Love Life Chaos, Advice plz, ... in need of much help... but its gonna get REALLY LONG Options

[drummergirlmarim...]

hi, im lisa and im a freshman in california. im the perky kind of person i guess. i love smiling, hugging and am seriously tempted to tickle anyone ticklish, i hug, and link arms. and one last thing. im TOTALLY ditzy. many guys think that i like them cuz of my actions but i dont., not like that. i would like to change me, but i cant. its just ME! but anyways, my love life is in total chaos right now.

i like this one guy, A but he doesnt seem to like me at all (he doesnt talk to me in class, in the ahllways, etc. and he onlii talks to me when i go up to him.) he seems distracted when i talk to him and he only says hi when i say hi.

but on the other hand, this guy VC likes me, he told me so in valentines. i turned him down, saying i liked another, but he stills follows me around on campus and calls me on my cell phone (i gave my # to him before i knew) without any reason to call and wants ME to bring up a topic to talk about. he knows my whole schedule, he walks me to them even though i make it clear that i dont want him to, he knows my house phone though i didnt tell him, and since my skoo is very small and over populated, he tries to make a grab for my hand every time he gets the chance (which i avoid by jerking away or waving hi to some friend.) he is so like s stalker that it scarres me.

some guy G from the orchestra that im in liked me since the day we met (a performance at disneyland) and has been bothering me with i love u's and even pressured me into being his valentine!!! okay. but then one day he ims me saying "im happy" "im gonna win my nxt tennis match for this grl" and im like "okay, great" cuz i dont like him like that one bit. but what bothers me bout him is that every time something good happens between his new gf which is an 8th gr (hes a sophmore) he comes to report it to me! im like why are u telling me that??!?!? but anyways, our orchestra went to sanfransisco to go to a music festival to perform/compete. and when we went to fishermans something, he started acting like aJERK to me. he acted as if I LIKED him. he was like burping, taking my stuff, telling me sexual jokes that he noes i dont feel comfortable listening to and etc. when i said "arent you hot with that heavy jacket?" with pure intensions (i didnt want him to have heat exhaustion, etc) he was like "ohh, you want me to take off my clothes huh, sorry lisa, i noe you like me but it wont work. im already taken!"


this guy VW, he likes me he doesnt tell me but he he makes it very obvious. not going into details bout him cuz he doesnt bother me at all.

and lastly, this guy K likes me, he told me so before i went to sanfran he was like "oh yeah i need to tell u something before you go... i like you"

so bottom line is.... how do you turn down a guy that you wanna be good friends with and how can i get more close to A?

sry for making this so long, thank you for those who read up to here.

[Kounouri]

keep talking to A.
tell the ones you'd like to keep friends, that you don't like them that way but would like to stay friends.
ignore the others.

[_sarcastic_]

yeah keep talking to A, if it doesn't work just forget about it he's not worth your time
i agree with Kounouri just tell the others that you don't like that the way they like you but you'd like to stay as friends.

[aicilah999]

start a convo with guy A
tell the other guys that u arent interested and that u just want to be regular friends

[-sincerely]

i think you should talk to A.

[chikaxiong]

well i think if A keeps acting the way he does dont go for him. why wouldnt you go for someone else. maybe you can do better without him. but thats what i think. i dont know how do you really feel towards them all and find which one you want the most. i dont know love can be chaotic. good luck.

[drummergirlmarim...]

thanks for the advices everyone, but theres one problem in trying to talk to him. i only have 1 period with him (geom h) and we sit FAAAAAAAAAAAR apart. so naturally we cant talk to each other even i and/or he wanted to. so basically the only time we can talk is if i get out of the classroom quickly enough so that i would end up right in front of him. and thats usually only a "hi A" "hi lisa" kinda thing. we also go to the same orchestra so i would talk to him there (he sits right in back of me there) but hes always sleeping with his violin (awww... wait sry. :P)

[drummergirlmarim...]

please.. more advice is DEFINATELY welcome


please.. more advice is DEFINATELY welcome
and also, i cant give up and move on! to me, hes nice when i talk to him, but i think he just likes me as a friend... but im still on his top eight on myspace... proof is here : www.myspace.com/genarule <<im the 5th one i think display name l.i.s.a. i.s.o.g.a.w.a.