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 May 19 2006, 01:16 PM
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 another victim of love  Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 409,214  |
so me & this guy dated hmmm i liked him alot too..well he told me he wanted to take a break so we did. He went out with my best friend. me & her are no longer friends..we're more like enemies & they just recently broke up..He wants to get back with me. But why did he want to take a break in the first place ? if i wasnt good enough for him then what makes me good enough for him now ? should i date him, im still attractive to him i just think he lost all my trust everything when he went out with her. & her too im not gonna put it all on him cuz she was my bestfriend she shouldnt have done that to me..but then again i dont own him so i guess she can go out with who ever she wnats. it just really crushed my heart first with him & then knowin my bestfriend would do that to me. If i do go out with him i think part of the reason would be to make her jealous..
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May 19 2006, 01:18 PM
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well do you want to have that chance of getting hurt again?
it sounds like he doesn't know what he wants.. But really its up to you. Do you want to be in a relationship with him again? |
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May 19 2006, 02:03 PM
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I despise guys that are like that...
He breaks up with you for your best friend, figured out it wasn't gonna work out, so now he wants you back. Thing is, you shouldn't act on jealousy, and you should ask him why he wants you back all of the sudden... I was silly and took back the guy that did something like that to me... Trust me, it didn't work out. Like Hollyann said, Do you really wanna take that chance on getting hurt again? |
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May 19 2006, 05:43 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
if you want to go back with him theres nothing wrong with that. but you gotta remember that he had the power to hurt you and *still* holds that power. and if you do go out with him, you gotta trust him too. cuz then its just not right to accuse him if he really is being sincere. but do what your heart tells you, but listen to your inside voice too
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May 19 2006, 10:53 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
I tihnk its up to you.but if i was you..i wouldnt..but hey its your life..your choices.
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May 20 2006, 02:37 AM
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Don't get with him to make her jealous. Forget them both and move on with your life because it isn't worth your time. Relationships...it's not about the him or the her...it's about the "us."
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May 20 2006, 03:21 PM
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another victim of love Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 409,214 |
QUOTE(Stately Lover @ May 20 2006, 2:37 AM)  Don't get with him to make her jealous. Forget them both and move on with your life because it isn't worth your time. Relationships...it's not about the him or the her...it's about the "us." i really liked that advice |
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May 20 2006, 08:00 PM
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i agree with stately lover
don't just get bck with him because you want to make her jealous, chances are that you're just going to hurt yourself again. we can't decide for you whether or not you should get back with him. it's completely up to you. but then just forget about the both of them and move on. there are much much better guys for you out there |
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May 20 2006, 08:12 PM
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I'd move on. What makes you think that if you two get back together, he won't just do the same thing again?
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May 21 2006, 07:34 PM
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I think its kinda gross. Your best ex friend had what you want.. but you had him first.. BUT STILL.. gross..
Go with your heart.. sorry for not helping more :-( |
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May 21 2006, 11:37 PM
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you deserve soooooo much better. Unless you know for a fact that he's incredibly sorry and regretting it, I would say definitly move on! and...see if u can talk to ur bestfirend too. tell her how hurt u were.
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