what should i do, ..... Options

[shynhuggable]

ok so i like this guy and he's one my best friend but he has no idea i like him. my best friend says i should tell him. and other people say they think he likes me back. but im not sure. i wanna go for it but im afraid of rejection and getting my heart broken. plus, i dont want to ruin our friendship for telling him.

i really like him....

but i dont kno what to do..

help!

[iminlovewithTomD...]

Hmm, i know how it is...

well you wanna make sure that he likes you before you try anything, cuz you don't wanna go thinking he likes you when really he doesnt... that's not a fun position, SO, what i would advise is talking to one of his good guy friends, and explaining it all to him. and if he likes you, then ask him out, but if he doesnt like you, i'd advise not saying anything to him about it. if his friend doesn't know, then you should try to figure out by having one of your other friends ask him who he likes... i dont know, i guess those are just some suggestions.

hope it works! good luck!

[*anubis*]

it's sad to day this but the closer you are as best/good friends with him, the less of a chance you actually have of being with him romantically. naturally, the more he sees you as a friend, the more cemented the relationship is between you and him is formed.

as friends.

unless there's the rare case of him being close to you and forward as friends because he had an interest in you. but don't go and start thinking that's the case.

chances are, he probably only sees you as a friend and will. most relationships start with a small bond of friendship and then straight to romantic feelings but one that bursts from a deep friendship is hard to sustain, if not begin, in the first place.

chances are, if he doesn't see you that way, he'll use the "i don't want to ruin our friendship" line.

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

thats happening to me to.... well this guy was one my cool friends and we really bonded so im like ehh your cute you know but i think sometimes you could go out with your best guy friend that happend to me before and it was a really really long relationship but it ended..

[x3_mr_mak]

mm sounds like me :]

i liked this senior guy (and i`m a sophomore)
we were really tight
and he had no clue i fell in love with him from the moment i met him
and he kept me waiting for 4 months
then he told me he liked me forever too

i got him to tell me he liked me by asking him whom he liked
over and over
and he`d avoid the question
so i knew he kinda liked me too
then he gave in and told me

haha maybe that won`t work on ur guy,
but it sure worked on mine :]

good luck

[*jooleeah*]

Well...

This also happened to me in the past. ;x Except he wasn't really a best friend, more of a good friend. I told him and we talked about it, and he said he liked me too, so we went out. But, for some reason, things didn't really go right, so we eventually broke up. I guess you could say that some things don't happen for a reason. Anyway, my point is, know what you're getting into. Do you really want to risk a good friendship like that? That's what happened to me and my ex-boyfriend...we risked it, but it didn't work out, and we eventually lost what we had (as in friendship). We're still good friends, but we're definitely not as close as we were before. Just be cautious and know what you're getting into. Also, be sure that the guy is into it 100%.

[*Uronacid*]

look is this guy shy or outgoing?

advice for now:
you dont have to tell him. stay friends, let him make the big move.... you can let him know you like him without accually saying it. just do some extra special things for him (im not talking sexual either). theres nothing wrong with being nice :]

[PrincessAda]

Wait for the moment..Try flirting with him and giving him hints,,try to wait for him to come to YOU.

[Heartless Hero]

a thing such as a crush, in my opinion, should always be exposed.

if not it'll just burrow deeper inside you and cause pain.