2 differant guys, i need help quick |
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 May 31 2006, 01:20 AM
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 Jess!ka  Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 408,902  |
okay here is the think.....i like 2 differant guys.....one of them lives in the same city i do and we go to church together and everything we know eachother pretty well....we skipped school together and everything....but the thing is he is 18 and im 14.....and i dont even know if he is interested in me like that
The other guy....wow he is amazing but he lives in ohio and i live in florida =/ but we met through my ex **long story** but yeah we started talking and know we talk everyday for very long amounts of time =] he says he is going to move down here when he gets out of highschool....but it seems to long.....  ?!??!?!WHAT DO I DO?!??!?!
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May 31 2006, 07:36 AM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Focus more on school and less on guys. Looks like you need it.
Taylor`` |
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May 31 2006, 07:40 AM
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 Freelance Graphic Designer Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 415,447 |
oh this ones really simple :D
you just dont know what the hell you want =] once you find out...its pretty simple. just dont tell both of them you like them... cause theres nothing worse when someone likes you.. AND someone else at the same time. |
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May 31 2006, 07:55 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 84 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,376 |
hm, well first off i want to comment on "angelina taylor", this isnt an english class, no need for the remarks, this is mearly a forum asking for some advice, no need to be rude
and to "Itsa_Pnay ", from my point of view you cant possibly like both these guys too much if you cant choose between them. If you truely had feelings for a guy you wouldnt find any other guy "likable". But thats just what i think =\ |
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May 31 2006, 07:57 AM
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Freelance Graphic Designer Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 415,447 |
hey guys...i truly love that girl up there...
shhh you dont all know this... but shes amazing. <3 |
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May 31 2006, 07:59 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 84 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,376 |
Sergio, that has nothing to do with the topic =x
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May 31 2006, 08:11 AM
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 The windmills of your mind .. Group: Member Posts: 1,317 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,699 |
Well, skipping school with a 18 year old guy .. isn't really in your best interests. You seem to have more of a 'bond' with the 'amazing' guy in my opinion, as you talk everyday and you said he will move down to Florida after he's finished highschool. The other guy could just see you as a girl he skipped school with, and the other one probably doesn't have fickle feelings for you. If you care for the 'amazing' guy genuinely .. then you shouldn't care about waiting for him, even if it seems so long.
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May 31 2006, 10:19 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
HAHAHA. You know one person you should ask this about is Josh Keal. Haha. Sorry, Holly and Josh. I love you guys. Just busting your asses. Really though.
Uronacid is his screen name for CB. He's really good at giving advice. |
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May 31 2006, 10:43 AM
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^Shut up Jake
haha QUOTE hm, well first off i want to comment on "angelina taylor", this isnt an english class, no need for the remarks, this is mearly a forum asking for some advice, no need to be rude o_O she wasen't being rude. She was voicing out what she thought would have been good advice. People look at everything differently. Anyway you need to figure out who you like. Figure out if you ready for a relationship and so on. From what I've read out of people, people do think you can like 2 people because your confused. Maybe one guy holds some qualities you really like in a guy and the other the same just different qualities then the other. So you confused on which one you would like. |
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May 31 2006, 11:38 AM
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She was being rude, because she was making a remark on the fact that she mispelled some stuff, and thats not what this topic about so there was no need for it
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May 31 2006, 02:25 PM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
QUOTE(Oh its murderous @ May 31 2006, 12:38 PM)  She was being rude, because she was making a remark on the fact that she mispelled some stuff, and thats not what this topic about so there was no need for it Awwwwww, is that too honest for you? I'm not rude, dear. I say things as they are on my mind.. no need to sugarcoat. You think the real world is all nice and pink? No, it's not. I don't think boyfriends are the best way to spend your childhood, that's all. I was merely offering ADVICE. I'd offer you some, but clearly you'd get offended  Sorry for the inconvenience. Taylor`` |
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May 31 2006, 03:16 PM
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thats alright, im pretty sure you're the last person i'd like to take advice from. And no where in that post did she say shes spending her "childhood" on boys.
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May 31 2006, 03:37 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^we're getting off topic here.
 anyways, you should think of which guy you like better and has better qualities |
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May 31 2006, 03:48 PM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
QUOTE(Oh its murderous @ May 31 2006, 4:16 PM) thats alright, im pretty sure you're the last person i'd like to take advice from. And no where in that post did she say shes spending her "childhood" on boys. Ha, you don't even know me, yet you say you'd refuse my advice. Suit yourself. And sorry, but she IS spending her childhood on boys. She's 14 years old. Unless you consider that adulthood? Taylor`` |
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May 31 2006, 03:57 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(Oh its murderous @ May 31 2006, 1:16 PM) thats alright, im pretty sure you're the last person i'd like to take advice from. And no where in that post did she say shes spending her "childhood" on boys. okay this is random but who is the artist on your myspace? It sounds like Regina Spektor but I'm not sure. Anyway, I do agree with Angelina Taylor, you are only 14. Stop worrying about guys. |
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May 31 2006, 04:15 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 84 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,376 |
i WOULD refuse your advice because the advice you've presented here isnt what i would want to recieve myself. And 14 is about the age girls become very interested in guys, that doesnt mean shes spending her childhood on that particular thing
and yes it is regina spektor =] |
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May 31 2006, 04:45 PM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
QUOTE(Oh its murderous @ May 31 2006, 5:15 PM) i WOULD refuse your advice because the advice you've presented here isnt what i would want to recieve myself. And 14 is about the age girls become very interested in guys, that doesnt mean shes spending her childhood on that particular thing and yes it is regina spektor =] The best advice isn't always what you want to hear  14 is the age that girls' hormones kick in, but it doesn't mean it's the best thing to do. Although not all people realize that, so no worries. Taylor`` |
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May 31 2006, 09:26 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
You should try to see who you like most and then go for it.
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May 31 2006, 11:32 PM
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ok let's AAAAAALL calm down! obviously the issue doesn't revolve about the girl liking two boys but now we have two other people fighting over who's right and who's wrong bla bla. so! in my own experience....i dated a guy who was 19 when i was 14 and i'll tell you something straight up. I REGRET EVERY SINGLE BIT OF IT! first of all that's way too old [even if he were 18, that doesn't make a difference]. boys that age [for the most part] don't go looking for a 14-yr-old gf. i know it may come off harsh but it's true! i say look for boys no older than 16! you'll have way more in common and your minds are at the same level basically [as far as level of maturity is concerned]. why do i regret it so much? because he was experienced in fields i wasn't yet ready for! i felt uncomfortable because i was so young! therefore he broke up with me because that was all he could think of.
you may be ready for him but he just may not want you because of the fact that he's 18. isn't he going to college soon? look...all i'm trying to say is that guys at that age have a whole different mindset you don't want any part of. believe me! once you're 18 you'll understand what i'm trying to say. people say that age doesn't matter...well...IT DOES!!!! and i dont know about you but i'd never let my little 14-yr-old daughter date an 18-yr-old [if i ever have any kids]. so take my advice....be patient...your turn will come. THERE ARE SO MANY FISH IN THE SEA!!!! patience....that's the only word you need to know. hopefully you'll do the right thing :) real quick...ohio guy...honestly long distance relationships can be exciting for a while HOWEVER! it will die out and you'll get super lonely and desperate even. just wait it out til he moves....then you'll be able to tell how you truly feel! hope this helped... |
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Jun 1 2006, 10:03 PM
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okay Amanda and Taylor
you both need to drop it. don't say anyone is being rude. Everyone has their own opinions and people are honest and if she was being honest tough get over it. Now Taylor I guess you could be a bigger person and if she doesn't want your advice then don't worry about it. |
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Jun 2 2006, 12:50 AM
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QUOTE(Itsa_Pnay @ May 30 2006, 11:20 PM) ?!??!?!WHAT DO I DO?!??!?! Close ze legs? - Solipsist |
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Jun 2 2006, 01:10 AM
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looks, if your undure of yourself then you really need to prioritize... meaning, look at the benefits and disadvantages of both guys, and decide from there. what guy suits your needs best. tell me about each guy... what they say and do...
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Jun 3 2006, 12:54 AM
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Freelance Graphic Designer Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 415,447 |
what the hell happened to this topic...everyones off topic o.o
omg...including me! |
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Jun 3 2006, 03:10 PM
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I'm not a big fan of long distance relationships. So I think you should just forget about the guy who lives in Ohio, unless you like him more and are willing to keep in touch with him. If you really like the one whos 18 then maybe you should tell him, just be careful. Afterall, he is a lot older than you and probably has a lot more experience. How much do you REALLY like these two?
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Jun 3 2006, 11:01 PM
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1. if u like two guys, u do not start balancing out which of the two u prefer over the other. u have no sense of which u actually do like, but rather, in my opinion, they are both infatuations, and u have lust for them, because they both are attracted towards u.
2. the 18 year old guy. u skipped school together with him. reall nice. real mature. anyways. dating within the church, in my past experiences, have been real fiascos. and also, most 18 yr old guys seeking 14 yr old girls are only interested in one thing: getting into ur pants. i suggest being wary of his intents. he might have an ulterior motive. be careful. ur choice tho. 3. long distance relationships are very difficult to maintain. at ur tender age of 14, i suggest going with a local relationship. they're easier, and less of a strain on urself, and they have a lesser chance of ending up in a giant mess. if u met him through ur ex, that might not be such a good idea. hope that helped. |
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