the preschool approach to getting a girls attention?, ex: hair pulling, teasing, name calling Options

[actionrobot_go]

Okay, I went out with this boy for over 3 months which is a pretty long time for a ninth grader I like to think. I actually loved him, like seriously and not in the high school way where you put them first on your top eight. He loved me too I think, for a little while. We had a lot of fun together. He broke up with me, something like: "I feel like I can't be enough of a boy around you" wtf. Which basically means that he doesn't want a girl friend at this point in his life. Anyways, he's in my second period class and he stares at me across the room all the time. He takes my pens and teases me relentlessly about everything and is always touching my face. He still calls me too; we talked for a good hour on the phone saturday.

I think I still might love him.

So, in the 9th grade, does teasing still indicate that a boy likes you? What the hell should I do? He's making me crazy.

[*This Confession*]

tell him what you think about it.
I mean some guys are pretty immature and that whole joking and crap may mean they like you still.

[n00b]

I'm no 9th grader, but
I think he still likes you
otherwise it would be stupid to do stuff like that in 9th grade?
unless he acts like a kid daily.
I don't know.
But I think he's flirting.

[Skyline Drive]

He sounds like he still likes you. Why would you want to be around someone if you didn't like them, same goes for calling/talking on the phone/in person.

Ask him to hang out as friends. If he accepts then see where it goes on from there ? He wouldn't accept if he didn't like you. So I guess you could say that's kind a way of finding out if his still into you without asking him and making it awkward. Hopefully that makes sense.

[*Uronacid*]

cmon guys just have fun.... you guys are in the 9th grade... and there are still so many things around you that will influence your relationship to take a wrong turn. I know you fell like you love him, but i would like you to tell me what you belive love is... tell me

[*This Confession*]

hmm makes me think of 7th grade
theres not a very big difference
but i use to have guys chasing me and stuff.
and then i would hide under the bleachers [sp?]
and hide behind other people so they would leave me alone

But yea he likes you more than likely from what other people say.


Josh, sometimes i wonder what makes you think some things and then you look at my age.............

[PrincessAda]

It sounds like he likes you.He can be acting like that for you.

[priyas]

cmon guys just have fun.... you guys are in the 9th grade... and there are still so many things around you that will influence your relationship to take a wrong turn. I know you fell like you love him, but i would like you to tell me what you belive love is... tell me

what he said.

[doork]

It sounds like he`s flirting with you. Or he`s jus tryna play with your mind. Just brush him off to the side.. and if he likes you he`ll come crawling back. ;]

[*Programmer*]

the question is, is he staring at you...or are you staring at him...and he's just looking back.

[Vergil_Son_of_Sp...]

I always do this! lol, thats how I met my girlfriend (she is the manager on the football team) and I do the same stuff

[nycaf12]

i have a similar experience with you, except im a guy. some girls even if they dont like you, theyd lead u on. girls dont mind if the whole school of boys fall for her. i dunno if that applies to your situation since its a guy. is he like that to all the girls ? or is it just to you? is he a player? i think u should give a one last try and ask him out again . if it doesnt work, then move on. im sure there are other better guys who can give u more than 3 months of love. also.. dont take high school relationships too seriously, i mean there are really long term relationships that exist in high school, but not 100% of all the couples can stay together for that long. hope dis helps.
oh yea also, we broke up around 2 weeks ago. her friend told me that she doesnt want me back. but she still looks at me in school and talk to me on msn . that doesnt NECESSARILY mean she still has feelings for me. friends can do the same thing too..

[illriginal]

Just approach her... that's the best way to get her attention. Start off with a simple question, listen to what she has to say... pick a word or sentence out of her answer, and ask another question within that answer.

Example

Guy: Hey, how are you doing?

Female: Good, just hangin out with my friends

Guy: Oh yeah? Who are your friends?

Female: Points them out and most likely will say their name

Guy: Ah I see, you do realize that you're the finest/most beautiful/sexiest female out of all these girls right?

Girl: Ha thanks.



Another Example:

Guy: Hey, how are you doing?

Female: Good... and yourself?

Guy: Great as well!

Female: Is that right?

Guy: Well I'm speakin to you aren't I?

Female: Haha yes you are.

Guy: So what are your plans for the day/night?

Female: Nothin much, just gonna go home and relax.

Guy: Oh same here, blah blah


Listen these aren't really good examples... but basically, make the girl talk alot... that's what they love to. They love talkin ALOT. So as they're talkin, the way to show you're payin attention is attackin her with questions that you come up with from "keywords" in her answers to your previous questions... Trust me, they'll like you alot that you're payin attention to them and askin them questions within the topic. It's the best and easiest way to talk to a girl and get her interested in YOU.

[*yrrnotelekktric*]

^ not all girls like to talk alot.
i dont but anyways,
i`d just say not to overdue
it.

[illriginal]

Well maybe they're shy... or they're not confident in themselves to speak out what's on their minds, am I wrong?

[*x1227x*]

i think he's trying to get your attention so you'll notice him :S

[loveneko]

I'm no 9th grader, but
I think he still likes you
otherwise it would be stupid to do stuff like that in 9th grade?
unless he acts like a kid daily.
I don't know.
But I think he's flirting.

Yup, he likes you. Just go and ask him.

Well maybe they're shy... or they're not confident in themselves to speak out what's on their minds, am I wrong?

I'm a little shy, but once I talk to a guy and he seems cool. I let go. Not completely though, I speak my mind no doubt. Hurt feelings or not. But when I talk to guy I prefer to be the one asking the questions.

[pinayprincess]

well durhh!!! lol of course!! my longest 9th grade relationship was 8th months... and yes i still love him too no matter what the damage was/is... [been w/ him for two yrs before-- on and off] but anyways, i mean if you guys had it GOOD then im sure he has to have feelings for you

[angelrevelation]

he might be feeling guilty about breaking up with you, or be having second thoughts... if it bugs you, tell him to stop. because if that happened to me i'd be like heartbroken, thinking that he was messing with me on purpose... if it doesn't just have a long talk with him.