Do Your Parents Know?, Do they know and/or care that you have a boyfriend? |
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 Mar 17 2006, 09:45 PM
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 I really love her when she < Smiles >  Group: Member Posts: 85 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 374,228  |
I have a feeling if I had a boyfriend and I told my mom she'd be fine with it, maybe a bit surprised but I don't tihnk she'd overreact. The only thing is she would think it wasn't a serious relationship at all..by that I mean no kissing, no hugging, zip. Just a good friend. Plus she'd probably want to meet him.
...But even though I think she'd be alright with it, I still don't think I'd tell her if I did have one, which I don't. |
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Mar 17 2006, 10:23 PM
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 3,565, you n00bs ain't got nothin' on me. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,761 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,565 |
I'd never ever tell my parents. My mom even said to me once, Don't date till college. Not even in high school, because it fucks up your grades. By then, I already had a boyfriend. Too late, I guess.
-Julia |
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Mar 18 2006, 04:06 AM
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It's best they know...
Lotsa bad things can happen if they found out on their own :P |
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Mar 22 2006, 08:30 PM
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 thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
I've gone out with a guy for almost like 2 years now, and my parents are finally figuring it out now. They seem okay with it though but they haven't actually 'confirmed' that they know. *shrugs* I'll just never admit it though til they say they're okay with it. =P
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Mar 22 2006, 09:33 PM
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 young enough to not give a f*ck Group: Member Posts: 1,149 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,060 |
i dont tell my parents anything personal, not even close. my mom is too overprotective and my dad is not the type id talk to about that stuff. though i dont have a bf, i think i might get one by next year, ( yea i know i sound weird acting like i planned it all ) but im so not telling them. i wish i could go out, like just for a movie with a really close guy friend,but theyd think ill do something. sigh..asian parents.
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Mar 23 2006, 07:59 PM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
My parents don't really care for my boyfriend because of how he's treated me in the past, but now they're finally accepting that I love him and that we're together.
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Mar 23 2006, 09:35 PM
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 what a moon tonight. Group: Member Posts: 517 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,772 |
haha i dont tell them these things...
let them figure out themselves. |
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Apr 6 2006, 09:20 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,471 |
i'm not a big fan of "labels" since im in highschool and everything, but the guys i've gone on dates w/, i told my mum there was gonna be a group of ppl. My dad doesnt care. I think he'd be cool with it.
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Apr 6 2006, 09:25 PM
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no; im going behind their backs
Nuh uh, my dad && my older brothers would kill me if they knew I had a boyfriend at this age. At least my brothers let me have guy friends, but my dad doesn't even let me. 0_o but I did once, they didn't know. I do feel kinda bad... but, iuno. Welps, Thai parents are usually like that with their daughters, but if it's guys, it doesn't really matter. |
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Apr 10 2006, 05:45 PM
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 L1EK 0MGZZZZ! Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,803 |
no, i dont tell them.
they give me this HUGE talk on how i don't need a boyfriend (well mom) and she tells me how most of them use girls. well what she doesn't understand is I get to know a guy very well before I go out with him. parents don't understand sometimes. 
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| *xcaitlinx* |
Apr 10 2006, 05:47 PM
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yes, i have a boyfriend and they don't care. he comes over on the weekends and i always go to his house. my parents met him a couple of weeks after we started going out and they like him which helps the situation even more. it would be hard to hide it from them because then i wouldn't be able to see him that much besides school. i've been dating boys for a while so my parents have gotten used to it.
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Apr 10 2006, 09:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,665 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,076 |
Only my mom knows of one of my boyfriends.
But she doesn't know of the other 4. My dad freaks if he knows. |
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| *swtcherriipie* |
Apr 10 2006, 09:32 PM
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Ahhhh my mom has this new thing that i tell her NOTHING about ym"personal" Life because im 18 now.... Idiot... Eh... I NEED A FRIEND!
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Apr 10 2006, 09:34 PM
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young enough to not give a f*ck Group: Member Posts: 1,149 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,060 |
^ other 4? & Saranghae. , how old are you?
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Apr 10 2006, 09:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 195 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 212,369 |
QUOTE(ITxMISHELLE @ Mar 22 2006, 7:33 PM)  i dont tell my parents anything personal, not even close. my mom is too overprotective and my dad is not the type id talk to about that stuff. though i dont have a bf, i think i might get one by next year, ( yea i know i sound weird acting like i planned it all ) but im so not telling them. i wish i could go out, like just for a movie with a really close guy friend,but theyd think ill do something. sigh..asian parents. I know how you feel ugh. My parents are soo over protective, it's like they think we're too naive. My parents would probably kill me, cause ever since i entered high shcool yeah i'm a freshmen. My parents have gone at it saying no boyfriends no boyfriends no boyfriends. They will f**k up your life not to mention your grades. Blah blah. I mean i've had a few and gone behidn they're backs but it's not liek i can talk on the phone and go out with any of them .. I feel sorry for my BFs, but at the same time i respect my parents and feel really guilty. *sigh* Asian parents is right .... I can't and will never tell them i had or have a bf. I can't tell them anything period .. ): i wish sometimes my parents were a little more opend minded .. |
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Apr 10 2006, 09:46 PM
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 i think you're stupid. Group: Member Posts: 608 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,203 |
i wish i could tell my parents that kind of stuff...but i just think it'd be...weird... :/
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Apr 10 2006, 10:26 PM
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QUOTE(Blue-Chan @ Apr 10 2006, 7:13 PM) Only my mom knows of one of my boyfriends. But she doesn't know of the other 4. My dad freaks if he knows. 4 Other? That blows me out of the water. -_- |
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Apr 11 2006, 04:34 AM
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 o______o;; Group: Member Posts: 28 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 230,983 |
nope, my parents say i can't date until they're fully sure i'll be able to keep up with school, extra-curricular, etc, because they don't want me to "lose sight" in that kinda stuff. i guess it's okay, i guess. my dad want's me to graduate at least...
but i don't think thats gonna happen. cause i sorta know that i'll be able to handle the school/extra stuff, so yeah. but then again i don't mind ;) my mom supports me more than my dad, and my uncle says its just because he was a guy, so yeah. my mom says to be realistic though and expand your horizon (lol). my aunty (on my mom's side) would let me date & she's my godparent, ahah. she asked if me or my sister had a boyfriend, etc, but yeah...ahahah. oh, btw, i'm filipino, if you wanted to knoww. i don't have it so bad though, my friend (who's also filipino) has to graduate for SURE and everything...my dad just want's me to graduate.  hahahQUOTE(AzNxBaBi @ Apr 10 2006, 4:45 PM) I know how you feel ugh. My parents are soo over protective, it's like they think we're too naive. My parents would probably kill me, cause ever since i entered high shcool yeah i'm a freshmen. My parents have gone at it saying no boyfriends no boyfriends no boyfriends. They will f**k up your life not to mention your grades. Blah blah. I mean i've had a few and gone behidn they're backs but it's not liek i can talk on the phone and go out with any of them .. I feel sorry for my BFs, but at the same time i respect my parents and feel really guilty. *sigh* Asian parents is right .... I can't and will never tell them i had or have a bf. I can't tell them anything period .. ): i wish sometimes my parents were a little more opend minded .. ahh, screw my last post, my dad's sorta like that too. he always tells me stuff like "they'll just get you knocked up" but of course, you can have guy friends...i think he wants me to take some martial arts course before going out...to defend myself. my sister & i have been trying to get our parents permission to date though, ahahah, i even made up like one point, if we can't date guys, then we're bound to swing the other way, because we're not allowed. i think they got sorta tempted to let us. but yeah. hahah. |
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Apr 11 2006, 03:49 PM
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young enough to not give a f*ck Group: Member Posts: 1,149 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,060 |
QUOTE(AzNxBaBi @ Apr 10 2006, 9:45 PM) I know how you feel ugh. My parents are soo over protective, it's like they think we're too naive. My parents would probably kill me, cause ever since i entered high shcool yeah i'm a freshmen. My parents have gone at it saying no boyfriends no boyfriends no boyfriends. They will f**k up your life not to mention your grades. Blah blah. I mean i've had a few and gone behidn they're backs but it's not liek i can talk on the phone and go out with any of them .. I feel sorry for my BFs, but at the same time i respect my parents and feel really guilty. *sigh* Asian parents is right .... I can't and will never tell them i had or have a bf. I can't tell them anything period .. ): i wish sometimes my parents were a little more opend minded .. i know. sometimes i even think about it and suddenly want american parents..even if some are strict,at least you do get some freedom to the outside world. =\ |
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Apr 12 2006, 08:36 PM
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 cool by default. Group: Member Posts: 147 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 392,925 |
i dont tell my parents anything. they'd go crazy if they knew i was dating someone. =\
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Apr 12 2006, 08:38 PM
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 just another girl Group: Member Posts: 490 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,136 |
my mom just found out tonight shes too damn smart i swear!
i was really scared about whatd shed say but all she said is no sex and you cant go alone with him till your 16 which aint bad at all |
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Apr 21 2006, 07:46 AM
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 just your everyday MUFFiN GiRL Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,919 |
It's kind of weird:
Me: I have a bf!!  Dad's reaction: I don't know, I don't care, I don't WANT to know, I don't WANT to care.... Just PLEASE tell me you're not pregnant. Me: .... ---- Me: I have a bf!! Mom's reaction: OMFG! WHO WHO WHO?!?! Is he hot? Does he go to your school? Is it -insert one of my guy friends- OMFG! WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL ME YOU LIKED HIM BEFORE?!? WHO IS IT!!!! TELL ME TELL ME TELL ME TELL ME TELL ME TELL ME Me: *slowly backs away* .... yeah - I have such weird parents 
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Apr 21 2006, 10:03 PM
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 i wanna know what's inside... Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 395,784 |
my mum couldn't care less most of the time. i figure she just trusts me enough to not be worried. and going to an all girls academy, she doesn't have too much to worry about if i'm going to find a guy at school.
my father and step-mum however... they always want to know if i'm in a relationship and such. they're not so nosy to say, but they just want to make sure of everything. definetly shows part of the difference between the mentalities of brits and americans. >rilind |
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Apr 22 2006, 12:15 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 224,447 |
My parents know and they don't care. I think it's just becuase I am the youngest so they already went through it with my sister, so they are more comfortable with it now.
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Apr 22 2006, 12:44 PM
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 maybe it's just a dream Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,421 |
lets see… out of all the relationships I've been in, my parents were aware of… none?
I think they might've suspected something the first time, but other then that they were completely oblivious… :3 |
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