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going to the doctor after losing your virginity, i need advice/help.
xo_rock
post May 7 2006, 11:49 AM
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okay, so me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex (i dont know if this topic is "innapropriate" but im sorry if it is.), and we have done "foreplay" and stuff before. I have my physical in august, and we are most likely gonna have sex before then.

Im nervous because my doctor asks every year "have you had sex", and i dont know how to answer it this year. My doctor knows & is kinda friends with my mom, and i dont want her knowing im having sex because she wants me to wait until im married, but im completely in love with my boyfriend now, and ive already thought it through.

what do i say to my doctor?
i know i probably shouldnt lie, because they need to know incase you get an STD, STI, or get pregnant, but i really do not want her telling my mom.
Should i tell my doctor i have (because i most likely will have sex before my physical)
and if so, what should i say to her?
 

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xo_rock   going to the doctor after losing your virginity   May 7 2006, 11:49 AM
ama   if you're really that worried about your mom f...   May 7 2006, 01:07 PM
xo_rock   yeah so i really need someones advice.   May 7 2006, 01:49 PM
RiC3xBoy   Just tell your doctor the truth, and ask that he/s...   May 7 2006, 01:50 PM
mseryel2   QUOTE(RiC3xBoy @ May 7 2006, 11:50 AM) Ju...   May 8 2006, 10:25 PM
hrhcrazy007   QUOTE(RiC3xBoy @ May 7 2006, 2:50 PM) Jus...   May 9 2006, 01:33 PM
_sarcastic_   ^agreed just tell your doctor, she's going to ...   May 7 2006, 01:56 PM
juliar   Yea, if you ask your doctor not to tell, your doct...   May 7 2006, 02:03 PM
helllla jankyyyy   You shouldn't lie. Doctors aren't supposed...   May 7 2006, 02:10 PM
doork   QUOTE(helllla jankyyyy @ May 7 2006, 2:10...   Jun 30 2006, 03:20 AM
xo_rock   yeah im 15, so thats not too young to the point wh...   May 7 2006, 02:19 PM
aznxdreamer   ^ i dnoo...most teenagers that young THINK that th...   May 7 2006, 02:32 PM
viola_winnie   tell the doctor and tell her not to tell this to y...   May 8 2006, 03:49 AM
lil_nat_cat   erm........... ^ditto! ur onli 15.... thinkin...   May 8 2006, 04:41 AM
xCrys   ^ I agree with what she says... Though 15? Even t...   May 8 2006, 08:45 AM
This Confession   sorry i read it wrong and thought the wrong thing....   May 8 2006, 08:53 AM
Uronacid   QUOTE(xo_rock @ May 7 2006, 12:49 PM) oka...   May 8 2006, 10:19 AM
Smoogrish   ^ That's some really good advice. Tell your d...   May 8 2006, 04:13 PM
swimgirlarc   Like uronacid said... people change alot through h...   May 8 2006, 08:42 PM
Uronacid   Also, before you say you love your boyfriend... as...   May 8 2006, 09:30 PM
iROCKYOURSOCKS   QUOTE(Uronacid @ May 8 2006, 9:30 PM) Als...   May 8 2006, 10:23 PM
x_signhere   To avoid telling the truth to the doctor, go get y...   May 9 2006, 05:26 AM
gponce10104   when he asks the question just say yes. you dont h...   May 9 2006, 08:19 AM
Evil_One1   Well, think about it. If you ever got pregnant or ...   May 9 2006, 08:43 PM
xbabyboo   Tell your doctor to keep it between you and her/hi...   May 10 2006, 08:02 PM
Comik_knerd   That's why you just listen to your parents and...   May 12 2006, 10:33 AM
Uronacid   QUOTE(Comik_knerd @ May 12 2006, 11:33 AM...   May 12 2006, 10:51 AM
lalalaLANUH   I don't have any first hand experience in this...   May 12 2006, 05:19 PM
Paradox of Life   Um, don't lose your virginity if you don't...   May 12 2006, 07:08 PM
one_and_only   you can tell your doctor you want your parent to w...   May 13 2006, 01:55 PM
killuh katy   well one day it will come to you. i went through i...   May 13 2006, 10:19 PM
DORKalicious   if your so worried about it, just don't have s...   May 14 2006, 02:26 PM
somebody_toldmex   QUOTE(DORKalicious @ May 14 2006, 2:26 PM...   Jun 3 2006, 09:07 PM
This Confession   ^ yea i mostly agree with that although josh [uron...   May 14 2006, 04:17 PM
adecimalabove   virgin, haha but i prolly would   May 15 2006, 02:15 PM
Jennasaur   Doctor-Patient confidentiality. I don't think ...   Jun 1 2006, 08:01 PM
Angelina Taylor   You're 14!!!!!!! A...   Jun 1 2006, 09:03 PM
x3_mr_mak   15 IS kinda early if ur completely in love w/ ur b...   Jun 1 2006, 10:59 PM
Ox_Su`Zie   ^^^ your pretty i saw your myspace. QUOTE(x3_mr_...   Jun 2 2006, 01:19 PM
mizzkim   haha... maybe you should do your physical first.. ...   Jun 3 2006, 05:09 PM
cheri_pi   Yeah, there's doctor-patient confidentiality, ...   Jun 4 2006, 08:24 AM
Hannarr   First off if you are really worried wait untill a...   Jun 8 2006, 08:47 AM
lauren5848   either dont have sex or tell ur doctor the truth a...   Jun 10 2006, 07:04 AM
tincannnnn   i think it is your doctor's job to keep it con...   Jun 30 2006, 03:14 AM


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