I finally told him, after 7 years... |
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 Apr 30 2006, 09:20 AM
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 damn, right!  Group: Member Posts: 368 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,547  |
Haha! Just thought I'd share it with you guys! I'm just sooooo happy, I'm sorry if this is totally random. You can close this if I violated any rule.
So yeah, I finally told him I love him during his graduation. Through a letter actually, thank goodness I made one. The letter was a back-up in case I couldn't tell him personally... Btw, has any of you guys ever liked someone for so long... but never told him/her? Just wondering... |
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Apr 30 2006, 09:41 AM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
And yes, I liked someone for 2 years but never told him. I literally have no chance with him, haha. And eventually the crush faded off.
Anyway, congrats about the letter, but I think it would've been better to wait until you saw him face to face to tell him. If you don't have the courage to tell him that to his face, you may not have the courage to continue a real relationship. |
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Apr 30 2006, 09:57 AM
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 what a moon tonight. Group: Member Posts: 517 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,772 |
haha ive liked someone for like 4 months but then my friend told him and all his friends and that really pissed me off..
 but yeah then he found out i liked him and then we started sort of going out? but then MY FRIEND started liking him (ugh...some friend..she knew i <3ed him..) so now he likes MY FRIEND ... and just a few days ago i FINALLY asked him if he ever <3ed me and he told me he did.... except now he likes my friend.  ugh. these things can ruin ur friendship with ur friend as well as the guy u like.. i think its better to tell him u like him because then he knows how u feel and if he doesnt feel the same way, try to move on and forget about him. it`s hard, but remember there will always be better guys... |
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Apr 30 2006, 09:58 AM
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 Myspace Dropout Group: Member Posts: 131 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 398,890 |
Absolutely. Sometime the fear
of ruining your friendship gets in the way though. But it's better for you, because you feel a great weight lifted off of your shoulders. What's even worse is if you like someone a whole bunch, and you find out they're dating someone. So they kind of lead you on, unintentionally. Then you stay liking them for a while. Then after a while it just develops and you wait for one day that they'll come to you. But then you think to youself, I don't wanna ruin our bestfriendship and such. I've been there before. |
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Apr 30 2006, 05:15 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i never got around to telling this guy i liked for 2 years i liked him. now we barely speak to each other, but the crush wore off anyways and i found out he wasn't that good anyways.
congrats on that. i'll never have the courage to do that. i'll always wait for that guy to tell me he likes me then it goes from there. 
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Apr 30 2006, 05:35 PM
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 peace&love, earth flower Group: Member Posts: 651 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 398,938 |
Congrats. I can just feel your elation through the computer screen, I swear. Your post is making me happy.
I've liked this guy for two years now. Infact I think I love him, but I don't really want to admit is 'cause a lot of girls my age run around saying they love a guy and then dumps 'em in two weeks. We were really good friends, but now we never talk. All I get is the occasional stare and stuff.  I'm uberly happy for you though. This post kinda makes me want to call him up and talk to him. 
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Apr 30 2006, 08:37 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
I'm really glad you told him!
However, now i'm all interested and want to know what he thinks!! lol, any news about that? Um, I've had a crush on this one guy every summer for about 2 years. Everytime I saw him I'd have a crush, but I seriously never told anyone. Not even best friends or anything lol. But a month or two ago we started hanging out, and I told him on our first date lol. He gave this cutest smile when I told him, so I'm happy I did. And we're still dating now =) |
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Apr 30 2006, 09:38 PM
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damn, right! Group: Member Posts: 368 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,547 |
QUOTE I can just feel your elation through the computer screen, I swear. Your post is making me happy. I'm glad my post had that effect on you. Go on! Call him!  QUOTE I'm really glad you told him! However, now i'm all interested and want to know what he thinks!! lol, any news about that? His sister (who's a close friend of mine, she's the one who's been trying to get us together) told me that he was really touched and kind of sad because I said goodbye. Hehe, I'm just really happy he knows, I never expected anything in return. No chance with him anyway  I did it so I won't have any regrets. There a big chance that that's the last time I'll see him. Our first and last picture together:  ... I look strange in this pic... haha... probably because I'm really nervous. Thank you guys! |
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Apr 30 2006, 11:32 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
You two look so sweet together. It actually made me smile, I hope things work out
 I told my current darling that I liked him, liked him about a week or two after we started hanging out again. I wanted him to know and I didn't want to miss the oppurtunity for good. I planned to ask him in a really cute way but I chickened out so the next time I saw him, I promised myself I'd tell him... The series of events prior to me telling him were disastrous...my psycho ex showed up unexpectedly (as usual ) and annoyed us. Luckily we were in my darling's car so we could drive away. I blurted it out much later on...it was so awkward and I got so embarassed. He was mature about it and told me not to be embarassed but as he kept talking the more embarassed I got.Oh well, at least things worked out with us =] |
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May 1 2006, 12:35 AM
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 Bada-bing, bada-boom. Group: Member Posts: 452 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,111 |
Awww, congratulations! It takes a lot of courage to something like that, and I totally commend you. :]
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May 1 2006, 04:10 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
Wow congratulations. I've liked guys for 2 years, but I have never ever told them. I told one guy once through email, and it got really f**ked up. So, I have a fear of telling guys now, which really sucks because the guy I like/liked, I think I really had a chance.
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May 1 2006, 07:33 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 840 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,927 |
I liked this guy frd of mine for around...........2 yrs i think?!
He was a grade above me. I told him after he graduated High School, it was online though.... ^_^" i didn't hve the guts to tell him in person coz I was scared to how he'd react. When I told him, he was just like "?!?! really?!?! i don't know y u'd like me though......" But yea, we're still friends and keep in contact since we don't see each other that often anymore. |
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May 1 2006, 07:52 AM
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 iHumpalot. Group: Member Posts: 130 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,367 |
Yes actually, it's happened to me in quite a few cases.
Where I liked him alot and rumor was he liked me, but it was just a rumor and I was a coward and had this whole phobia of rejection and just never told him. And it sucked. Like hell. 'Cause you know, he was gonna end up with the other girl, and be happy as hell and then there's not really sh*t you can do about but move on y'know? |
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May 1 2006, 04:08 PM
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 You know what that is? It's called love. Group: Member Posts: 150 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 255,095 |
I liked this guy for like 4 or 5 years... but I was little, and I wasn't really thinking about how much time I was putting into liking him. Then he eventually found out through one of my friends in like 3rd grade (lol, I liked him in like pre-school). And I'm in 9th grade now, and we have become best friends. It's kinda like a brother-sister thing and it'll always be that way.
And for you, you need to call this guy! Keep in touch with him. You can still be friends even if you never actually SEE him again. |
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May 1 2006, 04:53 PM
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congrats
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May 1 2006, 05:10 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 189 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,312 |
lol 4 years. i never told him. but i have a bf now, so i guess i can't anymore =b i think over time eventually the liking turned into semi-liking anyway, but stayed around out of habit. hahah
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May 1 2006, 05:48 PM
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congrats! better late than never, huh? i longest i have probably ever liked someone was for one year or less. i guess you can say that no one has really gotten a hold of me like that before.
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May 2 2006, 08:57 PM
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 i wanna know what's inside... Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 395,784 |
i've been crushing on a boy for almost four years now, and the problem is that we met online and haven't been able to meet in real life yet. we've always tossed 'i love you's back and forth, but i'm never sure if he means it as much as i do and that sort of thing.
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May 2 2006, 09:05 PM
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good luck
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May 2 2006, 09:40 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Aww! How cute.
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May 3 2006, 12:12 AM
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 Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
I've liked this guy for around 4-5 years and I haven't told him because I know nothing would happen anyway.
Btw, you guys look really cute together. :] |
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Jun 11 2006, 03:56 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 129 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 320,404 |
aww. 7 years waiting. damn, his response better be good.
well the whole waiting, chickening out, i don't want to be rejected case has happened throughout my life. but yeah i did end up telling a guy i liked him ... only like 8 years later. yeah it was a second-fourth grade crush and last year i was only a sophomore. LOL SO YEAH HELLA LATE. but then luckily, my feelings faded after i moved that fourth grade year. |
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Jun 11 2006, 05:27 AM
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wow.
don't bring back this old of topics 0_o |
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Jun 11 2006, 05:44 AM
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^ It's only a couple of months old. Chill.
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Jun 11 2006, 06:18 AM
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ehm almost two.
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