Dont Know What to do!, I need help |
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 May 1 2006, 08:46 AM
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aholic_sb  Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,525  |
I liked a girl, and my friend likes her also and he always flirts with the girl. But then the girl likes me and I dont know what should I do now...
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May 1 2006, 09:05 AM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
Ask the girl out. If she likes you and you like her there is no problem.
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May 1 2006, 09:06 AM
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aholic_sb Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,525 |
i had asked her out... we went to the karaoke but she always wanted her bestfriend to come along
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May 1 2006, 09:08 AM
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 We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
Then it's not a real date. Make sure she understands it's a "me and you" thing.
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May 1 2006, 09:10 AM
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aholic_sb Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,525 |
but i dont know is this a good sign or a bad sign... last time we were in the taxi at night only me and her... she gave me a hug before she left the taxi
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May 1 2006, 09:11 AM
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 in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(aholic_sb @ May 1 2006, 9:06 AM)  i had asked her out... we went to the karaoke but she always wanted her bestfriend to come along Is there any particular reason her best friend can't come along? Don't sweat it. Ask her out again. Be polite, and don't worry if she wants some friends to come along, maybe bring a few of your own. Get to know her better in that kind of enviroment, and then maybe later, when you're both more comfortable with each other, you can go out together alone. As far as I can tell, you don't really have a problem. Just play it by ear, you're fine. |
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May 1 2006, 09:14 AM
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We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
QUOTE(Acid Bath Slayer @ May 1 2006, 10:11 AM) Is there any particular reason her best friend can't come along? Don't sweat it. Ask her out again. Be polite, and don't worry if she wants some friends to come along, maybe bring a few of your own. Get to know her better in that kind of enviroment, and then maybe later, when you're both more comfortable with each other, you can go out together alone. As far as I can tell, you don't really have a problem. Just play it by ear, you're fine. His problem seems to be that her friend always tags along on dates. The next time you ask her out, just be sure to emphasize that it's just you and her. Maybe go somewhere you would only go to if you were commited. |
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May 1 2006, 09:16 AM
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aholic_sb Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,525 |
but my friend liked her alot, and he always flirts with her and that is the biggest problem
but should i tell her that i liked her alot before i dated her or what? |
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May 1 2006, 09:18 AM
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We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
QUOTE(aholic_sb @ May 1 2006, 10:16 AM) but my friend liked her alot, and he always flirts with me and that is the biggest problem but should i tell her that i liked her alot before i dated her or what? Your friend flirts with you, or your friend flirts with her around you? Talk to him and make sure he understands you like this girl and you'd appreciate it, if he could lay off a little bit. |
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May 1 2006, 09:19 AM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
Alright, this guy is either drunk or 12.
 By his screen name, I think I may be able to extrapolate the former. But, just for shits and giggles: If you friend is flirting with her (or you? whatever), big deal? It should be a non-issue. If she wants to bring her friend along, it's either, as Waccoon pointed out, that you aren't being clear on what exactly your intentions are (which can be easily solved by telling her), or that she isn't yet comfortable or confident enough to be alone with you in a romantic sense. In that case, just take it slow. If you really want to be with this girl, or are interested, you can be paitent with her, I'm sure. So, no big deal. Just, as I said before, play it by ear. You should be fine, hell, even if you are drunk, this isn't that difficult. |
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May 1 2006, 09:22 AM
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We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
QUOTE(Acid Bath Slayer @ May 1 2006, 10:19 AM) Alright, this guy is either drunk or 12. By his screen name, I think I may be able to extrapolate the former. You should be fine, hell, even if you are drunk, this isn't that difficult. Hey hey, no need for that kinda stuff. 
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May 1 2006, 09:24 AM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(waccoon @ May 1 2006, 9:22 AM) Hey hey, no need for that kinda stuff. I'm sorry, but I felt obligated. 
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May 1 2006, 09:37 AM
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aholic_sb Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,525 |
sry it was a type o my friend was always flirt with her
but can you guys teach me how can i tell her that i like her alot? cause i am a shy guy |
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May 1 2006, 09:39 AM
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We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
QUOTE(aholic_sb @ May 1 2006, 10:37 AM) sry it was a type o my friend was always flirt with her but can you guys teach me how can i tell her that i like her alot? cause i am a shy guy Show up at her doorstep with a rose and a teddy bear. :) |
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May 1 2006, 09:43 AM
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aholic_sb Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,525 |
its too hard to do that cause its actually an apartment, and her parents kind of care about it
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May 1 2006, 10:01 AM
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We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
Does she go to school alone? You could wait for her outside. :/
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May 1 2006, 10:56 AM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
Yeah, he is making this impossible.
Like, can he do any thinking for himself? Wait for him to sober up or something. 
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May 1 2006, 11:04 AM
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QUOTE(Acid Bath Slayer @ May 1 2006, 11:56 AM) Yeah, he is making this impossible. Like, can he do any thinking for himself? Wait for him to sober up or something. Hey, sometimes people just need a bit of advice. That's what the Relationships forums is for, after all. |
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May 1 2006, 06:18 PM
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aholic_sb Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,525 |
but if i ask her out and tell her that i liked her while we are out, is it good?
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May 1 2006, 07:18 PM
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Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
How old are you? You seem kinda naive. OF COURSE TELL HER YOU LIKE HER. Thats why people ask other people out.
QUOTE but if i ask her out and tell her that i liked her while we are out, is it good? Yes it is good. |
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May 2 2006, 08:59 AM
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aholic_sb Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,525 |
today my friend made rumours about me and her... and now she is pissed at me because she thought it was me who made the rumours... what should i do now!?
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May 3 2006, 08:41 PM
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DUDE CALM DOWN. you are really making a HUGE deal out of something so SMALL.
1) explain to her that you didnt make the rumors and its up to her if she believes you or not and if she doesnt thats not your problem. 2) Tell her you like her you can write a note if you are really shy but its better in person. 3) tell your "friend" to go find some other gurl to flirt with because thats ur gurl. and if she already likes you DONT WORRY ABOUT IT. jus ask her out and be done with it. and when you want to go out on dates and she brings her friend bring up really uncomfortable stuff like sweet talking her you know like couples conversation so that her friend can feel uncomfortable and a third wheel and believe me she wont come back again. |
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May 4 2006, 06:30 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Boyfriends/Girlfriends come and go.
But friends are forever.  well I think you should talk to your friend and tell him how you feel. |
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May 4 2006, 07:18 PM
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 the most flavored one Group: Member Posts: 132 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,593 |
Well...you said it, she likes YOU right? Then go for it! Sometimes you have to think about yourself. If your friend is a real friend, he'd understand your decision as well as the girl's.
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May 4 2006, 07:53 PM
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alright listen, your friend is obviously not respecting you... hmmmm, i'm going to tell you what me and my friends do... here it goes:
The Rules of the CREW: rule1: its the girls choice, she can choose who she wants. rule2: never fool around with another mans previous lady. unless, you ask him first. rule3: anything that is said in the car (or a place where you and your friends talk 1 on 1) stays in the car rule4: Never ever ever, lie about your friends. rule5: respect your fellow man. (allrules fall under this rule) QUOTE Boyfriends/Girlfriends come and go. But friends are forever.smile.gif well I think you should talk to your friend and tell him how you feel. this is true, and if your friend was a good friend... than he would sit back and let nature take its course. i say you take the chick in this case... your friend doesn't seem like a good friend... if it comes down to it... fight him (accually don't do that XD) |
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