girls having guys as best friends..., anyone? && if so... do you have problems with them often? |
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 Apr 22 2006, 01:24 PM
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i don't like to use the term "best friend" but most of my close friends are guys. they're just better to talk to.
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Apr 22 2006, 01:30 PM
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i have tons of guy best friends. and i love them all :D
although they can be assholes at times, i still love them, yah know? being together though the thick and thin is what a friendship is all about. |
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Apr 22 2006, 02:58 PM
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QUOTE(AzNxBaBi @ Apr 22 2006, 8:40 AM)  I hate it how when you have a guy friend and you spend more time with that person people think you are going out. Its dumb .. haha sorry off topic. that im completly agreed on its kinda awkward when in one day your asked if you to are related also if you to are going out (not the same people though) |
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Apr 23 2006, 06:38 AM
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 damn, right! Group: Member Posts: 368 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,547 |
^ Haha! I agree too. My best friend and I were rumored to be a couple, and it kinda gets in your nerves when people constantly tell/ask you: "Hey! I heard you and *name* are a couple! Since when have you hooked up? Huh? HUH?"
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Apr 24 2006, 10:56 AM
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I used to have a guy best friend but then he started getting in between my relationship with my boyfriend so i eliminated the problem. Its cool to have a guy best friend when your single.
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Apr 24 2006, 06:13 PM
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I have three best guy friends. Well two of them are actual friends cus one of them is my boyfriend. Anywayyy.
Yeah one of them is the one who i talk with the most. I used to have problems/fights with him EVERY single time I would talk on the phone with him. Like EVERY single time. ABOUT anythinggg. We haven't fought for like three months which is the most. i love him to death. my other best guy friend, i know since i was five. i dont talk to him as often since we dont go to the same school. i feel really comfortable around him when we hang out cus well, he's like my brother. yeah. the only thing i kind of dislike about having really close guy friends is that they get really over protective sometimes. |
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May 4 2006, 07:06 PM
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 stick that in your juicebox and suck it. Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,881 |
QUOTE(squeeeks =) @ Apr 22 2006, 12:58 PM) that im completly agreed on its kinda awkward when in one day your asked if you to are related also if you to are going out (not the same people though) seriously! I hate that too! QUOTE(ms. independent @ Apr 21 2006, 11:23 PM) girl, you know my best guy friends.  I have best friends that are girls and then I have best friends that are guys. I feel lucky like that… having more than one best friend.  but guys as best friends… gotta be careful. if you like him a little more than a friend, be aware that he's going to talk to you about girls he likes because he considers you his friend and not significant other. he's bound to talk about things like that, and even more so if he knows you well. that happens to me a lot… more than personal comfort would normally allow. Yes stranger, I know that. But I get annoyed and upset by it because thinks have been done to me that I don't wanna be reminded of (one including Justin) and him talking about that brings them back up and I just wanna cry. |
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May 4 2006, 09:06 PM
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yepppppp
every girl does or most. 
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May 4 2006, 09:39 PM
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 3,565, you n00bs ain't got nothin' on me. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,761 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,565 |
well, he's not my best friend but he's pretty close. i used to like him in the summer but in my trying to get closer to him, we became good friends and i dropped the crush. i dont really have alot of problems.
but my cousin, his best friend is a girl and x_x lord the problems are up every other week. because he likes her...yea. |
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May 4 2006, 10:50 PM
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looking back, most of my bestfriends have been boys. and, if they weren't boys...they were chicks who acted/thought like boys. i've always felt more at ease around guys. girls and i don't agree much and it more often than not ends up in catty feuds. i'm not the most girly chick on the block, so i tend to clash with the more "ultimate girls!" around here. although!!! i have had a couple of those...girly chicks as close friends. they were the exceptions. we got along great and had the most amazing teasing banter with each other. so, opposites attract only sometimes, i suppose.
it's been a huge problem for me though. having boys as bestfriends. since most of my guys had girlfriends. and..well, of course they HATED me. i was always around, knew all their secrets, had inside jokes, was comfortable cuddling and touching them, etc. just like any bestfriends do. but, that doesn't fly too high with significant others. i've lost a couple because of angry/jealous/bitchy girliefriends. |
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May 5 2006, 03:44 AM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
Like with anything else, having a boy best friend has its advantages and disadvantages.
IMO, guys are better to hang out with and get along with compared to girls. Girls get whiny and bitchy about the lamest things sometimes. But then again, there are times when you need your girlfriends with you to have a good ol' girl talk about all of the girly things too. 
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May 5 2006, 04:52 AM
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 oink Group: Member Posts: 1,099 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,836 |
i think guy freinds are more loyal..? they dont backstab you
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