Is appearance everything?, It seems like it for many people |
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 May 26 2004, 05:48 PM
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 this one time at band camp...  Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,926  |
do looks matter to you? what if he's a bit small down there or shes unportioned up there?
do you get freaked out about it or anything? |
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May 26 2004, 05:51 PM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
Looks matter at first. If I find out that a guy's a jerk after getting to know him, it wouldn't matter to me if he's gorgeous, I would get away from him as quickly as possible.
My friends and I always have disagreements on how handsome a guy is. The proverbial "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" is true. |
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May 26 2004, 05:52 PM
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 SeÑor Member Group: Member Posts: 311 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,709 |
Looks matter to an extent... but once you reallie get to know them... it's more of a bonus than a main feature ^_^
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May 26 2004, 05:57 PM
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 Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
well ppl are lying when they say that LOOKS DONT MATTER, cuz everyone's shallow. but i wouldnt mind dating an ugly guy if hes rilli sw3et and nice
 and i wouldnt never date a pretti boy whos an @$$
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May 26 2004, 06:39 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
i wouldnt get freaked out about it..but looks matter..they just arent the most important thing in a relationship..but yess..looks definetely matter
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May 26 2004, 06:54 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
The sad thing about us is that no matter how many times we insist that we look for personality, we actually look for the attractive ppl first, and THEN get to know them. But sometimes, ppl stumble upon "unproportional" ppl who have the sweetest personality.
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May 26 2004, 07:23 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
QUOTE(XxKrNqTcUiTyxX @ May 26 2004, 5:57 PM) well ppl are lying when they say that LOOKS DONT MATTER, cuz everyone's shallow. but i wouldnt mind dating an ugly guy if hes rilli sw3et and nice and i wouldnt never date a pretti boy whos an @$$Ok, I think we can all agree now that this thread is STUPID-BAITING. |
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May 26 2004, 07:26 PM
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Looks slightly matter, but it's not everything. If a person is hella cute or whatever but has the worst personality, then what's the point of having the good looks. They go to waste haha, that just sounded wrong but yeah, you get the idea. I guess we are all shallow, but yeah, some more than others. It just depends. I think personality is more important than looks. When someone can make me laugh and just make me feel good about myself, they are beautiful in my eyes.
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May 26 2004, 07:39 PM
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 speak without words Group: Member Posts: 395 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,622 |
I guess looks is the first thing but then you get to know the person and like them more for their personality. As supras15 said, the looks is the bonus. =]
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May 26 2004, 09:01 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
in the beginning it does matter... you have to have sum physical attraction... but in time... it doesnt really matter anymore...
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May 26 2004, 09:03 PM
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I mean yeah, it matters first, but like most people said, it doesn't matter if their personality is totally crap; and as for the unproportional part, I wouldn't mind if they were as flat as a wall, as long as I loved them and they loved me.
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May 26 2004, 09:04 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
looks are what catch my eye. but in the long run... it doesn't really matter
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May 26 2004, 09:13 PM
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sound like everybody have the same opinion on this  looks does matter but remember people change and their looks change, just like a rose someday will wilted and so in the long run u learn to luv the personality and not the looks becuz it won't last. |
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May 26 2004, 09:16 PM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
QUOTE(silver kiss @ May 26 2004, 9:13 PM) sound like everybody have the same opinion on this looks does matter but remember people change and their looks change, just like a rose someday will wilted and so in the long run u learn to luv the personality and not the looks becuz it won't last. deep stuff. love the comparison between looks changing and a rose wilting.
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May 28 2004, 08:57 AM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
you mena the "looks" of "there" or like the body and face??
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May 28 2004, 09:45 AM
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 technicolor girl Group: Member Posts: 1,075 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,104 |
yeah i go for looks at first and then get to know him, mostly they're jerks...sucks
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May 28 2004, 11:07 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,132 |
whether most people admit it or not, looks do matter, but only at first. gradually, you will start to notice all of the good things about their personalities and the way they act than the way the look. of course how they look will always be on the surface of your mind, but you get used to looking at them so much that it doesn't really matter. and you come to love them even if they are 'unproportional'.
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May 28 2004, 11:18 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
looks only get you so far. the person may have some flaws .. but the depth and degress of one's personality is what determines if you want to stick around or not .
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May 28 2004, 11:39 AM
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 GOT CREATEBLOG? Group: Member Posts: 779 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,544 |
Of Course looks matter...lets say you go to a bar when your older.
You see someone...and there ugly. Are you going to go and talk to them? I dont mean this in a mean way but it is what everyone does... no ugly girl is ever HEAD CHEARLEADER... or anything like that |
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May 28 2004, 12:52 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
when i talk to a guy online..and he seems pretty cool and all..then when i see his pic i go "
 "yes. i`m mean like that. i stop talkin` to them. i only talk to them when they IM me. but some guys are STILL pretty cool and i talk to them online. but usually...when i like a guy...all my friends think he`s ugly..  then i go and defend him.. 
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May 28 2004, 01:07 PM
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 i'm too cool 4 school Group: Member Posts: 752 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,421 |
^^yeah
When you first meet someone you go on looks. Because if you are somewhere you are not going be like oh that boy/girl over there has an excellent personality, you are gonna be like the boy/girl is FINE let me go talk to him/her. After you get to know someone though it starts to diminsh |
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May 28 2004, 01:18 PM
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 Master Debater Group: Member Posts: 1,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,719 |
Looks somewhat matter.
Truth is, basically anyone can look cute. It all about self confidence and all that. I'm not into super model hot girls, they're plastic and concided. Same with ditzy cheerleader types, they look so-so but think they're the sh*t. Normal is good. But yeah, I can't see somebody's personality from across the room, so something has to attract; and looks are as visual as you can get. |
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May 28 2004, 05:29 PM
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 Look its... Group: Official Member Posts: 5,817 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,767 |
well thats what you look at the first. so yeahin a way they matter, but once you get to know that person you;ll see a big difference.
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May 28 2004, 05:37 PM
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 AzN PrYde WoRLdWiDe ^.^ GoT RiCe? Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,187 |
For me.. it doesnt really matter about the looks.. Its their personality that counts... And like wut the other persons said.. Looks are just a bonus and its wuts inside that really counts..
Like they say.. "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" For all i care.. she can be flat as hell but for me.. I still love her for who she is.. Her personality.. Because its whats inside that counts.. not the inside... |
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May 28 2004, 08:51 PM
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 baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
Looks do matter to a certain extent
You don't just go up to an ugly person on the street and act interested You are first attracted to them and then hope they have a good personality too If they are a total jacka$$ then it doesn't matter if they are hot or not If they aren't soo hot but have an amazing personality than you go for them |
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