breaks?, what do you do or what are they for? |
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 Apr 28 2006, 08:50 AM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥  Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615  |
QUOTE(helllla jankyyyy @ Apr 24 2006, 7:42 PM)  there is no point. i dont believe in breaks. Same here. I think breaks are retarded. Unless your girlfriend/boyfriend is extremely needy 24/7 and constantly pulling you away from your friends, family, or schoolwork, then I think breaks are pointless.Take my boyfriend & I. One time he claimed he needed a "break," which I thought was crap because I don't demand that much attention from him. I didn't ask him to constantly think about me. I think I gave him enough space. |
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Apr 28 2006, 01:01 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
To me, breaks are essentially the "dress rehersal" for a break up. It's just they don't want to hurt your feelings too much by saying that they wanna break it off with you. Usually, the person who suggests to go on a break have already made up his/her mind about the relationship, and the break is to help them finalize their decision. I don't think breaks are useful; if anything, they could cause damage to an otherwise healthy relationship.
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May 1 2006, 08:15 PM
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when your parter asks for a break give them a day or two before you go and have a long talk with its better if you guys talked in person that would be good...as long as you two agree on the break up its fine
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May 1 2006, 08:22 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
Basically,
You take a break to have a breath of fresh air. You need to just be by yourself for a bit, and further contemplate whether you really want to be with the person you are with. Usually it's a trial-break up. You see if you actually miss the person and want to keep going, or if you feel better without the person and want to break up. Not fun, breaks. But they do help sometimes. If I usually go on a break then I won't get back together though. |
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