i don`t think im over him.., ..but i want to be Options

[x0 sweetsorrow]

okay well there is this guy..and we met [duh] and i started to like him..alot..and he started to like me..alot..so when he asked me out i was like..AMAZED! lol. and things were like awesome for like 6months..and i realized..i loved him [and dont gimme that you don`t know your in love till blahh cos i was in love! pff.] and then..the day after christmas day..he went..byebye..literally jus left..never talked to me or anything..for three month`s..and it hurt..alot..and it took alot to get through it..but my friend`s helped me and i thought i was over him..anyways..he came crawling back..with all these excuses..and i felt bad..and i still liked him..and so we got back together..and things went great for the next two months..and then..we broke up. and now we never talk..or see each other..it`s like we aren`t part of each others lives anymore..and that really depresses me cos i loved him alot..and now he`s jus gone..and we can`t even be friend`s..and i thought i was okay with this..and everything..cos i have kris now. and i LIKE him alot. and yeah..but just now my mom brought my ex up in a convo. we were having. and i had some sort of emotional breakdown or something... and i dont want to be like this...i wanna move on like he has...

[im___radx]

yeah. it sucks to be in love with a jerk, but just give it some time? sorry, im no good at this.

[pikimoo]

Don't fret. There will always be a slight feeling for them deep inside. You may have loved him for one reason, but hated him for others. You'll still love what he was. Unless he really broke your heart and you went through some sort of stage in which your tastes completely changed due to some problems with.. uhh.. yeah. I'm just gonna stop myself. Right now.

[*krnxswat*]

You can't force yourself to forget someone, it will just end up making you think of him/miss him more, or that's what I think. Just give it some time. Go outside, and spend time with your friends. Have fun.

[liSSa_x0]

i kinda get how you feel...after my ex broke up with me, i was so heartbroken, and for months i couldn't get over him and i still loved him. and he'd do things that'd make me want to hate him. sometime i'd walk out of school in near tears silently saying to myself "i hate him. i hate him." but did i? no. i wanted to though. so bad. it took a while, but i'm over him now, and i like someone else.. but he's still a part of me. he'll always be a part of me. i loved him. i have an icon down there like that..."once you love someone, they're forever a part of you". that's how it is. but don't worry. everything heals with time =)

[LiNHy POO]

maybe he's feeling like your feeling... juss cuz it looks like he moved on.. doesnt mean he has.. i think he juss wants space from you... (yeh 5 months... that should be enough.. if thats wut your thinking) well if you could get over once b4.. you can do it another time... this guy needs to sort himself out here!!

[silver-rain]

I know exactly how you feel. when my ex broke up with me, i was sad and all- and i still missed him. and he would try to avoid me, but whenever i would catch a glimpse of him, i'm feel all achy and i'd think of all the good times we had together. and almost everything reminds me of him, its so hard to get over him.
but eventually, you'll get over him- and he'll always be a part of your heart.

[liSSa_x0]

i totally agree with what linke3 said.

[illuminessence]

Wow...I talk about my ex to often here, but it's alright. It's been...well maybe 2 months since my ex broke it off between us. A month later, he begged for me to take him back, an I said I just wanted to be his friend. Therefore, he just didnt want to be a part of anything that involved me. It still pains me to see him and not be able to talk to him cuz we were friends even before we started dating. I lost a great friend, and possibly, one of my closest friends. All I can do is move on and try to deal with the pain. It's all you can do if he wants nothing to do with you. I'm sorry but it is true. Move on...

[x0 sweetsorrow]

thanks you guys for all the help..i really appericate it!! ya`ll are awesome!

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

it's hard at first but you'll realize over time it'll get easier. you'll find someone else that's better than your ex and you'll forget the pain and hurt. he obviously wasn't good enough for you if he kept walking back into your life and leaving you again. don't let yourself get hurt like that. you had a good past and just hold on to the good memories. but just remember that maybe it wasn't meant to be. good luck with kris. maybe he'll turn out to be something better. =]

[ll_behbiixpinay_...]

lyke wen i met mah best fwen we whurr lyke soo tiite nd yea. den lyke until lyke mah scoo sister turned him dun he wen to mee nd i sade yea cuhz i felt hella soree for him so yea.den web been guin out fo 4-5 monthz. broke up 3timez.now fwenz agen. buh now hiz wif mah ex fwen . ish lyke i miss him. nd im tryin to fo get himm nd mah otha one. hez tha onlee one i lahbed nd i soo very much miss him fwon tha bottom ob mah heart buh i got mah otha one .dat i lahb . buh im almost over ma hex buh now i gota deal wif tha one daz we broke up on i meen yeserdaie

[angel-roh]

yeah that happens, huh? haha wen i was with justin, i was thinking over my ex-bf... i reallie loved him but he told me to move on, but u know i eventually end up forgetting about him...wat u need to do is FIGHT!! fight ur sadness to him! lols thats wat i do to forget about them haha fight in phones or chatroom.. lols

[simply_mehehe]

i know exactly how you feel...............i don't wanna break your lil heart but he will always be a part of you whether big or small..........i mean my cousin still kidna feels bad when thinkin of the guy she loved once......but look at her now..... married to a great guy and happy....................my boo is friends with my ex-ish and he hurt me really bad, my friends like gave me cousiling for like months.....i mean my xanga even has an entry where i repeatedly said i hate you about him, only problem with that was i didn't really hate him..........and i still feel a small part of my heart reach out to him and i'm still perfectly happy with my boo and kinda think i'm fallin for him so with time most of the wound will heal but just like wounds they leave a small scar whether big or small

[barbie]

im sorry, it happens

[islandkiss]

you HAVE TO get over him. He's making you feel much worse. And you don't need him, you got kris right?. other guys will come along.

[tainted_heavyn]

the only way to get over someone.. is let time fade the feelings. it depends on how long and how deep you guys were. i don't think anyone ever really let go of a love, they just learn to accept and live on.. with the good memories.. that's what i do. i still care deeply about my ex. even if he cheated on me.. don't force yourself to forget something you're heart is obviously not ready to forget. maybe you need to talk to him.. and just make sure he wont try to come back later.. and drag your heartbreak trials longer. i'm sorry this happened.. hope you the best in recovery

[mglbaby]

u juzz need some time

[LilBrunette0313]

You can't just tell yourself you want to move on, you really have to put the feelings you have for him aside and find someone else. The longer you put these feelings aside the more they'll fade away.