friends with your ex?, ... |
 Apr 20 2006, 11:38 PM
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My ex and I are good friends. Is anyone else friends with theirs?
"I think we should just be friends."--Thats how we broke up. Some people I know despise their ex so I was just wondering. |
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Apr 23 2006, 06:15 PM
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 HI IM aLLi =] Group: Member Posts: 216 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,012 |
I'm still friends with my recent ex and we're still close yet it's hard on me since im still crazy about him and he knows about it too but he sometimes give me mixed signals. So it kid of sucks.
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Apr 23 2006, 06:26 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 844 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 362,677 |
Update? We're friends, so yeah.
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Apr 25 2006, 09:08 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 840 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,927 |
He just said he wanted to break up and went silent and just looked at me.
Infact, I had to ask him for the reason too. Me and my ex broke up coz he said when Uni starts he doesn't have time. I still wanted to be friends with him....... I had to be the one to ask.... he did agree... but he ignores me nowadays..... his brother ignores me too.... Well..... I guess he doesn't want to be friends like how we used be back in High School... |
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Apr 25 2006, 07:20 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 362,602 |
yes. very [: one of my ex`s though ... always muggin` me , i jus wanna be friends w/ him .. c`mon. he even got me some jordans & lik the week after i dumped him. imagine how guilty i felt .. then my other ex is like my best friend now [:
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Apr 27 2006, 09:45 PM
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not really...
my first ex, not at all. he said we would be friends but i don't even see him or anything anymore. and my second ex... eh sometimes we'll say hi but that's it. |
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Apr 27 2006, 09:46 PM
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 iHumpalot. Group: Member Posts: 130 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,367 |
A couple.
Not my recent ones though. 1- because we had a really really bad break up. And whenever we're around each other, it just stirs up an argument, and it's pointless. 2-because I still have feelings for him and he cheated on me, and everytime I see him I feel like crap and cry hysterically like a stupid little kid afterwards. |
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Apr 27 2006, 11:05 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
^Hey, I basically am having the same problems! Definently #1, but more like we start fights in private. #2 because of the little feelings I have, him bragging about sleeping with a trashy girl makes me cry.
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Apr 27 2006, 11:11 PM
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Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
typh-a-knee and Rachel is love.
Hope you both work things out with your exes. 
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Apr 27 2006, 11:16 PM
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iHumpalot. Group: Member Posts: 130 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,367 |
Eh.
I highly doubt it. 3 months after we broke up, he called me telling me he misses me and such. And told me he broke things off with her, and I was so quick to get my hopes up only to find out, not only is she with him but they're engaged. |
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Apr 27 2006, 11:25 PM
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Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
^^O. Thats a serious ouch. I hate cheaters. All they care about is themself.
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Apr 28 2006, 02:48 AM
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I'm friends with mine, he figured he felt more of a brotherly bond with me than anything else, I'll always care about him, but I'm happy with my current relationship. Plus, the thing about being friends is the, no jealousy policy xD
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Apr 28 2006, 08:46 AM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
I've only had one boyfriend thus far, and I'm dating him currently, so I have no ex's to be friends with.
BUT..when we were broken up, we didn't talk very much at all. Things were too awkward. |
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Apr 29 2006, 10:16 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
We are not on speaking terms now. He has changed and I can't have in my life right now. I have been crying for too long.
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Apr 29 2006, 10:20 PM
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my ex is my best friend
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Apr 29 2006, 11:19 PM
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yea im still friends with them
i just don't talk to them as much |
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Apr 29 2006, 11:26 PM
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 Alice Group: Member Posts: 216 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,185 |
Yup, I try really hard to keep my ex's as friends. It's really imortant to me.
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Apr 30 2006, 10:00 AM
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I agree with Rachel, yet again.
We were on a break for about two months. In the first month, all I wanted to do was get back together with him, all I ever did was cry. In the second month, however, I grew a backbone and finally understood that I could do better. Ironically, this is when he saw how good he had it before, so he came crawling back, but I was over it. Last week, I finally got the nerve to tell him that I didn't think we'd ever date again. He took it pretty hard, but that was his own fault. So I guess he's pretty upset with me right now, but I'm over it. We aren't talking as of right now. |
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Apr 30 2006, 10:04 AM
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I'm friends with some of my ex's.
The other ones are really immature and say that I never really liked them. But that's far from true. |
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May 4 2006, 09:18 PM
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♥ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,393 |
Update.
Nope. He found out about the new boyface, and now I don't think he would ever speak to me again. I feel bad, but what am I supposed to do? We've been broken up for months. I'm not going to spend my time sulking. I hope we will be friends one day. |
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May 4 2006, 09:27 PM
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 When the sun sleeps. Group: Member Posts: 532 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,628 |
Im friends with only one.
the first love all the rest its akward to be around them or evne look at them. |
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May 4 2006, 09:59 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(xoxo_koala_kisses_ @ Apr 30 2006, 8:00 AM)  I agree with Rachel, yet again. We were on a break for about two months. In the first month, all I wanted to do was get back together with him, all I ever did was cry. In the second month, however, I grew a backbone and finally understood that I could do better. Ironically, this is when he saw how good he had it before, so he came crawling back, but I was over it. Last week, I finally got the nerve to tell him that I didn't think we'd ever date again. He took it pretty hard, but that was his own fault. So I guess he's pretty upset with me right now, but I'm over it. We aren't talking as of right now. God we are basically like the same!! Except he hasn't come to his senses yet and see what he lost.  I don't really want him in my life but he insists on being friends.... |
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May 4 2006, 11:15 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
I'm only slightly friends with one of my ex's. I cut the rest out of my life. There has been too much drama and crap between us that I never even want to look or picture them again. I can't be friends with someone who is a ridiculous liar and a gossip, an actual psychopath, or is a ridiculous liar AND two-faced. I tried to be friends with one of them out of pity, it didn't work out it just made sh*t worse, he was disgustingly clingy and jealous.
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May 5 2006, 02:23 AM
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 stick that in your juicebox and suck it. Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,881 |
QUOTE(priyas @ Apr 20 2006, 9:38 PM) My ex and I are good friends. Is anyone else friends with theirs? "I think we should just be friends."--Thats how we broke up. Some people I know despise their ex so I was just wondering. I'm good friends with a bunch of my ex boyfriends. One of my ex boyfriends is even my bestfriend. I still love him like a boyfriend though...  QUOTE(ms. independent @ Apr 22 2006, 11:06 AM) depends. most of the guys I've broken up with still consider me a good friend, but there are a… select… few. those two just don't know when to give up.   Justin?
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May 5 2006, 02:39 AM
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GD. <3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,222 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 198,566 |
No, for the first, and yes for the second. But like other people mentioned, I don't think we'll ever be as close as we were before. Sucks, but hell, that's life. :D
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May 5 2006, 03:41 AM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
I'm friends with all of my exes (there aren't many).
But I don't keep in touch with any of them anymore 'cause they're all in California. |
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