what do you expect in a relationship Options

[fathomlessdame]

physically: no sex til marriage....a guy that understands why and my feelings as to why and doesnt pressure me but looks forward to what we might have later on. hugging is perfectly ago...i'm an affectionate person and i love to cuddle and hug. kissing is perfectly ok as long as it doesnt get intense enough to lead to sex.

and

emotional- loyalty trust passion and faithfulness are all things that i think must be there. i dont expect my guy to be perfect but he's gotta show that hes at least trying... i want him to love me for who i am and not for how i look. he needs to respect what i want and not bother me about anything that i say a straight no too

theres more....but thats basicaclly what i want

[Hell-Rell]

When it comes to the word "girlfriend" I think of a girl thats my friend. See I wanna girl thats gonna be cool with me. I really like girls that are smart, thats the most sexiest thing is a woman with brains. With me being with a girlfriend it don`t have to be love or sex. It can be someone that jus come over and I can kick it wit. I`m the type of nigga that really cares about his girlfriend. I go all out for her if I have too. But thats me. I would like someone who loves to be competitive, Loves to have conversations on a more intellectual level but still keeps it Hood, someone to put up with my apathitic mood swings, Not so much into her looks, and someone who loves shoes jus as much as I do! thats a good girl to me.

edit.....Continued...

I needs a girl who ain`t gonna lie to me. We can have a clean healthy relationship with one another. I don`t want her to always depend on me for everything, she can hold her own. I want a honest and smart female in my life and when we break up we can still stay the best of friends. Because I`m the type of nigga that care for my female and I`ll give her just as much respect as she give me. I`m very committed and I go all out for my girl but I do get jealous Sorry but I am the jealous type. I don`t like to see my girl huggin on another nigga every time I turn around I gets real mad. But when It comes to girls I really not that picky though.


Angelica & Chris jan 5 2006

[fathomlessdame]

^like you....i'd definatly like a guy that i can have conversations with...actual convos. i like to argue and discuss what i think about things. cant believe i forgot that..oops

[aicilah999]

someone who understands me.
someone who i'm not afraid to act naturally around.
someone who can make me cry in a minute yet make me laugh in another.
someone who loves and cares.

[imnoxonesmemory]

i expect to be respected.. like.. i don't want to get pushed into anything.
i'd want the guy to try and cheer me up when i'm down.
to not leave me last on the priority list.
to call ME every now and again.
and to be there for me no matter what.

[Jayembe]

What i expect is something special that no one else has.

Mentally-you can tell him/her anything your feeling with out being embaressed, be honest even about the hardest of things,support,comfort and to make you feel like their the only one you need
Physically-Have fun whenever you want no pressure to do anythin and to let it flow as time goes
Emotionally-Love, happiness, NO drama, and no jealousy just like your meant to be together.

[*jooleeah*]

Commitment, the ability to understand, trust, friendship, loyalty, honesty, love.

[bananapants]

someone to talk to and someone to hold when u need someone to hold and someone to be there fore and someone to care about and someone who cares about u and most of all someone to love and be happy with