im TOO passionate, =( ....help |
 Apr 23 2006, 09:43 AM
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ahh ok heres the thing. im REALLY mature for my age (15) and theres this guy thats..well, not immature, but he moves rediculously slow. we're going to the prom and we both like eachother and we both know it but he won't make a move to ask me out. and i want to freaking make out with him!!!!! what can i do to make him ask me before im like 50 years old?
ps. he told his friend he would never make out in school when all of our friends do, and i want to. pps. i cant control myself much longer, PLEASE help. |
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Apr 23 2006, 10:12 AM
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QUOTE(sensualtouch x @ Apr 23 2006, 10:43 AM)  im REALLY mature for my age (15) I think you meant to say 'REALLY horny'? Someone's got a dire libido. 
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Apr 23 2006, 11:16 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
maybe you need to slow things down a little.
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Apr 23 2006, 11:32 AM
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I personally, think that you shouldnt rush things in this relationship.
QUOTE ps. he told his friend he would never make out in school when all of our friends do, and i want to. Maybe he isnt into PDA. So i think you should respect him and move at his pace. |
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Apr 23 2006, 11:42 AM
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 Amberific. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,913 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,772 |
Yeah, "passionate" is definitely not the word. Considering you guys' age, I'd say he hasn't fully hit puberty yet. Maybe he's just not ready. I agree with what Priyas said, respect him and move at his own pace, that is if you're willing to wait for him. Otherwise, you're better off finding someone else who's as "passionate" as you are.
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Apr 23 2006, 11:47 AM
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If you're so mature, shouldn't you be experienced enough to know how to answer your own question? You should appreciate this guy for not just wanting to get into your pants, seeming as that's what you're doing.
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Apr 23 2006, 03:58 PM
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If he's not ready, I would not push him. You just got to give things time, sometimes.
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Apr 23 2006, 04:26 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
If you like him and you believe that he likes you too then you ask him out. Don't let opportunities pass you by. Go for what you want, don't supress yourself, just be who you are.
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Apr 23 2006, 06:33 PM
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You don't sound too mature to me.
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Apr 23 2006, 06:47 PM
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 Peggy. Group: Member Posts: 2,508 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 214,025 |
I think you are a bit too agressive...instead of passionate. Respect his decision and wait till he's ready. If you are too impatient, find another one who is as "mature" as you are.
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Apr 23 2006, 08:27 PM
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i also think that u should either ask him before its 2 late or find someone else as mature as u r even if its 2 hard. or if ur interested in him alot, then, i suggest u and him go at the same pace, slowly. time is wat u both need.
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 23 2006, 09:57 PM
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I don't think he's quite ready to make the move yet. Be patient and give him some time, don't force him to do something that he's not ready to do.
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Apr 24 2006, 07:25 PM
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horny.... do you mean mature physically? or mentally?
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Apr 24 2006, 07:59 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
give the guy some space. sheesh. imagine if he were trying to get you to make out with him but you didnt want to?
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Apr 24 2006, 11:58 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,446 |
Mature isn't the word you're looking for.
If you like him that much and you think he does too, then YOU ask him out. If he isn't into PDA, then find someplace private. If he isn't into fooling around at all, then wait a while. Be patient. |
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Apr 28 2006, 04:22 PM
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ever even took the time to think?>??maby he isnt ready!!go on now..scramm..find a horny bastard maby he'll makeout w/ you.
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Apr 28 2006, 10:13 PM
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 What's my name? Janette. and ily. <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,139 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,911 |
Yeah, real mature. You want to freaking make out with him. I love how mature you are.
If you are mature, you'll give him space. K? Or maybe you should just go on the Dr.Phil show
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Apr 29 2006, 05:51 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
I agree with most of the responses above.
QUOTE im REALLY mature for my age (15) Dear, I hate to be blunt, but you are anything but mature. And anything but passionate. You're just too hormonal and you're rushing a kid that's not ready. Be patient. Cool down. Go with the flow. And don't force things. Let them come naturally. |
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Apr 29 2006, 08:16 PM
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What's my name? Janette. and ily. <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,139 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,911 |
Actually...I just think she's horny.
 1-800-HOT-KISS |
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