW!!!!"
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| *mipadi* |
Jun 15 2006, 07:59 AM
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QUOTE(This Confession @ Jun 14 2006, 7:25 PM)  and a month is a extreme. That really shows how much you care when you don't worry about her any and don't call until a month has gone by. Wait, where does a month come in? He said it's been two days. |
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Jun 15 2006, 09:13 AM
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Its been 3 days and I have yet to hear from her. I wish I could go to her house myself and see if everything is okay because I have a feeling that I am being lied to. The reason for me believing this is that when I spoke to one of her friends, Evan, he told me that he saw her yesterday and she never left for New Jersey. Her parents are real assholes and I wouldnt put it past them to have lied to me and making sure that she couldnt contact me either.
I would really love to go to her house but inorder to do that I would need to take a few days off of work, which is not possible. I am so f**ken pissed about this. I know shes fine but there is no way I can talk to her. |
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Jun 16 2006, 12:32 AM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Oh well.Call the parents,see wassup.
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Jun 16 2006, 08:27 AM
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4 days, a-hole parents not picking up my phone calls anymore. The only person who actually talks to me from that family is the Aunt and she only says, "hi."
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Jun 16 2006, 11:41 PM
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Darn it. If her parents were still picking up the phone, I was going to tell you to get a girl friend of hers and yours to call her. Once she's on the phone, your friend will hand you back the phone.
Stupid parents. Way too overprotective. |
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Jun 17 2006, 12:53 PM
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Had EXACTLY the same problem and I learnt the hard way-SHE AINT INTERESTED-sorry man, but thats how it happened with me, she just didnt pick up, her parents just cut me off and yeah, it sucks, but be on your guard-good luck man
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Jun 17 2006, 02:43 PM
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 oooh yeah. Group: Member Posts: 1,333 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 376,533 |
Maybe your girlfriend asked them to do that. I hate to say it, but it's possible.
=/ Does she have a cell phone you could call? |
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Jun 17 2006, 05:34 PM
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If you want to know how she is, have a friend of hers call her and ask her about it then have the friend tell you what happened.
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| *Uronacid* |
Jun 17 2006, 08:12 PM
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alright, you need to stop calling her house....
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