Aftermath of a long term realationship |
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 Mar 9 2006, 11:10 PM
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c[:  Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876  |
QUOTE(salcha @ Jan 24 2006, 12:40 AM)  eat chocolate, be emo, get a new girlfriend/boyfriend lols funny one!  but yeah..i would eat chocolate..because chocolate always helps you feel better. what i really did was i talked to a very good friend of mine, and well, i was thankful that my so called "boyfriend" was a total jerk and that our relationship didn't work out because i grew to like my friend, and i never would have guessed that he liked me too..and yeah... hehe everything happens for a reason 
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Mar 26 2006, 01:39 AM
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 Tryina catch me ridin dirrty Group: Member Posts: 166 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 389,030 |
be patience and go out more.
just have a blast with friends.. a lot. dont think about it.. and cool off with ur ex for a bit, let u guys go ur own ways from now and maybe meet again later, as friends? no drugs, no alcohol, no gettin wild n shid. just simple lovin laughs will help... at least for me. |
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Mar 27 2006, 08:41 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 840 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,927 |
Get a new bf/gf?!?!?!?!! But won't that be unfair to the new bf/gf coz ur using them as a rebound?
Mine would'nt be a long term relationship compared to u guys out there eventhough when we started dating we knew that we were both looking for long term relationships........ and i could picture us together long term.......... *Lots of ice cream *Lots of crying *Talk to frds *Torturing myself with photos of us/memories of us............. *Still GETTING tortured by the place he broke up with me which was a park near our houses coz we live 10-15 minutes walking distance from each other.... & i have to wait infront of that park for the next few years for bus to go to Uni..... eventhough I'm trying my best to avoid having to take the bus at the moment. But if mum's too busy and can't take me then i'll hve to take the bus to the train station..... *Think what I learned from that relationship & how to improve myself if anything was wrong *Try to relax *Keep myself busy so that I won't think about it too much *See if there's a possibility we can become "real" friends again, since he let me be his frd when he asked...... we won't be talking online for a while.... i want to give him some space and for myself too so that he can be comfortable with being frds with me again.....if thats ever possible...... so yea... |
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| *disco infiltrator* |
Mar 27 2006, 12:32 PM
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I know it's really frustrating when people tell you that you'll get over it eventually; I felt the same way when my ex dumped me. But really, it's true. It sucks for a while and the best and most important advice I can give you is do not continue to see the person. As much as you still want to be friends, you can be friends later. Continually seeing them and hanging out with them as if nothing happened can really hurt you.
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Mar 28 2006, 06:07 PM
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There'll be no distance that could hold us back Group: Member Posts: 137 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,163 |
Don't eat for weeks.
Cry. Cry. Cry. Fetal position. Sleep. |
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Mar 29 2006, 08:27 PM
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 Junkie's Running Dry Group: Member Posts: 317 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,797 |
I find curbstomping them to be an appropriate way to deal.
Anyone with me? |
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Mar 30 2006, 05:13 PM
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 oh boober. Group: Member Posts: 224 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 375,884 |
pretend you have your period because you have an excuse for being cranky, eat oily foods and chocolate, watch HBO 24/7
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Mar 30 2006, 08:50 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(x Ragazza @ Mar 9 2006, 7:52 AM) I really take it hard. My current boyfriend has broken up with me FOUR times. But I keep going back to him because I just love him. It's hard to explain. I've created such a strong emotional bond that it seems impossible for me to be with anyone else. At first when he broke up with me I was SO pissed. Like, swearing everything to hell. But then I got majorly depressed. Like it was my fault. I think What did I do wrong? I go through everything we went through in my head and it just makes me cry, thinking that it will never happen again.  That is exactly like me. Except right now, it is ex-boyfriend and probably will stay that way.It is so hard to not be friends. We have been together and seen eachother basically everyday for a year and a 1/2 and to go cold turkey is almost impossible. Our friends are the same and we have classes together. Plus, we are young and stupid and have hooked up twice since the break up. It is so hard because it feels amazing when we are together and alone but I know I should move on. I already don't have as strong as feelings for him as I did before (I'm not in love), I just like being with him. |
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Mar 31 2006, 06:35 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
watch sad movies. attempt to become friends. me and my ex are friends. btw.
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| *FreeStickers* |
Apr 2 2006, 10:58 AM
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I take it really hard, because in a long term relationship, you get so used to something being there, then one day, it's just NOT there anymore. It sucks. Really, it does. My boyfriend and I broke up in July after dating for two years and we're just getting to the point where we can talk like normal people. For about 3 months, I just moped around and ate a lot. Moping is really hard to do when you're trying to hide it from everyone you know.
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Apr 2 2006, 11:41 AM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
What I did the first time I broke up with my boyfriend (we've broken up three times o.O But we've been together for a year and a half).. was I buried myself with a LOT of work just to forget (I'm a pianist, so I started practicing like 6 hours a day), and I was seeing someone else at the time too.. which helped.
Time heals.. Don't force yourself to get over him though. Taylor`` |
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Apr 2 2006, 01:18 PM
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 Naughty... Group: Member Posts: 135 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,724 |
Take up a new hobby or something that you can immerse yourself in. I totally just immersed myself in school and made a lot of new friends when I broke up with my boyfriend. That helped a lot. Now I have a new boyfriend and things are really looking up.
Yeah, it's cliché, and yeah, it sucks, but just give it time. |
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| *Programmer* |
Apr 2 2006, 02:04 PM
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just dissappear...get your mind on other things you need to do....eventually u'll either forget or see the person again...and then the choice is up to you....
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Apr 11 2006, 09:59 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,186 |
cry, eat, sleep, cry eat, sleep and then one day just stop crying and then have to diet...........roflol
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| *SuzieRawkSoxx* |
Apr 12 2006, 08:33 PM
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You know i really dont know what to tell you because ive been with my boyfriend almost 7 months now and i L O V E him to D E A T H and i really dont know how our heaven forbid break up would affect up...
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Apr 12 2006, 08:42 PM
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 cool by default. Group: Member Posts: 147 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 392,925 |
i just find things to distract myself from thinking about him. hanging with friends and not seeing the guy helps me get over him.
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Apr 12 2006, 11:59 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,426 |
as much as it hurts... you need to stop contact. if you have memories of him like pictures or gifts that he gave you.. put them away in a box and hide it. it really helps. my first love i'm stil not over even thou i have a new boyfriend.
hang in there. go out, have fun and just try not to think about it too much <33 |
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