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 May 4 2006, 07:28 PM
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 i think you're stupid.  Group: Member Posts: 608 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,203  |
a reality check? are you stupid? i realize i'm not the "hottest" girl ever, but that gives you no right to call me ugly. i don't even know who the hell you are. you don't know who the hell i am either. and in case you didn't read my first post, i asked you to help me, not judge me.
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| *Uronacid* |
May 4 2006, 07:36 PM
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shhhhh... its not about being hot or ugly or anything physical for that matter... the truth is a relationship in your life will come along natrually... don't be impacient... let the relationship come to you... not the other way around :)
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May 6 2006, 02:24 PM
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MiCHELLEY. Group: Member Posts: 164 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,846 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ May 4 2006, 6:21 PM)  i just saw your pictures on your myspace, and i don't blame the guys jerk. |
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| *Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg* |
May 6 2006, 02:50 PM
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QUOTE(colleen92 @ Apr 29 2006, 4:45 PM) I don't know if i'll sound like a huge jerk when i'm explaining but if i do i apologize. The only time I’ve ever been asked out was by this really weird guy. All my friends have been asked out by someone that’s actually nice. I think I’m pretty. It’s not like I don’t have friends, I have lots of friends. And a bunch of them are guys. So I don't know why they wouldn't notice me. I’m not shy at all. I flirt sometimes too. Has this ever happened to anyone else? What can I do to make them realize that I want someone to like me? There's your problem right there, bold and red. Guys can sometimes be pretty damn clueless. The guys you hang out with probably see you as a friend, not more. So maybe you should make the first move? |
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May 6 2006, 05:18 PM
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 Miss Kayleigh Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 401,740 |
I don't think he looked at the rest of your pictures. You ARE really cute. And a girl who's really cool is automaticly cool to a guy too. Guys don't normally like to go out with bizzy natches, so your time will deff. come. In fact, I bet your guy friends get guys that like you all the time, but they don't tell you.
Just a few days ago my friend confessed to me that a few guys have gotten on aim and said, "Dude...don't take this the wrong way...but your best friend is HOT." See what I mean? Tell your guy friends that this information is crucial and not to dally with it. |
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May 6 2006, 10:41 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ May 4 2006, 5:15 PM) just givin you a reality check Not all guys are shallow. It depends on personality. And what you said was kinda hurtful. |
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May 7 2006, 09:47 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 844 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 362,677 |
You just gotta wait for the right person to come. They also may not think you're girlfriend material.
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May 7 2006, 10:29 AM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ May 4 2006, 7:15 PM) just givin you a reality check There's a difference between being realistic and being flat-out rude. This here is being rude and that is not tolerated here. This is a verbal warning. Anyway, about not being asked out - don't worry about it. Having friends is good at your age. Anything more can wait. Consider dating a bonus to your current social life. And don't have the mindset of "I'm not pretty enough" or "I'm not nice enough" because it's not true. Guys are pretty clueless like Meg said. If you really want to get into dating, sometimes you have to make the first move. |
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