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| *x____duckii* |
 Mar 5 2006, 09:46 PM
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Honestly, I think it's okay as long as you're 100% ready & really love that person you're having it with.
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Mar 6 2006, 09:12 PM
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Senior Member  Group: Duplicate Posts: 459 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,469 |
listen to your parents. its that easy. no is no.
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Mar 12 2006, 11:29 AM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,459 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,021 |
it's a no. i don't want to get pregnant or get and STDs. it's not worth it.
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Mar 12 2006, 10:34 PM
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Well I have to say yes && no.. I'm still confused whether I should wait or not.. It's a very hard choicr to make.. && temptation is such a bitch sometimes && get mess with the teenage hormones so much!!.. x_X IT'S CRAZZZYYY!!
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Mar 13 2006, 05:57 AM
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 Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
l wont do it
l respect girls and l can wait. true loves wait ! |
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Mar 14 2006, 01:08 AM
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 Wow, i dont know whats going on... Group: Member Posts: 1,439 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,977 |
This topic is pretty tense.
I need to loosen this up a little bit... Once wrong with you guys? Don't say no to sex. Making it sound like sex is a bad thing. Wheres the option for HELLLLL YEAHHHHHH for sex? |
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Mar 17 2006, 09:01 AM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
Yeah, the answer depends on the person. A lot of people use religion as an answer, saying that it's immoral to have sex before marriage because God didn't intend sex to be used that way.
If I were to answer no, it's not okay, I would simply say that I wouldn't want to have sex before marriage because it wouldn't be as special the first time with my new husband. But in reality, I think it's okay. For me at least. Who knows, my mind might change. |
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Mar 17 2006, 06:44 PM
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 (::()::) Group: Member Posts: 148 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,150 |
my opinion:
yes and no yes- why not? you are gonna have urges anyway, and it seems nowadays with most guys, hard to not have sex before you get hitched no- if you have sex before you're married, what's so different about marriage, like what is there to wait for? and then there's all the stds... i still cant decide. |
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Mar 22 2006, 05:22 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
sex b4 marriage isnt a yes or no thing. theres the temptation to go along with it. and temptation can get baaad. im christian, by bf is a strong christian. i think we both believe that sex should be after marriage, but its hard to not do stuff sometimes.
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| *xcaitlinx* |
Mar 22 2006, 07:35 PM
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yeah...i'm fine with premarital sex. heck, if you love the person and are completely comfortable with them then go ahead. it's a different story when you go around screwing anything that walks and don't care about it.
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| *chaneun* |
Mar 22 2006, 07:50 PM
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oMgz uR lyK gUnNa g0 2 hEll iF u HaVe SeX b4 MaRReJe!1!!1!!!
I'm not really for it, only if you're ready. Ready means that you know the consequences-- pregnancy, STDs, one night stand, etc. |
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Mar 25 2006, 09:43 AM
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 hes the reason i smile.. <3 Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 158,486 |
well .. i dont think its is such a terrible thing to have sex before you are married .. i mean ..yea its bad for 12 year olds to do it, they dont really understand all of the consequences and diseases you can get .. but if u are in love than why not .. my boyfriend and i have been together for a while and have had sex .. but just remember to always use a condom .. or u may end up liek this girl in my brothers grade ( 8th grade) and shes goin to have a baby in jjuly
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Mar 25 2006, 02:37 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
depends on the people's beliefs. depends if the people are ready.
&hearts[color=#FF6666] |
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Jun 6 2006, 09:18 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
I don`t think it should.
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Jun 7 2006, 01:03 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Although I grew up in a traditional Chinese family where sex before marriage was seen as being on the same level as being homosexual...which is on the level of being very bad. I have nothing against either of them. While my parents believed that having sex before you're married or being homosexual is morally wrong, I don't quite agree with them. You are who you are. If you want to have sex before you're married, then it's your decision. If you're homosexual, that's just the way you are too.
My view on sex before marriage is that it's acceptable...just make sure that you know what you're doing. Save your first time for someone that really deserves it. Hence, don't lose it to some random guy/girl that you don't even have feelings for. And play it safe. Know about the risks, and do the proper precautions against the risks. Make the first time special. Sex before marriage is completely fine, as long as you play it safe and know what you're getting yourself into. |
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Jun 7 2006, 02:58 AM
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no.........
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Jun 7 2006, 09:53 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
I believe it's wrong, but that's me. Actually according to the Old Testament in the Bible, the first person you had sex with was the one you were to marry. The marriage today is just a legal ceremony. If you live with some one for ten years you're sent a certificate saying that you are married. So, in a sense it's not wrong, but people today don't view it like that. They view it strictly for pleasure. I am really suprised actually how many people said 'No.' That's nuts.
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| *mipadi* |
Jun 7 2006, 10:51 AM
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QUOTE(JakeKKing @ Jun 7 2006, 10:53 AM)  I believe it's wrong, but that's me. Actually according to the Old Testament in the Bible, the first person you had sex with was the one you were to marry. The marriage today is just a legal ceremony. If you live with some one for ten years you're sent a certificate saying that you are married. So, in a sense it's not wrong, but people today don't view it like that. They view it strictly for pleasure. I am really suprised actually how many people said 'No.' That's nuts. In the Old Testament, men sometimes sleep with many different people, too. Is that something we should all be doing? |
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Jun 7 2006, 11:46 AM
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seems like you always quote Jake.
I feel sorry for him. It doesn't matter anyway. What one person says isn't going to change the world never has. You can say any example it has never changed the whole world. It changes some of the ways but it doesn't change every persons belief or opinion. Yes its morally wrong. But if someone wants to have sex then their going to have sex. Simple as that. 
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| *Uronacid* |
Jun 7 2006, 03:11 PM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 7 2006, 11:51 AM) In the Old Testament, men sometimes sleep with many different people, too. Is that something we should all be doing? yes, but it doesnt say that its right... it simply states the fact, the bible has many examples of people that don't follow gods law, and how it effected them. |
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Jun 7 2006, 06:00 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
the way i view it, is that it is my decision when im ready to have sex. i have made that decision and i dont regret it either. i understand the consequences and i deal with them...it should me the persons choice of when they are ready. not just because a legal ceremony...
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Jun 7 2006, 10:57 PM
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 mmm. Group: Member Posts: 283 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 199,949 |
yes well the perfect case is where we wait till marriage with our true lover
and have sex for the first time and it feels soo good cuz we`ve waited so long until marriage ... i`d like that too, but it`s just not really realistic sometimes and i used to say i will wait until marriage, and i still want to, but i can`t say for certain that i can do it ppl say they`ll wait for sure but sometimes it`s because they haven`t loved someone so deeply before and then it becomes easy to promise not to have sex before marriage but once u`ve had an intimate relationship with someone, it becomes harder i`m not saying premarital sex is right i think it`s best to save it for someone but wat if u don`t get married? i mean, there are endless "wat if`s" and the best way is to take them one at a time bottom line for me: no sex before 18, but after that, when i feel i`m ready, i won`t hold back |
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Jun 7 2006, 11:34 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Meh. If it happens it happens.
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Jun 8 2006, 09:09 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 60 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 419,771 |
personal choice
its not just right or wrong |
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Jun 8 2006, 02:35 PM
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of course not okay.. but it can get VERY tempting at times....
self control.. self control.. =) |
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