Love At Our Age?, Young love |
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Love At Our Age?, Young love |
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#76
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![]() Band Geek. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 ![]() |
I think that anyone, any age, can feel love, but I think as you get older the feeling matures into something greater than what you feel in say, middle school. I think it grows over time, also. Love is a very opinionated word, it means different things to different people, so whatever you think is love, probably is to you, but might not be to another person.
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#77
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![]() Moonlight Dreams ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 203,581 ![]() |
at 13 and 14, they call it "crush"...i've never fallen in "true love" when i was 13/14/15..i just had a crush on a lot of guys!!!!
All a matter of opinion! |
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#78
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![]() Jasmin. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 311,076 ![]() |
i think that at whatever age, when your in love - your what you think is love when that either, that young or old. as you get older love coukd mean totally different things to what it does mean to you when your, say 15?
love is still love. no matter how old you are, or what level it is.. |
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#79
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![]() I love Havasupai ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,040 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,878 ![]() |
Love can be experienced at any age. It goes without saying that the meaning of love will change and develop over time.
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![]() dizzy me up. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 ![]() |
wells as i said before in some other post, who's to say what love is?
the perspective of love is different to everyone, and i dont think age has much to do with it. but unless you're overly immature or all you do in a relationship is make out. how about a mother-daughter love? why doesnt anyone ever question that type of love? or a friend-friend? who's to say you really love your best friend? |
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#81
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![]() Brand New Colony ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,078 ![]() |
nowadays, everyone is throwin` around the word love like its no big deal. chances are most kids middle school -beginning of high school (ie.9-10th) arent really going to even experiance REAL love. kids these days are all immature saying oh i love you, after going out. Do they really feel obligated to say such things? they may feel like they love someone, but when you truely love someone, the love never goes away. even if you break up.
whats everyone else`s view on this? is young love, real love? edit// it just makes me angry how everyone is all like 'oh i`m in love' and 'i love you' especially after knowing someone for like a week, and then going out with them or something. QUOTE(K!$$ @ Jan 20 2006, 11:04 PM) I'm sorry but i disagree with that seeing as everybody's different and we can't go around telling people whether they're ready for love or not. True, a lot of them aren't, but you can't generalize about these things. The reason they say it is because at the time they actually thought they were really in love. The only way of finding out if it's true love is one of those life or death situations like Would You Rather Save Him Or Save Yourself thing. The fact is people mature at different ages and sometimes you might come across someone who still isn't emotionally ready to say "i love you" at the age of 20. If kids can say "i love you" to their parents and mean it, then they can say the same to their bf/gf. ^ you know she is right |
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#82
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![]() i <3 peter ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 744 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,986 ![]() |
true true..i agree
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#83
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![]() Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 ![]() |
I think that nobody is able to tell, but ourselves. But sometimes ( a lot of the times ) people mistake infatuations, or intense like for love, and run with the emotion, thinking fully that it is love they are feeling.
As for myself, I have only felt love once. And right now, im struggling with whether or not my feelings are between love and lust. Cos ... its all just so confusing. |
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#84
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![]() Brand New Colony ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,078 ![]() |
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*mipadi* |
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#85
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What is love but a fancy way of saying "I need your help to pay my electric bill"?
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#86
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,152 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,818 ![]() |
^Hah.
I think I'm in love. I mean, who is there to tell us what is and isn't love? |
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#87
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![]() naïvety ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 ![]() |
QUOTE(Anime_gurl_4eva @ Jan 21 2006, 12:32 PM) chances are most kids middle school -beginning of high school (ie.9-10th) arent really going to even experiance REAL love. kids these days are all immature saying oh i love you, after going out. I'm sorry but i disagree with that seeing as everybody's different and we can't go around telling people whether they're ready for love or not. True, a lot of them aren't, but you can't generalize about these things. The reason they say it is because at the time they actually thought they were really in love. The only way of finding out if it's true love is one of those life or death situations like Would You Rather Save Him Or Save Yourself thing. The fact is people mature at different ages and sometimes you might come across someone who still isn't emotionally ready to say "i love you" at the age of 20. If kids can say "i love you" to their parents and mean it, then they can say the same to their bf/gf. |
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#88
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![]() Brand New Colony ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,078 ![]() |
QUOTE(K!$$ @ Jan 20 2006, 11:04 PM) I'm sorry but i disagree with that seeing as everybody's different and we can't go around telling people whether they're ready for love or not. True, a lot of them aren't, but you can't generalize about these things. The reason they say it is because at the time they actually thought they were really in love. The only way of finding out if it's true love is one of those life or death situations like Would You Rather Save Him Or Save Yourself thing. The fact is people mature at different ages and sometimes you might come across someone who still isn't emotionally ready to say "i love you" at the age of 20. If kids can say "i love you" to their parents and mean it, then they can say the same to their bf/gf. i think your quite right |
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*Azarel* |
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#89
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http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=111206
http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=82823 Please search before creating topics. |
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#90
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![]() Brand New Colony ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,078 ![]() |
sorrrrry i didnt know there were more topics about this certain subject.
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*mipadi* |
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QUOTE(Azarel @ Jan 21 2006, 2:21 AM) http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=111206 http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=82823 Please search before creating topics. Thanks, Azarel. I'll merge these topics. |
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#92
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![]() Saap!? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 568 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,151 ![]() |
Our generation. Wow. My friend's first boyfriend: 5th grade. 5th graders getting boyfriends? Seriously. What's your guy's though on this. Is it okay? Do you think it's unappropriate?
For example, my cousin. She's in 6th grade. She has been with her boyfriend since December 17, 2005. Pretty long for a 6th grader don't you think? According to her she loves him. Jeez. These kids are only 11 or 12 years old? Do these kids know what love is? It's probably just puppy love .. I don't know. My cousin really seemed serious. But overall, kids these days seem more grown up. What's wrong with the world!? They should enjoy the boyfriend free drama they have. Jeez. |
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#93
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Really a matter of opinion
People mature at different ages So you should limit your expectations of people just because of their age its just a number. I don't think being in your first relationship its going to last you may love them in all but nothing lasts forever.. not when you have a ton more life to learn from at that young of age. So mostly i believe its a learning relationship at that age.. their just going with the crowd as well i think. People are so much of followers now a days easpecially kids younger than 13. [Just a opinion of what i see here, don't throw a hissy fit] anyway i could go on and on but my computer just spazzed out and only has this window open so brb maybe to finish this. |
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#94
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Well, either way we can't do anything to stop it from happening. Let's face it...the generation is getting younger and younger and by the time kids reach 7 they'll already have a boyfriend/girlfriend.
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#95
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![]() Love is a flame that can't be tamed ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 396,304 ![]() |
*Runs to children's section and burns fairy tales*
![]() I'd say "Of course it's puppy love." They're 11/12! They're in such a bubbled environment/life, it's not surprising that they've lasted more than a month. But hey, between those months, they might not have done anything intimate. They don't know what they're feeling, they don't know what love is, even though they think they do. We all know everyone matures at a different age and speed. But it's really unlikely for 11-12 year olds to. Personally, I'm disgusted by the people in my grade who go out and most of them last for 2-4 months. Some even "break up" after 2 days! *explode* I've learned not to care so much, but I still resent most of those inconsiderate people. *sigh* |
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well, they probobly love eachother, but what they don't realize is how difficult love really is... as they mature and grow love will become more and more complicated. Their needs and wants will change and they will need to meet eachothers needs and wants as they change... this is a major reason why i reccomend that young gals and guys don't get into a relationship... :p
Cars they all need gasoline to run and work... do you have the resources to supply the car with what it needs to run. Just like everyone in this world has wants and needs to be happy. Do you have what it takes to satisfy their wants and needs... especially when you're both changing at different rates, and turning into different people. |
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#97
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![]() Sharon! ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 403,698 ![]() |
i had my first boyfriend in 5th grade, so i can relate sorta, ha! as for love, i never understood until now. it's probably just puppy love, but yeah, as they grow up they'll understand love in more deep matters.
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![]() <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 ![]() |
most of the time young love are usually infatuation especially if you're around the 11/12 age but it doesn't matter how old you are, you can experience love at any age.
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#99
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I would have, back in the day, agreed with everyone that love can be experienced at any age.
But I have just recently come to the conclusion that love is just an "idea." Your form of love and my form of love are totally different. And there will never be a universal idea on what love truly is. Love is such an opinion and though these kids of 11 and 12 years old say they are in love, they probably are not. They have not experienced life as much as they "think" and "say" they have and they have, in reality, just begun their life. I think it may be possible for these kids to say they are in "love." But they probably don't know or have any clue as to what love is. Well, I guess I kind of contradicted myself. ...... oh well. |
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![]() i think you're stupid. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 608 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,203 ![]() |
kids see other people around them dating and acting all mateur, so they do too. usually kids who date at such a young have an older sibling or relative they look up to. but yeah i had a "boyfriend" in 4th grade. we barely spoke. lol! anyways, my friend who's 13 has been dating a guy for 8 or 9 months now. they're so sweet, but i wonder what all has happened between them, since they're still young. i think that it depends on how mateur the person is. if 11 year olds say they're dating someone, let them "date" them and it will pass. in time, relationships will become more serious.
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