guy help pleaseee., asap, kinda emergency? thanks TONSS. Options

[-sincerely]

okay. So I 'used' to like this guy. I'm saying used because I'm trying to tell everybody I don't like him anymore, although I do, because I know he does not like me. Atleast not yet. But anywayyy, on thursday I have a rehersal during my real lunch period, so I'm going to sit with my friends at their lunch table, which is the table in front of his. All of my friends have been asking him if he likes me, so he probably knows that I like him. I'm not sure how to act in front of him. Advice? thanks TONS x 5735693. (:

[waccoon]

Act like you're interested in him. (Which you should be.) Just be a superb friend and if you're really interested, go for it LATER - but before you go past the "I don't wanna do anything with you because I don't want to ruin our friendship" boundary.

[-sincerely]

thanks. I mean though, I don't know if I should ignore him or say hi to him or whatever. Cos he'll be with his friends, I'll be with mine .. know what I mean?

[Ington]

Well, it depends how old you are.

Nick's point would work fine, if you're at a more mature age. Honestly, if you're younger and try that, you'd probably only get giggles from your friends in response. It wouldn't be 'being a good friend', but 'trying to be with him'.

If you're over (or act over) the age of 16, Nick's idea should work.

Also, there's always a time when you aren't with all your friends. I suggest a little patience. Also, don't say hi like its out of your way to, and that you have to tell him something important. Make it seem like you just wanted to say hi. Then talk, if you'd like.

[-sincerely]

I'm going to be 14 in June (13th. :D) and he turned 13 April 19th.

[BryMonster]

Just be completely subtle and
be yourself. Don't be anything you've
seen other girls do or something. I
mean, give him a good first
impression..just don't push it so far.
Give compliments if anything, like
on his hair, or his smile or anything
like that.

[PrincessAda]

Be yourself.Don`t be acting different or anything over a boy.I think you should try to become a good friend first..

[-sincerely]

Thanks (:

[*Uronacid*]

thats right, be yourself, there's nothing more important.... if you want to talk to him talk to him if you think you would talk to him if you were feeling normal talk to him... if he does like you let him like you for who you really are, and visa versa... :0

[-sincerely]

Thanks. I guess its beacuse I'm really shy around the opposite sex half the time. Well, now theres a chance I won't be going during that lunch period, but the chances I'm eating there are more likely.

[jerre1624]

It depends on what kind of guys he is. I mean, it is sometimes super obvious that a girl likes you, depending on how they act around you, and if another girl asks randomly if he likes you. I know personaly that i really can't stand it when girls are trying to make themselves noticed if they like me, i mean i should only like them if i am attracted to them in their normal environment and normal actions. I also presonally cannot stand it when a girl will change how she is sometimes even in the slightest way if she likes me, as if a hope for me to return her fealings. I recommend acting as yourself, because sometimes, we just have to realize that they will either like us for who we are, or not at all. For instance this weekend, i was with a group of friends and this one girl who i have a huge crush on, every day. I was trying to make myself more noticible too much, and eventually realized that i need to just act normal. If you maybe want to start a relationship with a guy, get to know him a little bit first, if you see him walking during school, randomly say hi or smile everytime he walks by, and eventually he will gain an interest to know who you are, and that is where you become his friend, and eventually see how things work out.