virginity, what age? |
 Apr 4 2004, 11:48 PM
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how do you know if your making the right desision by having sex with someone....i feel like shes the one for me but im only 15...and i want to make sure that i loose it to the right person...everyone says to wait till marrage but 50% of marrages end in devorce anyway so...yeah...
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Apr 14 2004, 11:29 PM
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 <3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
hmm is it TRUE dat u stop growin when u loose ur virginity?? someone told me dat u stop gettin taller n etc...................
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Apr 15 2004, 12:32 AM
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QUOTE(mglbaby @ Apr 14 2004, 11:29 PM) hmm is it TRUE dat u stop growin when u loose ur virginity?? someone told me dat u stop gettin taller n etc................... i don`t think that`s true. i`ve qrown  but.. i heard that you`re hips qet bigger or somethinq like that.. it kinda did for me
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Apr 15 2004, 12:36 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
LoLs~ u serious?! haha... umm....lols haha i dont think so~ lols.... haha if it's true..ermmm
  haha jk
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Apr 15 2004, 01:48 AM
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 Fizzle Ma Nizzle Group: Member Posts: 1,019 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,978 |
QUOTE(LQ_Darksoul @ Apr 4 2004, 10:10 PM) I hate to be the bad influence here...But Sex is awesome..start having it as soon as you can...And don't stop till your wanker falls off. But be safe about it. If you're gunna have sex with this girly, make sure it's with her only, and that you're going to have a lasting relationship with lots of sex everyday....Or something like that... Bottomline- Have sex. Keep it to only one partner. Use protection or get her on the pill. Make sure she ain't a skanky whore like my ex. haaaaa... i finally found out y people date... to hav SEX.. well we cant hav sex in our reglion until u r married.. so i am sticking to that.. anywaz how would u noe that, that person might had sex with a million people? hope i was a side kick..
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Apr 15 2004, 03:59 AM
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 Retired Member Group: Member Posts: 879 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,843 |
QUOTE(SeoulJah4God @ Apr 5 2004, 6:57 AM) Sex after marriage.... Yea go to a teen and say DONT DATE TILL UR MARRIED. Anyways thats totally up to you. Im to busy worshippin God to be worried about anything yet. I jus go around making every1 feel better  nice!!! way to go man about the topic now.... 15. isn't that too early or what? |
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May 7 2004, 11:17 AM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
theres not a certain age when you should lose your virginity..you should lose it to someone you realli truly care about..just make shure it is the rite person or else you will regret it for the rest of your life
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May 8 2004, 12:51 AM
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Nice n' Slow Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,451 |
uhhh....wen u feel ready?....
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May 8 2004, 12:59 AM
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Fizzle Ma Nizzle Group: Member Posts: 1,019 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,978 |
QUOTE(brian_deegan @ Apr 4 2004, 9:48 PM) how do you know if your making the right desision by having sex with someone....i feel like shes the one for me but im only 15...and i want to make sure that i loose it to the right person...everyone says to wait till marrage but 50% of marrages end in devorce anyway so...yeah... well if ever1 starts thinking like u then the 50% would be like 0%.. .well its better to hav it after marriage.. well by the way its ur life.. i just gave u an advise 
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May 8 2004, 07:27 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Apr 4 2004, 8:58 PM) You should learn how to spell before you have sex.  yOo should be smacked krnxswat! haha j/m. but i say wait, to me you`re tOo young. my lit`l sis is about your age ... and i can`t imagine her being sexually active and in the risk of becoming pregnant. you may feel like your ready, but think about the consequences first .. are you REALLY ready? you`ve still got high schOol and college ahead of yOo .. everyone i know is already getting married and having sex. A few of them are struggling as it is .. do yOo wanna risk that? |
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May 9 2004, 10:11 AM
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you can't really tell if they're the "one". you're too young to know right now. when you're older, then of course you'll know you wanna spend the rest of your life with them. hey don't get me wrong. i'm 15 too. but that's just my opinion. at our age, we won't know what real real love is yet. you have many opportunities to meet other girls. but if you really think, you wanna have sex. talk it out with her.
also, if you've only been dating for like 2 months, & you think she's the "one". then just don't do it. it's stupid. just wait. |
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May 16 2004, 12:52 PM
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..:Mizz Cindy Tron:.. Group: Member Posts: 23 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,872 |
I think u should wait until marriage. If u do it now then u can risk alot.Lyk...HIV...AIDS...STDS...and all that other stuff that can end your life very quickly. If u lose your virginity, then youre giving a part of yourself...to someone else...You can never get it back.Even if u sell your soul.. If u wait and do it on your wedding day. Everything would be perfect. If u wait THAT long. Then your partner would know how much u are loyal to her and be lyk...I've been waiting this long just for u." It also shows that u would wait for anything just 4 that one person that u love so dearly...
Even if u think that "Oh yeah wutever life is short and shyt" then u are wrong! Life goes on and it will never end. Dont be so impatient and go have sex with this gurl u lyk.No matter how long u have known her. Or how much ya'll have in common. Losing your virginity is a HUGE deal. So wut if sex is GREAT!! But shouldn't it be even better If u save it 4 that right person..? I mean...who knows...Later on in life...your taste in gurls will DEFINITELY CHANGE!! If u go and have sex with that gurl right now...and u look back on that day later in life...u are gonna have so many regrets and so many mistakes that u've made. And it is too late...cuz u have already found that perfect soulmate...but u cant share that special moment when ya'll get tu learn together how sex is really like. Then it's not worth it to go and bang sum gurl and later in life feel lyk an idiot So stop rushing things through...Just take it slow...okay? 
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May 16 2004, 12:58 PM
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..:Mizz Cindy Tron:.. Group: Member Posts: 23 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,872 |
Oh yeah...just remember to live your life tu it's fullest...
Go and have sum fun! And dont be so tied down to sum gurl u lyk. I understand that she means alot tu u. And that u have strong feelings 4 her But it doesn't mean ya'll gotta go and have sex. |
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May 16 2004, 12:58 PM
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QUOTE(TiNaBaBY074 @ May 7 2004, 9:17 AM) theres not a certain age when you should lose your virginity..you should lose it to someone you realli truly care about..just make shure it is the rite person or else you will regret it for the rest of your life I completely agree with you hun |
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May 16 2004, 12:59 PM
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 To Me, You Are Perfect... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,771 |
QUOTE(chinkieeyedpnoi @ Apr 5 2004, 12:06 AM) Why are you asking us? You should ask her. I mean, sure it'd be great to have sex with you, but you know, I don't swing that way. haha - Chinkieeyedpnoi Lol how very silly of you Chinkieeyedpnoi Well, I'm not a virgin, and I'm also not married, but I was reasonably young and i didn't end up hurt, I think you just know when it's ok, because you can both sense it, if you get me? Man just ignore that, it probably doesnt make any sense LoL...sorry about that
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May 17 2004, 12:07 AM
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14 isnt 2 young as long as u been wit da person 4 a while n rly luv em...lol
lol im almost 15 n I already started I regret it tho...I wish I wouldve waited longer
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May 17 2004, 10:21 AM
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QUOTE(xquizit @ Apr 5 2004, 11:47 PM) if you're having doubts... then you're not ready. simple as that. I agree with what roxanne said ... |
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May 17 2004, 04:23 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
make sure that person makes you feel comfortable. it's really hard to say when you know it's right. there is no right "time" for it. you just have to "feel" right at that moment when you're with that person. you'll be able to tell that it's perfect and it won't be something you'll regret. you honestly have to trust your instincts on this one.
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May 18 2004, 02:23 AM
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QUOTE(xXxSnoWdrEamSxXx @ May 16 2004, 10:07 PM) 14 isnt 2 young as long as u been wit da person 4 a while n rly luv em...lol lol im almost 15 n I already started I regret it tho...I wish I wouldve waited longer everyone thinks they`re in love .. hey i admit it, sometimes i think i`m in love .. but no one really knows what love is. it could be mistaken as infatuation. and i know that age ain`t nothing but a number and all .. but when it concerns sex, 14 is tOo young for me. it doesn`t matter if you`ve been with the person for a long time till that age, think about it .. yOo get pregnant, what are yOo gunna do? can yOo handle it? will this "love" between yOo withstand that .. even after the test of time? becoming pregnant at a young age like that, CAN ruin any relationship .. whether or not you`ve been with someone for a month or even years. if yOo wanna have sex, then okay .. its up to yOo, but i suggest yOo tOo talk about the risks first. sorry, i sound like a mother huh? but psshhh, like my mom ever talked to me about this stuff. i learn from everyone else`s "mistakes" .. and i`m SOO happy it hasn`t happened to me. but its ultimately up to yOo, if yOo believe yOo love that person .. go for it. follow your instincts. |
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May 18 2004, 02:31 AM
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Dude, I lost my virginity when I was Eleven. That is sick isnt it? it is. I lost it on the side walk of an abandoned school playing truth or dare with my neighbor hood friends. It's that STUPid? I dont think you should start having sex before your 13, ABSOLUTE minimum age. For the longest time I felt guilty. But it doesnt matter. Now I know that a sexual appitite is normal.. But I'm not going to go screw the first guy that tells me he loves me. I'm going to screw the 3rd NO! Just kidding. No, they wouldn't even have to tell me they loved me, It'd be something I wanted. You need to set yourself moral boundaries and shit. Find out what your comforatabele doing. It's not up to a census to decide. Statistics SUCK. I hate them. Particularly, because I am one of many different kinds of statistics... a few of which are not cool. At all.
Just do what you want, But Be SAFE. |
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May 19 2004, 06:35 PM
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My personal opinion is that you should wait until you are old enough to handle the resposibilities that sex entails. I don't think that you should have to wait as long as marrige, just long enought to know that you have a commitment and that you really love her and that she is the one. Not really the ONE, one but the one that you feel is the one at the time. Did anyone get what i meant by that?
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May 20 2004, 01:34 PM
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QUOTE(xquizit @ Apr 5 2004, 11:47 PM) if you're having doubts... then you're not ready. simple as that. welll said... thats the truth too... but i would have to say wait untill your married
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May 20 2004, 02:57 PM
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May 20 2004, 05:46 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
i think you hsould just wait until u get older... ur still young...
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May 24 2004, 12:22 PM
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 "ITS JAZZ BABY" Group: Member Posts: 448 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,251 |
yea 15 thats to young
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May 24 2004, 12:29 PM
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Fizzle Ma Nizzle Group: Member Posts: 1,019 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,978 |
QUOTE(andy5272 @ May 20 2004, 12:57 PM) check out my site: http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Andy5272 no spamming  i thought sex was better after you are married 
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