virginity, what age? Options

[brian_deegan]

how do you know if your making the right desision by having sex with someone....i feel like shes the one for me but im only 15...and i want to make sure that i loose it to the right person...everyone says to wait till marrage but 50% of marrages end in devorce anyway so...yeah...

[mistahpho]

try to be a virgin till ur 21 lol
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[MrTurtle]

if you wont regret it and you love her enough, then yeah, go for it. be safe and make sure shes comfortable with it, and if youre ready then..well, your call.

[rOckThISshYt]

i was talking to my friend today, and i already knew that her mom was only sixteen when she gave birth to sabrina, my friend. but today i found out that her dad was only fourteen. as in like... nineth grade fourteen. he was young as f*ucking hell!!! i do think it's okay for a fifteen year old to have sex, but it just proves how careful you have to be. take me for instance. i only buy extra streghth condoms. lol.

[illuminessence]

Abstinence!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[darkangel]

iono...but don't do it in the girls bathroom like the ppl in my friends school. lol

[ComradeRed]

It should be like with the Legendary Amazon Tribes: You should have to kill someone before you have sex.

[*NatiMarie*]

I don't know, I don't want to lose my virginity with just any guy. I value it and I'm not going to put it to waste. If I lose it in high school, you get a reputition of being easy and when you date a guy, you won't have that same respect that you would had before. You are expected to have sex with them and that's what they expect from you. That's probably the primary reason they date you. I've seen it happen, just don't want it to happen to me.

[onenonly101]

I'm staying a virgin until marriage. To me it is something you should not only experience with someone you love but someone you will be with for the rest of your life. Alot of poeple say they love you and want to be with you for the rest of their life, and then end up throwing you away like garbage. I don't want that. I also don't want a child right now, and STD, or emotional baggage. Plus you don't know who they have slept with or what type of person they really are sometimes. This next statement might come from watching Maury too much they could be taping you and how would you like if your face was all of the market, all over the internet, sleeping with some guy. It might be a slim chane but i don't want any chances with that.

[LatinaLady]

You should learn how to spell before you have sex.

HA_HA lol

nah just wait til you know its time.

[swtpumkinpie]

i lost mine when i was fifteen. i don't think you should wait until you're married but i do agree that your girl may regret it one day. don't be pressured to do anything. do it for the right reasons if you truly think you're ready and she's ready.

[filipinobuddie]

I don't think you should have sex. It probably is the hormones talking. 15 is a little young. I mean, I'm 16, one year, yeah and I'm talking =X. But yeah, my point is it's too soon. Maybe you should wait a couple of years. Make sure, when you do have intercourse with someone, to be tested for STDs, use protection, and that you've got a connection with them.

On the other hand, I read a similar topic somewhere about a girl who had sex when she was 13, and she said she was glad she did it with that guy. She was glad that she did it at a young age with the right guy instead of 18 with a jerk.

But I think I'm going to stress the "Don't do it" point more. ^^;;

[fiji_kid]

iono...but don't do it in the girls bathroom like the ppl in my friends school. lol

same thing happen at my skool..

[WildGriffin]

try to be a virgin till ur 21 lol

Psssh, i don't even have to try, i just am.

That's how elite i be.

[Got Shibby?]

Just do what feels right. But, if you want to do it with someone you'll be with for a long time, I doubt you and her will be together that long.

[ll_behbiixpinay_...]

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[swteznitemarez]

um, i think 16 is the legal age for that.. i dunno... but ppl do it ne ways if u jus want pleasure, eh whatever, get it over with nd end up a father, but if u really love her, wait a while, maybe she is the one who isn't ready.

[azn_r4pf4n]

i'd b honest 2 u. this ain't the right time for sex. ur 15, right? Yu should wait till after ur married. Yah, i kno 50% of marriges in the U.S. end up in divorce, but this ain't the right time for sex. she might get pregnant from it. it's for ur own safety. srry, but this is the truth. im not bein mean or n-e thing

[barbie]

you should wait till after your teen years, physically you are ready, but mentally youre not!

[islandkiss]

I think it's better to have sex when you're married. When you have sex at this age you put yourself in the risk of getting stds and getting the girl pregnant. All that drama leads to a horrid future b/c it brings STRESS. And how do you know that you really love her? Remember, Condoms aren't always effective, and don't rely on birth control pills/patches either.
> Don't think about sex now, you got a future ahead of you and you need to worry about SCHOOL now.

[BurstinStarzz]

it all comes down to the relationship level...me and my bf waited a year to do it and we are glad we waited...but i was 14 at the time! but i knew that my bf was the one because we could stay together for that long...i would wait a little while to see if this girl is the right one

[simplysweet259]

the only people that can really decide on that subject are you and your girl. =D If it's something that you feel uncomfortable talking about with her, then it's probably not the right time.