gotta let it out, but not sure if its worth it |
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 Apr 26 2006, 08:11 PM
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im not gonna try to write to much but here it is:
i like one of my friends, but im pretty positive she doesnt feel the same way. i need to get it off my chest and let her know, but i dont know if it would be worth it or not. i mean im sure she doesnt feel the same way, so it might make things awkward between us, but im almost at the point where i cant take holding it in anymore... please help. |
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Apr 26 2006, 08:15 PM
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 Antho a.k.a the Afrodisiac Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 396,805 |
QUOTE im not gonna try to write to much but here it is: i like one of my friends, but im pretty positive she doesnt feel the same way. i need to get it off my chest and let her know, but i dont know if it would be worth it or not. i mean im sure she doesnt feel the same way, so it might make things awkward between us, but im almost at the point where i cant take holding it in anymore... please help. I was in the same sitution this year, man. It all worked out for the better good  I got mine and we don't talk about itleave her hints; ask one of your boys to see if she feels the same; ask her yourself U don't want your friendship to get weird because of this! 
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Apr 26 2006, 08:15 PM
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 What's my name? Janette. and ily. <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,139 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,911 |
Good, you're friends with her. Do you go out to the movies, ice cream, or something just as friends? If you don't, that's actually good. You can casually invite her or call her, and if you keep doing that, she might start feeling the same way about you (that's how I got my boyfriend, we were friends and started hanging out more, I started to like him, he could tell, asked me out, and now we're inseperable).
You may tell her straight out by saying, "I like you." But saying "Sorry dude, I'm sleepin' over at a friends tonight. Maybe some other time!" is a lot less heart breaking than "No, I don't like you." Your choice 
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Apr 27 2006, 11:39 AM
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drop hints
hang out with her just as friends find out from her friends who she likes |
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Apr 27 2006, 12:09 PM
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You really have two options: Don't tell her, let it go, and move on; or tell her, and risk rejection.
In my experience, it's always better to take the risk. If you don't tell her, you already got "No" for an answer, so you might as well take the chance. However, if you honestly feel, very strongly, and with good reason, that she's not interested back, you might as well let it go and move on. But only if you're absolutely sure she's not interested. |
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Apr 27 2006, 09:37 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,456 |
wow i'm in the exact same situation.
i'm thinking of telling her. right now i'm kinda just dropping hints. i'm thinking of telling her really soon though. when i do i'll let you know what happens. haha good luck |
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Apr 27 2006, 09:53 PM
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 101708 <3 (: Group: Member Posts: 253 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 382,431 |
mm i agree. just start hanging out with her more and when you feel that the time is right, tell her you like her. it's better to be rejected than to never know whether you and her could've had something. mmm hope things work out for you two!
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Apr 27 2006, 09:57 PM
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QUOTE(lexaa621 @ Apr 27 2006, 10:37 PM)  wow i'm in the exact same situation. i'm thinking of telling her. right now i'm kinda just dropping hints. i'm thinking of telling her really soon though. when i do i'll let you know what happens. haha good luck lol, good luck to you first. maybe if things work out in your favor i may be more inclined to just take the chance. |
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