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 May 31 2006, 12:00 AM
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me and my bffs have been friends since dis year well except for jenni..but we r drifting apart..and i need help..i don't want to drift apart..it is like really hard for mee
is there anyway i can become really close with them again like anything i could do or should i make new friends like sum of them r i mean only sum of us noe were drifting or growing apart.. how could i fix my friendsship.. |
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May 31 2006, 12:14 AM
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 Mrs. Delonge Group: Member Posts: 426 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,185 |
Well, the first thing you should always do if somin' like this happens is get everybody together and bring the topic up, so everybody can have a say in what they think of it. Maybe some people want to drift, and maybe some don't. If that's the case, then just hang out with the one's that DON'T wanna drift, and dont hang out with the ones that don't care unless they hang out with you first... i mean don't ignore 'em...
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May 31 2006, 07:49 AM
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 Freelance Graphic Designer Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 415,447 |
get involved with his interests.
if you get into what hes into, you both are soon to collide in one way or another, be it in some certain situation or some conversation. thats my advice =] |
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May 31 2006, 09:27 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
You can try talkin` to him and hanging out with him more.
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| *anubis* |
Jun 1 2006, 01:18 AM
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QUOTE(xbabyboo @ May 31 2006, 9:27 PM)  You can try talkin` to him and hanging out with him more. QUOTE(iHero @ May 31 2006, 7:49 AM) get involved with his interests. if you get into what hes into, you both are soon to collide in one way or another, be it in some certain situation or some conversation. thats my advice =] did you guys even read what she wrote? she's not talking about her boyfriend. she's talking about her best friends that she's falling apart with. and basically, things like that happen with most friendships. nothing lasts forever and if a friendship is either too weak or too strong (as in too much time spent together), both can lead to an unaggressive friendship and/or drifting apart from each other. sometimes it's intentional because people naturally will get tired or each other if they spend too much time together. i'd hate to say this but sometimes it's inevitable. sometimes things happen and friendships shift to different people. all i can say is hold on to the old friendships that you can and let new potential friendships in and welcome it. |
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Jun 1 2006, 02:56 PM
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 i think you're stupid. Group: Member Posts: 608 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,203 |
that's kind of happening to me and my best friend. i'd try to get together with them. like ask them to spend the night or go to the movies or something. since school's out it'll be even harder to keep your friendships going so you're going to have to make an even bigger effort. just call them up and see if you can get together. well i hope i helped! good luck
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| *Uronacid* |
Jun 2 2006, 01:36 AM
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is there anything that hapened to ruin the friendship?
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Jun 2 2006, 07:54 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,015 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 193,600 |
QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jun 1 2006, 11:36 PM) is there anything that hapened to ruin the friendship? well not really..i mean i guess we probably got too tired of each other, got bord of each other..i mean one of my friends..we would talk everyday..and slowly we arer like talking less and less..i mean wt could i do about it.. |
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Jun 2 2006, 09:11 PM
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 CB's Forum Troll Group: Member Posts: 926 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,142 |
QUOTE(xlilaznchickx @ Jun 2 2006, 8:54 PM) well not really..i mean i guess we probably got too tired of each other, got bord of each other..i mean one of my friends..we would talk everyday..and slowly we arer like talking less and less..i mean wt could i do about it.. dont do anything, its happened to me before but i still have counter-strike |
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Jun 2 2006, 09:14 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
uhh have a friends discussion so all you guys can give your opnions on what you guys want if you wanna be friends or make other friends.
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