breaks?, what do you do or what are they for? |
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 Apr 24 2006, 07:38 PM
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description says it all what is the point in breaks?
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Apr 24 2006, 07:41 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i think breaks are pretty much when the two people in the relationship needs time apart from each other for whatever reason.
i personally don't think it's a good idea i'm sure there's a topic on this |
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Apr 24 2006, 07:42 PM
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there is no point. i dont believe in breaks.
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Apr 24 2006, 08:14 PM
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i agree with both of you...either way breaks are like break ups there is no difference in them don't you agree
sorry if this is a repost of the topic |
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Apr 24 2006, 09:33 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,459 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,021 |
Most of the time (at least for friends), it means the guy needs to stall and think of an excuse to break up. It can't be a good thing.
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Apr 24 2006, 10:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 683 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,526 |
QUOTE(helllla jankyyyy @ Apr 24 2006, 5:42 PM)  there is no point. i dont believe in breaks. Yeah, me either. |
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Apr 25 2006, 10:06 AM
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what does it mean if it is the girl who ask for the break?
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Apr 25 2006, 02:30 PM
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a shorter way of breaking up; i had a 1 month break & it didnt work at all b/c you never know when the persons feelings have changed or not
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 25 2006, 04:54 PM
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"Breaks" has a different meaning to all people. Some don't believe in them. But the point of a break most likely, is to allow some space between the couple. It basically is a way to stop the arguments, and allow you to spend more time with other people. If the couple are happier like this, then it turns into an official break up. If the couple realizes that they need each other more than ever, then they come back from the break and resume their relationship.
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Apr 25 2006, 04:56 PM
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Break...is just time apart from each other...you're not OFFICIALLY broken up
but breaks can be bad.....like what happened to Ross and Rachel |
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Apr 25 2006, 07:08 PM
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so basically i should be prepared for the worst
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| *digital.fragrance* |
Apr 25 2006, 07:13 PM
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^ not necessarily. Sometimes breaks are just slower times in your relationship. I had a similar time in my relationship a few months ago (I have been dating a guy for 1 year and 2 months) with my boyfriend. Although we called it "slowing down" it was basically the same thing. We were fine a little later - and we still care deeply for each other.
I think that if you keep communication up with the person, everything will be fine. Even if you don't, it's not a lost cause. |
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Apr 25 2006, 08:03 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Eh, I don't like breaks. But they're just some time apart from the relationship so each person can have their own space to do whatever they want, etc. It really depends on the couple though but sometimes breaks can be beneficial while other times, it's just an excuse to break up.
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Apr 25 2006, 09:27 PM
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lets make a bet. if its 1 a break up or 2 its jus sometime apart. of course i'm gonna vote 1 becuz i have a feelings its jus gonna be a break up what you guys/gals vote for?
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 25 2006, 09:32 PM
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It seems like you WANT this to be a break up. I think you should stop being so negative. Breaks don't always end up like that.
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Apr 25 2006, 09:50 PM
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well you have to know in the state of mind i'm in right now bein able to do nottin and you know how you get when your jus stuck in the middle and your all frustrated and you dunno what you can do...yea i think thats what i'm in right now but i have to let time pass for it to see it out and find out what is gonna really happen sorry if i'm so neg. i'm jus worried and scared. i wish there was more i can do.......-x(
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 25 2006, 09:54 PM
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I understand. But you've got to try and not let your paranoia get the best of you. Hopefully it works out for the best.
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Apr 25 2006, 10:22 PM
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yea me too i really hope it really works out
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Apr 26 2006, 09:32 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,326 |
thank you all for responding to this post and everything but yea it turned out bad so now i feel like sh*t and it sucks thanks anyways
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 26 2006, 03:45 PM
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 I'm sorry to hear that, there will be other fish in the sea.
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Apr 26 2006, 03:58 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
Please dont' double post. Just edit your second message into the first. Thank you.
And .. well, it seems your question is answered, but I won't close this topic because there may be more to add. Breaks are just when two people are tired of each other, want to see if they can find someone better, and a majority of the time, don't get back together. |
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Apr 26 2006, 04:06 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
I don't take breaks.
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Apr 26 2006, 05:25 PM
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 Antho a.k.a the Afrodisiac Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 396,805 |
I'm on break right now.
 lunch break, babyNah, but seriously, breaks are just a time when u separate to find out what u want. Da person dat called the break is unsure about how they feel. Give 'em sum time, kid |
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Apr 27 2006, 02:03 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,326 |
the best approach would be jus goin and seeing the person and talking it outz....worst comes to worst never say f**k it or jus forget about it becuz that means you don't care jus do what feels right
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Apr 27 2006, 09:54 PM
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I don't agree with what most of you said. I called a break in my current relationship about 3 months ago because we were arguing too much, simply because we were too consumed with each other. I needed to clear my head a bit and get back on track with my own life. I had no intentions of dating other people; I just wanted to find my own mind again before getting back into the relationship. My boyfriend thought that I was breaking up with him cause it was seemingly out of nowhere for him, but it all worked out in the end: we talked it out and we have been better than ever since the break... so ours worked out for the best.
So call it if you need to, just make sure you get the point across and ask him to trust you with what you're doing. If he can't do that... maybe he's not worth it. Edit: Sorry I just read your post about stuff not working out. Disregard this... |
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