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 Apr 19 2006, 09:44 AM
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I like this guy Arthur and my friend Dee always flirts with him. Well
> it really bothers me. I tell Arthur about it and we had this big fight > (no hitting or anything) because he says he likes me better than Dee. > So then they always talks on the phone and they lie about talking on > the phone. I told Arthur how I feel and he just said that he likes me > and that he doesn't want Dee to feel bad or sad. But I'm feeling sad. > What should I do? Should I stop talking to Dee and Arthur or just one > of them? Cause if I stop talking to Arthur, Arthur is going to keep > talking to Dee and it makes me jealous. Please help me. Also they talk about thinks that i should know cause me and Arthur are talking ( trying to hook up) |
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Apr 19 2006, 09:46 AM
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 omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
If I were you I would talk to Dee about it. Be like " Hey, do you like Arthur" come up with some kind of casual conversation. Even though it might end out in a fight, you will get your point accross to her, and that's the point issue in this situation. Talk to Arthur, too. Remember, Dee will eventually be over him.
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Apr 19 2006, 11:45 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 395,485 |
I like this guy Arthur and my friend Dee always flirts with him. Well
> it really bothers me. I tell Arthur about it and we had this big fight > (no hitting or anything) because he says he likes me better than Dee. > So then they always talks on the phone and they lie about talking on > the phone. I told Arthur how I feel and he just said that he likes me > and that he doesn't want Dee to feel bad or sad. But I'm feeling sad. > What should I do? Should I stop talking to Dee and Arthur or just one > of them? Cause if I stop talking to Arthur, Arthur is going to keep > talking to Dee and it makes me jealous. Please help me. Also they talk about thinks that i should know cause me and Arthur are talking ( trying to hook up) Plz Aim me at Loverisbck or IM on Yahoo at Cubans_doit_best@yahoo.com to give me adivce |
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Apr 19 2006, 01:28 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
I hate to break it to you but you have no right to be jealous over him. He's just your crush, he's not your boyfriend, you two aren't even dating.
You really need to get over it. Guys are always going to have female friends. Even if you two start dating, you can't expect him to stop talking to other girls or pretend like they all don't exist. Apparently if you two are in talks of getting together, Dee shouldn't be a threat anyway. Topic Moved --> Relationships. |
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Apr 19 2006, 01:33 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 395,485 |
we are dating now
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Apr 19 2006, 01:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 535 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 301,185 |
So...are you gay?
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Apr 19 2006, 02:39 PM
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dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
Well, since you two are now dating, you should still stop being jealous like I already said. If he stops talking to Dee, he's going to talk to some other girl. He sees her as a friend. You can't force him to stop being around other girls or communicating with them.
Whether you like it or not, it's ALWAYS going to happen. You have to accept it. Maybe Dee doesn't realize it or she doesn't know that you two are dating. Tell her that you don't appreciate her flirting with the guy you are dating. |
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Apr 19 2006, 02:57 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 395,485 |
no im a girl
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Apr 19 2006, 03:09 PM
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 katie fox is love. Group: Member Posts: 530 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,798 |
If it's still going on just get her totally out. Say him or me and if she says you, then it's over and if she says him, then you let her be. :)
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Apr 19 2006, 03:28 PM
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katie fox is love. Group: Member Posts: 530 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,798 |
Then why's it in the Boy's locker?
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Apr 19 2006, 03:52 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 395,485 |
Cause I need a guys opinion
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Apr 19 2006, 04:06 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 535 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 301,185 |
All I want is the girl to come onto me, flinging herself at me, desparate for some 5 Star-Lovin'.
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Apr 19 2006, 04:36 PM
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 speechless Group: Member Posts: 869 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,564 |
QUOTE(Cuban One N Only @ Apr 19 2006, 11:33 AM)  we are dating now I dont get it. if you guys are already dating... then whats the problem? you need to learn to hold on to your man. and if he faithful... dont worry about Dee. |
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Apr 19 2006, 04:53 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 395,485 |
Well the problem is that when me and dee and him are on the phone he always flirts with her and says good things about her like oh ur hot or ur sexy. that bothers me i kno maybe it shouldnt but it does. then sometimes he puts me down like he says oh u dont have a life or like ur lame r something like that it makes me rele pissed and then he wonders y im mad at him
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Apr 19 2006, 06:09 PM
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 They call me... St.Jimmy Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,546 |
well dont stop talking to either i mean if hes gona lie b like WTF u said u liked me and u arent showing it thats gay and im tired of this
confront them dont be violent but get a lil mad itll intimitdate them and show them that u arent kidding |
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Apr 19 2006, 06:43 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Talk to him about this. Tell him you don't like it when he flirts with Dee, and when he makes those remarks about you. And, talk to Dee and tell her you don't like it when she flirts with Arthur.
Communication is very important in a relationship. |
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Apr 19 2006, 07:51 PM
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 Sing me something pretty. Group: Member Posts: 23 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,944 |
QUOTE(Cuban One N Only @ Apr 19 2006, 5:53 PM) Well the problem is that when me and dee and him are on the phone he always flirts with her and says good things about her like oh ur hot or ur sexy. that bothers me i kno maybe it shouldnt but it does. then sometimes he puts me down like he says oh u dont have a life or like ur lame r something like that it makes me rele pissed and then he wonders y im mad at him how do you know he flirts with her  does he tell you?
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Apr 19 2006, 08:10 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 395,485 |
no cuz dee copys n paste their convos and im on the phone with them sometimes so i hear them
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Apr 19 2006, 08:17 PM
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dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(Cuban One N Only @ Apr 19 2006, 5:53 PM) Well the problem is that when me and dee and him are on the phone he always flirts with her and says good things about her like oh ur hot or ur sexy. that bothers me i kno maybe it shouldnt but it does. then sometimes he puts me down like he says oh u dont have a life or like ur lame r something like that it makes me rele pissed and then he wonders y im mad at him This just keeps getting more confusing. First, you say that they lie about talking to each other on the phone. But, you all talk together at the same time? How can someone lie about that? If this guy puts you down like that then why do you bother staying with him even after he knows that he upsets you? |
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Apr 19 2006, 09:08 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 395,485 |
Ok here is the story in short terms. First they talk sometimes without me and lie about it, then when im on the phone with them they leave me out of the convo or Arthur puts me down. The dee and Arthur flirts and that rele bothers me. And yes ME AND ARTHUR ARE COUPLE. I Dont kno what to do. Thats the whole story
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Apr 20 2006, 07:52 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 535 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 301,185 |
Then demand some 5 Star Lovin'
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Apr 20 2006, 08:43 AM
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I'm going to merge this with your existing thread in Relationships.
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Apr 29 2006, 02:00 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,558 |
GIRL TELL HER HOW HURT YOU ARE WEN SHE FLIRTS WITH DA GUY YOU LOVE N CARE ABOUT CKOZ NO ONE SUPPOSED TO STOP U FROM LOVING AND CARING SOMEONE AND IF HE DOES LIE TO YOU ; YOU DONT DESERVE HIM U DESERVE A MAN WHO DESERVES A GIRL LIEK YOU..
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Apr 29 2006, 11:43 AM
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 for you,i will<3 Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 398,267 |
The other problem is, you can be inferring that their flirting when they're really not.
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