Relationship Advice, pleez!i! Options

[HuGzNKissEs]

Me & my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years just broke up.....& before we broke up...i mean like the DAY before we were flirting & kissing & stuff, like everything was fine. We broke up because he hasn't been happy w/ his life for about a month. He has NO clue what is making him feel so unhappy(depression runs in his family, though) & he has been spending a HUGE amount of time w/ his friends.(I think that is also a factor) because they think the single life is the best. & its been 3 days & he hasnt called me or anything. & I mean we were BEST friends like CLOSER than CLOSE. & he hasnt even called to see how i am. & truthfully, i'm not okay. I dont understand why it happened.....so fast...

What should I do??????

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[Kontroll]

Give it time.

[*mipadi*]

Unfortunately, romantic relationships tend to come to an end.

Just move on. Spend time with your own friends and family doing stuff you like to do. Meet new people.

[loveandsins]

I think for now you should just accept that he isn't happy but if you really were closer then close like you said, sooner or later he'll probably come and talk to you. I think he's just confused about what he wants or what he thinks is best for him. And also the friends part can be a huge part of it. I'd give him some time, it's probably the only thing you can do. I hope you'll be feeling better soon. I know it's gonna be hard but all you can do is try..

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

give him some time he might have felt soffocated that he always was with you...he has to spend sometime for himself. and if you guys are really that close he will come back and talk to you but give both of a break for a while.

[*This Confession*]

well why don't you call him. I mean if depression runs in the family [heh it kind of runs in mine =/] Ask him what makes him feel not happy about his life. Like any little detail..i do that.. Although I'm going to tell you know it may be hard.. Give it time though. Everything happens for a reason

yea like someone else said romantic things come to an end.. Although you can move on but I don't suggest just going out and doing what your past bf and you did....

[PrincessAda]

You should give him space and try to fix his life.

[*Uronacid*]

the best i can say is give him space. I know that difficult, but thats probably what he needs...

there are many things he could be feeling right now....

He may not know what he wants, becuase he has been in a relationshio for so long. This may be a good thing.

think possitive:

-he may find that he really loves you out of all of this\
-even i fhe doesn't be glad that it didn't last longer, and that you have more time to spend finding the man of your dreams

[HuGzNKissEs]

thanks uronacid....that made a lot of sense. I will try to think positive

[*Uronacid*]

awww.... XD y/w

[JBenfante]

Just have to forget about them. If it ended, it ended for some reason, even if you couldnt comprehend the reason...it still did. You also have to remind yourself...that there is no turning back...no fixing things or anything like that. Once a person has ended it...they have made their descision. Better off remembering what was good in the relationship...and forget the bad. Then, all in all; move on...knowing your gained and lossed...and no matter what you do...you can't change it. Then you will be able to see new people...and get more friends...and all that good stuff...and once that happens...you'll barely ever think about the person...you'll just Remember having a good boyfriend/girlfriend while it lasted.

[magicfann]

hmm.maybe your boyfriend just needs some time alone with cs