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 Apr 13 2006, 11:38 PM
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QUOTE(Flavored Condom @ Apr 2 2006, 6:25 PM)  Dump him. it was gonna end anyways. What'd you expect? get married? Harsh.. -_- 
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Apr 14 2006, 03:33 AM
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Talk to him specifically about it... and maybe be more tolerant? Try to understand that guys don't work the same way as girls and you'd rather have him be honest. If he cares he'll make an effort to change but you've also got to accept the fact that he is still who he is... maybe there is an underlying reason for his behaviour. Just talk it out.
If you really can't see yourself ever being actually happy with him then you should consider leaving. This "miserable without him" business will only be temporary. |
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Apr 15 2006, 07:12 PM
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 042304<3 Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,231 |
i was in a similar position a few months back. he would continuously piss me off and we would continuously talk about it. it would be all good and dandy for a few days then he would go back to the way he was. that lasted for like 6 months. yeah i know, i shouldve dumped him. but yanno, before that, we went through a lot as a couple and i knew that i love him. soo finally one day, it finally hits him that the things he does hurts/pisses me off. he thought he lost me that day and the one thing he is scared of is losing me. since then, things have finally been goood =]. our 2 year anniversary is next sunday :D
soo from experience, no matter how much you tell them that it pisses you off, it wont help. they just have to realize it on their own. it also depends on how much you care/love your bf. i dont recommend waiting 6 months like i did. that was just foolish of me, but i did love him and i knew that i would be miserable without him. soo talk to him about it. maybe its just a phase that he's going though? if you guys have been together for this long, it isnt worth breaking up over insignificant things. |
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Apr 16 2006, 10:19 AM
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that is EXACTLY what me and my boyfriend are going through.
except hes the one thats annoyed. we havent done the break thing. i dont believe in them. but all we do is argue. were just slowly trying to figure things out |
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Apr 16 2006, 10:24 AM
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 I'm a loser. Group: Member Posts: 26 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 383,375 |
In relationships, some bad things will occur. However, if you constantly find yourself then maybe you need to break it off completely. No friendship or anything; unless you think you can handle it.
Oh yeah.. you may want to visit this site and check her latest journal entry. http://glamorous-style.com |
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Apr 16 2006, 01:41 PM
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i think that you should definitely talk to him. You've done great for a year or so, right? Don't let all that go to waste because of something that recently came up. you guys should try to work it out together. it really could be just a phase.
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Apr 17 2006, 09:59 PM
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Confront him if you haven't already. If not, it will keep on going on like this and it will make matters worse when he will eventually find out what's bugging you. If anything happens, the worse can come to him blaming you for the break-up or whatever happens, for not confronting him sooner. Conflicts happen in all relationships, it's only a matter of communication that resolves them.
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Apr 28 2006, 11:50 PM
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HIS PRINCESS & HIS BABYGURL Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,547 |
Haha, sometimes, i get mad at him for no reason.
 my poor baby.. but he loves me and puts up with it. i apologize, and feel bad later. I love him to death, and would do anything for him. We been going out for 16 months, .. 17 months in 2 weeks.  He`s my prince & im his princess
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Apr 29 2006, 12:10 AM
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 What's my name? Janette. and ily. <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,139 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,911 |
he pisses you off...not a good sign. talkkkkkkk
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