friends with your ex?, ... Options

[*Uronacid*]

GF: Sierra
I Was: 15 - 16
Lasted: 1 1/2 years
How we broke up: She changed after she switched schools she strated doing drugs and sh*t... i couldnt trust her and the realationship became abusive... eventually, even tho i loved her, i called her and told her i didn't want to be with her anymore.. at first she couldnt believe it... she thought i would be there forever, but i proved her wrong. i remember her saying something to the effect of, "do you think you can handle it?". i sat there, and began to realize that i wouldnt be able to handle it if i continued to talk to her.... i decided to never talk to her again, for fear that i would fall in love with her again and and continue to live in a relationshp full of one sided love and pain... so i picked up the phone with tears in my eyes and screamed, "f**k YOU f**k YOU f**k YOU f**k YOU!!!!!! I NEVER f**king WANT OT TALK TO YOU AGAIN!!!!!!!!"..... she called me once after wards, and i asked why she was calling... i never gave her a chance to apologize or talkk about the whole situation that we had gone through... instead, i only told her,"you know, i told you to never talk to me again... f**k you *click*"
Are we still friends?: f**k no....

GF: Grace
I Was: 16 - 17
Lasted: 3 Months
How we broke up: Graced loved me, i didn't love her... i couldnt take it any more. so i broke up with her.... i told her i wanted to be friends and i felt horrible becuase she took it so hard.
Are we still friends?: Yeah, me and grace are buddies!!!! we hang out like all the time!!! we help eachother with the relationships we are in, and we have alot of fun. i even spend the night at her house like 3 - 4 days a week, but im not just friends with her... i love her family, her bro anthony... we have been buddies forever... her sister susan, loves to draw and create pictures.. man we draw pictues all the time together... and her mom is so friggin awsome... i look up to her mother because shes so wise.

GF: Rebbecca
I Was: 17 - 18
Lasted: 9 - 11 months
How we broke up: I had so many emotional issues after sierra and my parents spilting up... it was just to difficult for her to deal with me... we would consistantly fight about everything... i broke up with her, then we went back out... not more than 3 weeks later she broke up with me... it was mutual, but it was mostly her...
Are we still friends: Sort of... its awkward for me to hang out with rebecca... i think we both feel like we failed eachother, but now we have changed so much that the atraction we had is dead.... i really dont like her personal standards and morals so i wouldnt hang out with her anyways... even if i didn't know her like that..

GF: Hollyann
I Was: 19 ------>
Lasted: [Infinite] or at least for now :]
How we met: On myspace, it was completely random, i dont know why i liked her... but i just did... and now i love her... shes the cherry on my icecream sundae.... i can tell her anything, and she will try her best to understand...
Are we friends: I want to develope our friendship more, i believe there is nothing more important in a relatioship than developing a friends type aspect before you get to serious. I will always wish to be a better friend to her, so we can have a better relationship

[magicfann]

I've never had an ex, but most of my friends are not getting along too well with their exs, mostly because they're just uncomfortable.

quiet
-.-"

so uh yea we dont get along =) and i dont even know what i did, gg



i mean so what if i liked counter-striek better than her?

[Gypsy Eyes]

I'm only friends with one of my ex's, the others have ended badly.

[imm]

I've never said "Let's just be friends," simply because I don't mean it. I like to go cold turkey for a while..^^;;

[priyas]

whats cold turkey?

[Rachel]

^Stop all contact and whatnot with them immediatley.

[kill.t3h.r0cK]

Yes, I am. Ethan's an amazing kid and we're pretty much best friends. I'm actually only friends with two of my exes and the rest are just a waste of my breath.

[PrincessAda]

Umm..friends..but not best.

[msladyliberty]

I'm friends with my ex's from middle school not that having bf in middle school really counted as a real relationship...(to me, that is)

All the ex bf in high school...I have never talked to. I hate most of them anyways! They're all effin' dumb!! lol

[oooitzsharon]

i'm definitely not friends w/ the last ex, but as for the the past few, i barely talk to them. if i see them around, i just say hi to them.

[NgocQuyen]

they're not technically my ex, but they're guys that i used to talk to more than a friend you know? and i'm still friends with them lols. i don't really see anything wrong with it really...i mean it just shows that you two can be mature about the situation i guess...

[creamyxlicious]

Eh, not really..

It's usually ackward afterwards,
and though I do miss the bond
I used to have with some of them..

I perfer having them cut out of my life.

I think I'm too emotional to deal
with the aftermath to make things okay
between my exs and I.

[lovapalooza]

in the case of my recent ex, yes we are friends. but it wasn't a midnight thing though. it was only after seeing him on webdate.com that i got to communicate with him after we broke up. i know he's dating other girls online and i have been doing the same (with guys of course). but at least we're friends and that's a good thing for me.

[teenprincess]

Yea I'm like best friends with my ex. We hang out every morning, break and lunch at school. We actually did the friends w/ benefits thing for a little while after we broke up. It sucked though because my ex got over me really fast and I didn't get over him until... today lol

[Rachel]

^Wow, basically I am in the same boat, except we aren't best friends. We did the benefits thing and then realized it wasn't helping us get over eachother. He went out and f**ked 2, maybe 3 other girls. I can't be around him that much anymore.