Ways to get his attention Options

[lilJdawg]

Thanks for the advice. It's really great of you to pull together to all of this 'bcuhs it gets kinda' annoying after while when all the people asks the same question.

[Xprezsion]

These are some good tips, I'm gonna use them

[nosuntoday]

So, I realized that many girls are making topics of how to get guys, so I made a short detailed list of some ideas.

BEFORE GOING ON, MAKE SURE HE DOESN'T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND
             
       
Some no-no's:

Do not wear slutty/whorish clothes-If you want his attention, he could look down on you and think you're a low-life
Don't over-flatter him-Sure, it may please him after a while, but it gets annoying. What if a guy came up to you and kept repeating "YOU'RE HOT YOU'RE HOT!"
Don't sexually harass him-Don't say stuff like "Hey hot-buns! Call me!" What if a guy called you his bitch, then said "Call me"
Don't flirt with him if he has a girlfriend-Catfight.
Don't be rude to him or his friends-Sure, be like Helga in "Hey Arnold" Then bully him a lot to show your feelings for him. Great.
Don't become friends with his ex-Girls are violent too 
Don't go out with his ex-They may say they're over him, but it starts drama. (from b0st0ngrl) -grabs popcorn-

Good ways to get his attention:

Talking to him:
-Look into his eyes when you talk.
-To be more flirty, look into his eyes deeply, then look away, then look again.
-Talk about interesting stuff, see if he likes video games, reading, yadda yadda yadda.
-Catch him in the hallway (if he goes to your school) just to have a friendly conversation.
-BE YOURSELF! But don't be obnoxious.

You're too shy to let out your feelings for this guy:
-Look through Myspace to see if he has one, then if you don't have a Myspace, make one.  Add him to friends, wait until he accepts, then comment him about stuff he'd enjoy, then ask for his screen name, then start hanging out in school. You're now friends 
-When you go out with your friends, invite him along, if you're going to the movies, purposely sit next to him 
-Get to know him better, however you do, but don't be rude or obnoxious.
-Ask him out, if he hasn't asked you out already.

Q&A:

Q: The guy I like is such a jerk to my friends, and he's a jerk to other people too.
A: Pfft, he's not good enough for you. Duh?

Q: I had a reallly embarassing (sp?) moment in front of him! What do I do?
A: Just laugh it off, it'll show him that you're not over-emotional.

Q: I like my ex again!
A: Talk to him, or you could leave him. You'll get over him, unless you're like that girl in The Notebook

Q: I like my ex again! But he has a new girlfriend. 
A: You could fight for him  , or when he breaks up with her, ask him out again, unless they get married later on in life and never break up.

Q:"He likes me but, he doesnt want a girlfriend!"
A: give him a little time, but really just move on because most likely he doesnt like you like that and is just trying to be nice.

Q:"I think he likes me! How do I know for sure?"
A: Well, a lot of guys act differently and vary in ways to show their affection. Some may include:

--> He pays extra attention to you. <--
--> He seems to enjoy bugging you <--
--> He grabs your attention in any way possible (negative and positive) <--
--> He tries to get close to you and converse whenever possible <--
--> He does a lot of things he doesn't really like just for you <--
--> You catch him looking at you, then he looks away <--
--> He gets extra shy around you <--
--> He tries to show off around you <--
More to come..
Hopefully, this was helpful to you, and will make the clutter of topics in the Girls locker less crowded.
Oh, and if you want to know, I've never had a boyfriend 

NOTE THAT ALL GUYS ARE DIFFERENT

helpful and makes sense

[*chaneun*]

yay. it's finally unpinned. :D

[sheddingtears]

wow that's awesome.


NOTE THAT ALL GUYS ARE DIFFERENT

haha. good job.

[elaboratedream]

this is really good advice. I'll try it... lol

[xmkaex]

wow..this is really helpful
thank you

[*swtcherriipie*]

not bad. =)

[xheartbroken_chi...]

I say just be yourself.

[o0olaalaa]

i think i read something like that in a few magazines. but i think its awesome that you put it up

[fisher0fman]

b0st0ngrl..you are SOO right..my (only) boyfr--well, not really boyfriend..more of a fling.."dumped" me for my best friend and she went out with him. *tear*..now I like him again..but, I'm helping him get together with a girl HE'S in love with..how ridiculous am I? Needless to say, I need help in the boy department.

[x3Death.By.Knife...]

--> You catch him looking at you, then he looks away <--
--> He gets extra shy around you <--


I'm really glad you mentioned this.. you see, this guy that I like.. well, we only have lunch together. Sometimes I look down the table to see what hes doing, and i see him looking my way.. and then he turns away. I guess he's looking at me, I just kind of hope hes not looking at something past me. >.>

And he is really shy around me.. we may say Hi or something short like that. But if we are reallying talking, it's on AIM or something... he is a shy guy

[saintruthanne]

hey that was pretty good advice! i would just add one more...if you keep flirting with him and paying extra attention to him, and he does nothing or seems to ignore you even more, HE DOESN'T LIKE YOU. and he's probly talking to his friends about "this annoying chick that always stares at me and talks to me."

[s_parker_luver]

u did a awesome job!!! this is really great!
i'm gonna try some of them laterr! :)

[lilxroxy]

Q:"I think he likes me! How do I know for sure?"
A: Well, a lot of guys act differently and vary in ways to show their affection. Some may include:

--> He pays extra attention to you. <--
--> He seems to enjoy bugging you <--
--> He grabs your attention in any way possible (negative and positive) <--
--> He tries to get close to you and converse whenever possible <--
--> He does a lot of things he doesn't really like just for you <--
--> You catch him looking at you, then he looks away <--
--> He gets extra shy around you <--
--> He tries to show off around you <--

[/quote]

uhh..thats what he does. like every single one of the thingy listed. but he denies every one of it.

[omgRAWRR]

gah you have no idea how much that helps.
whoever wrote this is a freakin geniusss :]
thankss<3.

[flc]

Shouldn't this be in Relationships?

Anyway. I guess this could be helpful for younger girls who haven't really had a chance to have a relationship yet. But for me, it's like, duh, common sense.

[*My Cinderella.*]

Why hasn't this been pinned yet?

Great job. This should lessen the number of "how do I get him to notice me" topics.

[jue]

niceee (;
thats a pretty cool guide to follow along to. props to you for creating it. (;

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

Oh yeah I know I'm late but add this:

Many girls pretend to like videogames, cars, or/and sports just to get his attention. It'll work for awhile but after that they'll start thinking of her as a guy friend.

[ReggieM]

From my perspective if a guy likes you and he doesnt really talk to you much at school but likeon myspace or aim alot he definatley likes you 75% positve or at least thinks youre attractive which is kinda different... it means like he wants you to talk to him at school but he obviously cant cuz hes shy or sumthing....

[GREASEbaby]

This topic should be pinned, it's awesome. Good job Christine!!

[Paradox of Life]

^ It's linked in the resource center, so it doesn't need to be pinned anymore.

Don't become friends with his ex-Girls are violent too

I don't think this is a good piece of advice. I think it's good to be friends with his ex because they'll be violent if you're not friends or even enemies. I am very close friends with my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, and everything's just fine. The only problem is, they dish up all the bad things about them, but I guess you just have to get over it.

[neemmo]

haahhaha
very helpful i guess?
:DD

[teeners4]

Q:"I think he likes me! How do I know for sure?"
A: Well, a lot of guys act differently and vary in ways to show their affection. Some may include:

--> He pays extra attention to you. <--
--> He seems to enjoy bugging you <--
--> He grabs your attention in any way possible (negative and positive) <--
--> He tries to get close to you and converse whenever possible <--
--> He does a lot of things he doesn't really like just for you <--
--> You catch him looking at you, then he looks away <--
--> He gets extra shy around you <--
--> He tries to show off around you <--

gosh that didn't work for me TWICE! haha. well the first time the guy did like me but he wasn't sure if he was ready to go out and to be sure neither was i.... the next time which was like a couple of weeks ago, he liked another girl! and he just enjoyed my company... alot

but the girl rejected him and recently he's been into me again. haha but i don't want to be the "rebound girl" sigh