a guy asked me to prom |
 May 12 2006, 03:36 PM
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 i think you're stupid.  Group: Member Posts: 608 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,203  |
and i really only think of him as my friend. i mean i don't really like him but he likes me and it came as i total suprise. i don't know what to tell him. i mean i think it'd be fun but i don't want to lead him on. what should i do?
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| *My Cinderella.* |
May 12 2006, 03:40 PM
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Tell him the truth, the way you told us. Tell him that he's a great friend and how you love being his friend but you just don't see him in that way. To make it fun, I think you and him should go together with a group of friends.
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May 12 2006, 04:16 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
Do you really want to go with him? You could just go as friends, lots of people do that. I wish I could go to the prom...there isn't one for me to even go to
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May 12 2006, 04:30 PM
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i think you're stupid. Group: Member Posts: 608 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,203 |
well i want go with him as a friend but that's not what he has in mind i don't think. so how can i tell him that without sounding like a jerk? cause sometimes when people say like "i think it's best if we're friends." it sounds rude.
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May 12 2006, 04:41 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
I think you should say something like, "Uhm, sure I'll go to prom with you, but as friends okay? I just..don't want to get involved in anything just yet."
Just try your best to make things not sound rude.. I mean, it's the truth, right?  The truth does hurt sometimes, even when you don't want it to. How he takes the news of you just wanting to be friends with him, is up to him. Good luck. 
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May 13 2006, 11:30 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
I think you should go with him..I mean I would..I mean if you don`t want to ..then you don`t have to.I would say first though..we`re going as friends not a gf/bf thing.
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May 13 2006, 11:38 PM
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tell him that you do care for him but just not the same way as he does. that you don't see him in that same light but you would really appreciate it to keep him as a good friend, that you mean what you say and that if he trusts you, he would understand. there's really know good way in ensuring that he'll believe in whatever you say, it really depends on how well he trusts you. take the risk and hope for the best. if he can't understand, they you can't say you didn't try.
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May 14 2006, 02:55 AM
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 Love is a flame that can't be tamed Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 396,304 |
Talk to him slowly and seriously what you just said here. Try to make him not feel stupid for liking you. Say something like "I'm really flattered that you like me." and/or "Thanks for liking me that way." to lighten up the mood and just to make him feel good/okay that you know. Then say to him that you trust him to understand that you don't want to lead him on by going to the prom with him. Say to him that you're telling him this because you don't want to hurt him. You know, just make him feel okay and not stupid liking you.
Good Luck
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May 14 2006, 10:49 AM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
What makes you think he likes you more than friends?
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May 14 2006, 11:39 AM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
^ That's what I was wondering. If you want to go with him, go. If you don't want to go with him, don't. But if you go with him, just make it clear that you're going as friends.
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May 14 2006, 02:08 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Why can't you go as friends? I've had guys ask me out to movies and stuff as friends, and there's nothing wrong w/ it. You know, sometimes, when a guy ask you, it really only means just friends.
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May 14 2006, 02:11 PM
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GD. <3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,222 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 198,566 |
^ uhmm... they can't go as friends because HE wants to go as something else.
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May 14 2006, 02:29 PM
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It's been a few days, are there any updates? Have you two talked about any of this? If you haven't, you could just mention something like, "I'm glad we're going as friends, you're such a cool guy" or something along those lines. Specify the 'friends' part, but add a little flattery in there so you don't come across on the rude side, y'know? Just to make it an easy transition. Or just tell him that you want to take things slow and you wouldn't want to rush into anything. But you should definitely got with him, if worse comes to worse you could just dance with other people if you had to for whatever reason.
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May 14 2006, 03:04 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(agiri @ May 14 2006, 12:11 PM)  ^ uhmm... they can't go as friends because HE wants to go as something else. How do you know that...Just because she said "he likes me"? Did he ever tell her that he liked her more than friends? This girl could just be full of herself. |
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May 14 2006, 07:27 PM
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i think you're stupid. Group: Member Posts: 608 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,203 |
QUOTE(Rachel is love @ May 14 2006, 4:04 PM) How do you know that...Just because she said "he likes me"? Did he ever tell her that he liked her more than friends? This girl could just be full of herself. that was pretty rude  anyway i know he likes me as more than a friend because he later asked me if i knew he wanted to go as gf/bf kind of thing. but it turns out i couldn't go anyways...which sucks, but thanks, guys, for helping me out. 
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May 14 2006, 07:38 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 405,463 |
I think you should give him a chance.
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May 15 2006, 01:45 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,834 |
say what u just said on here to him
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May 15 2006, 01:55 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
i agree with everyone. just tell him you want to go as friends but really....has he told you straight up that he likes you? it could be jus some misunderstanding and he wants to go as friends and your taking it the wrong way. its really not a big deal if you tell him the truth...
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May 15 2006, 08:04 PM
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 =] Group: Member Posts: 1,910 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 156,614 |
Let him take you to the prom!
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May 16 2006, 01:52 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,450 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,407 |
Wow you're so insecure.
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