Some girls don't like me........., ........coz I'm popular :( |
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 May 27 2006, 09:48 AM
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 Ralph+Emma= love!!!!!!!!!  Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,063  |
Hi guys.
I used to have some friends but they dumped me coz they say that i'm too perfect they hate me. I'm very popular, u know i'm the kinda girl that everyone knows and likes. I've many older friends and they invite me to their parties and my friends used to get mad. On Saint Valentine's day all my boy classmates brought me flowers and presents(almost everybody has a crush on me) and my friends wouldn't speak to me. But really it's not my fault that every boy likes me. I just try to be nice and sweet w/ everyone. But i don't like anybody else, i love my bf. A month ago my friend was like: Don't talk to me again. I hate you. U r so f****** beautiful, u r smart,u have the most amazing bohemian style ever, teachers like u, u do good at school, every single boy that meets u thinks u r the cutest and sweetest girl ever. But I hate you!!!!!!!!! Even my parents love u more than they love me. I'm fed up w/ you Emma Sue!!!!Emma Sue!The nicest name!!! I hate you!!!!! U r like England's sweetheart!!!!!!! And since then she and her friends don't talk to me. I've got other friends but I can't understand why some girls don't like me only because I'm popular. It's unfair coz I'm totally nice and sweet w/ them. What do u think? |
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| *Programmer* |
May 27 2006, 10:08 AM
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jealousy is a thing some people can't control. you look good you look good. you didn't ask to be the way you are so enjoy it. Obviously they are not real friends if they let little crap like that get in the way. move on and enjoy life.
 but on a lighter note might wanna tone it down on viewing yourself. makes you sound kind of conceited. 
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May 27 2006, 10:09 AM
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 Kris is getting bonified. Group: Member Posts: 3,172 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,366 |
Wow.. you sound really cocky and conceited, Emma Sue. I don't think I like you either!
 -Christine |
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May 27 2006, 10:17 AM
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Just remember that not everyone in the hole world is going to like you.. Everyone has there ifs and buts.. and your one of them :-)
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May 27 2006, 10:51 AM
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QUOTE(Nugget @ May 27 2006, 11:09 AM)  Wow.. you sound really cocky and conceited, Emma Sue. I don't think I like you either! -Christine I agree. 
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May 27 2006, 10:57 AM
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mm wow..
 either your haters are just being retarded orr they actualy have a reason other than your "perfection" that you havent figured out yet, to hate you. but i cant help you get your friends backk. not wont if youre wondering. youre on your own on this one girll! much luck xx |
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May 27 2006, 11:08 AM
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Ralph+Emma= love!!!!!!!!! Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,063 |
Look, I'm not conceited. And why do u guys say u don't like me ?u don't even know me.
I'm sad cozshe doesn't speak to me anymore , i thought she waz a good friend. She was totally nice w/ me and suddenly it was like an explosion: she started yelling at me and saying all these things i told you. I just can't understand why she waz like that. 
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May 27 2006, 12:01 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,459 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,021 |
No offense, but it seems you're a bit over the top with yourself. Tone down a bit on your "i'm so perfect" things- if you go around saying things like that, people definitely aren't going to like you, in reality and online.
However, what your friends did was also wrong. They might've felt intimated, even, besides the whole jealousy thing. And if they got mad at you over that, I doubt they're worth the effort to maintain a friendship with anyways. They should like you for who you are, and not care who is "better" in your little group of friends. |
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May 27 2006, 12:07 PM
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I'm not who you think I am Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,458 |
QUOTE(Emma Sue @ May 27 2006, 12:08 PM) Look, I'm not conceited. And why do u guys say u don't like me ?u don't even know me. I'm sad cozshe doesn't speak to me anymore , i thought she waz a good friend. She was totally nice w/ me and suddenly it was like an explosion: she started yelling at me and saying all these things i told you. I just can't understand why she waz like that. The fact that you told everyone they hate you because you're popular is just.. -___- it sounds like something you assumed. Don't say things like that. Maybe you changed personality because you are popular now  Ever thought of that? Or maybe they hate how you think you're all that. Most people hate popular kids because they're so god damn concieted. Surely you probably did something so... concieted that got them hating at you.
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May 27 2006, 12:21 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
Hrm, your attitude (if that's how you really are offline, assuming from the way you talked about yourself in that first post up there), seems a little stand off-ish. No one likes anyone who can't be humble.
But anyway, the world won't love you. The world isn't a bunch of guys having a schoolboy crush on you. If you've lost your friends, then make some new ones. If you can't, then make ammends with your old ones and at least try to be nicer and a little less proud. Good luck. |
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May 27 2006, 01:08 PM
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 peace&love, earth flower Group: Member Posts: 651 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 398,938 |
I basically agree with everyone else. Saying that they don't like you because you're popular does make you sound a bit conceited. If that's the way you are off line they may just be turned off by your attitude. How ever, they may just be jealous. And you can't blame that one friend for hating you if her parents really say they love you more than her. I mean, think about it. If your parents said that to you, wouldn't you be upset?
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May 27 2006, 02:22 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
i dno...from what i've read, i wouldnt wanna be your friend either. "almost everybody had a crush on me". yeah...i doubt that everyone had a crush on you. i think you need to stop being so concieted and acting like your all that.
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| *I Shot JFK* |
May 27 2006, 02:44 PM
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QUOTE(Emma Sue @ May 27 2006, 3:48 PM) Hi guys. I used to have some friends but they dumped me coz they say that i'm too perfect they hate me. I'm very popular, u know i'm the kinda girl that everyone knows and likes. I've many older friends and they invite me to their parties and my friends used to get mad. On Saint Valentine's day all my boy classmates brought me flowers and presents(almost everybody has a crush on me) and my friends wouldn't speak to me. But really it's not my fault that every boy likes me. I just try to be nice and sweet w/ everyone. But i don't like anybody else, i love my bf. A month ago my friend was like: Don't talk to me again. I hate you. U r so f****** beautiful, u r smart,u have the most amazing bohemian style ever, teachers like u, u do good at school, every single boy that meets u thinks u r the cutest and sweetest girl ever. But I hate you!!!!!!!!! Even my parents love u more than they love me. I'm fed up w/ you Emma Sue!!!!Emma Sue!The nicest name!!! I hate you!!!!! U r like England's sweetheart!!!!!!! And since then she and her friends don't talk to me. I've got other friends but I can't understand why some girls don't like me only because I'm popular. It's unfair coz I'm totally nice and sweet w/ them. What do u think? you remind me of Gretchen from mean Girls... when she apologizes because she's sorry she's perfect. but ANYWAY. meh. if they hate you for being who you are, tell them to f**k off. *shrugs* |
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May 27 2006, 03:12 PM
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Bottom line, you seem to be a little on the conceited side, and I think most would agree. You may be sweet, but you're not making yourself sound like it right now. And the fact that you've quoted the things your (ex-)friend told you, it almost sounds like you're flattering yourself.
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May 27 2006, 03:36 PM
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Yeah well you sound really cocky.
& Emma Sue is not the nicest name .. I don't really think its a NICE name at all. |
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May 27 2006, 03:38 PM
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Whenever you talk to anyone, dont talk about what you look like, what body features you have, and how GREAT your personality is. If you talk about yourself, people will start to realize that your're more than the looks which will lead to someone dislike you as well as jealousy. Its best not to tell them about yourself. They should realize you more ... by themselves (without you talking about yourself). They wouldnt hate you for that.
People who talk about themselves being pretty are usually annoying, disturbing, and unpleasant. Eventually, they are left with no "actual" friends to understand you, to love you for your personality, and sacrifice quality time for you. There are ways to improve your image. You just need to change your clothes in a appropriate way that will discourage super shallow people, less makeup, bigger backpack  , and make yourself to stand out less in the crowd.If you’re one of the girls who scream like … “omgg!! Ahhhhhhhhh!! Awwwwwwm hehehe”, eliminate that too. It can attract attentions, people, and reputations. |
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May 27 2006, 03:41 PM
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 & my dreams fall down Group: Member Posts: 1,173 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 291,336 |
to tell you the truth i wouldn't like you from the very start...
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May 27 2006, 03:45 PM
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You're kidding me right?
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May 27 2006, 03:53 PM
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^
I dont like your either. No, i'm not kidding. i really HATE you. |
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May 27 2006, 04:00 PM
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I'm not who you think I am Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,458 |
^haha Suzzette XD
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May 27 2006, 06:19 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
QUOTE(Emma Sue @ May 27 2006, 7:48 AM) Hi guys. I used to have some friends but they dumped me coz they say that i'm too perfect they hate me. I'm very popular, u know i'm the kinda girl that everyone knows and likes. I've many older friends and they invite me to their parties and my friends used to get mad. On Saint Valentine's day all my boy classmates brought me flowers and presents(almost everybody has a crush on me) and my friends wouldn't speak to me. But really it's not my fault that every boy likes me. I just try to be nice and sweet w/ everyone. But i don't like anybody else, i love my bf. A month ago my friend was like: Don't talk to me again. I hate you. U r so f****** beautiful, u r smart,u have the most amazing bohemian style ever, teachers like u, u do good at school, every single boy that meets u thinks u r the cutest and sweetest girl ever. But I hate you!!!!!!!!! Even my parents love u more than they love me. I'm fed up w/ you Emma Sue!!!!Emma Sue!The nicest name!!! I hate you!!!!! U r like England's sweetheart!!!!!!! And since then she and her friends don't talk to me. I've got other friends but I can't understand why some girls don't like me only because I'm popular. It's unfair coz I'm totally nice and sweet w/ them. What do u think? I think their just jealous, personally. |
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May 27 2006, 06:19 PM
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Shouldn't this be in relationships?
Well..try not to seem like the popular type of kid.. 
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May 27 2006, 07:41 PM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
To be perfectly honest, I'd hate you too. But I'm just a naturally jealous person.
I dunno what to tell you except to just let these things go..obviously these people have such low self-esteem, and they must look up to you constantly to compare themselves to you. |
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May 27 2006, 11:19 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
hehehahahehheahaha.
kk. QUOTE(Nugget @ May 27 2006, 10:09 AM) Wow.. you sound really cocky and conceited, Emma Sue. I don't think I like you either! -Christine agreed. |
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May 27 2006, 11:35 PM
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Wow that sucks. Seriously as you can see or read from what everyone else posted .. you know what's wrong with yourself. You just need to really change the way you say things that's all. Sure if they say your perfect, nice this and that and i'm guessing you think so too .. You don't have to tell people you're "popular". It does make you look conceited. Besides how would you feel if your friend said she's popular and all the things that is happening to you is happening her, of course you would get jealous but to say you are popular is really off the meter in the "i'm a nice persion". -___-; &seriously not everyone is going to like you.
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