Joke? Options

[Crich323]

My friend has been calling me a whore and teasing me lately.
I've been getting very angry, annoyed and offended.
When I went off on her today for her saying that I like girls (which is NOT TRUE) she said that I need to relax and that she's just joking.

But would you relax or go off?
She doesn't do this to the other girls who we're both friends with.

[eunie03]

Most people who have mouths like that are probably doing it to mask their own insecurities. Karma's a beach, and it'll come back for her one day. I say let her do what she wants.

[anniepiee]

^mhmm.
friends joke about things, but sometimes it gets too carried away you can't tell whether they're serious or not. Leaver her be.

[Crich323]

Do you mean not talk to her or just ignore her when you say leave her alone?

[GREASEbaby]

You leave her alone by ignoring her. But only ignore her when she says those things, because you don't exactly want to give her the cold shoulder. She's still your friend, unless that's all she ever says to you.

And btw, the first two people who replied to this stated the answer very good..er..well

[silver-rain]

Yeah, ignore her when she does that and show her that it doesn't bother you, even if it does. Don't let her teasing get to you.
But yeah, if that's the only thing she says to you, she's not a very good friend.

[Paradox of Life]

Tell her that the things she says are hurtful. If she continues to argue, let things settle down for a bit and don't talk to her. She'll relent and come back apologizing. Make an agreement with her like, "Don't talk about me and I won't talk about you. Don't call me names and I won't call you names."

[--x who0ps]

Give her a taste of her own medicine
Or, you can sarcastically laugh it off.
ie: Her: You whore.
You: Yeah, i just go sleeping around with any other guy. You see, i love wearing only my bra and undies to school. I think it's quite cool. Jealous?

But, it's always best to just be honest.
I hate it when people say that you need to relax.

[*mipadi*]

Tell her she's being a bitch.

[_sarcastic_]

ignore her, show that what she's doing isn't bothering you. the more you argue back and stuff the more she'll do it to annoy you

[oceanblue091]

ah well me and my friends call eachother whores, bitch, skank, slut...yeah sory for listing these things haha

but i only take it as a joke from my best friendss...if it's someone i dunno that well i kinda give them a mean glare...if u guys aren't that good frends then i think u should just tell her to stop? and if she doesn't she's not a very good friend >.< and if u guys aree just play the joke back!

hope that helpsss

[Chii]

My friends and I used to call each other those things too. In fact, my best friend used to greet me "(My name)! You f*cking b*tch! " We were close and open enough for that kind of talk.

She probably doesn't know how much it bothers you. Tell her that you really don't appreciate it and she'll most likely stop. I don't see how it's a big deal, it's not like she's a stranger yelling obscenities at you.

[*Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg*]

My friend has been calling me a whore and teasing me lately.
I've been getting very angry, annoyed and offended.
When I went off on her today for her saying that I like girls (which is NOT TRUE) she said that I need to relax and that she's just joking.

But would you relax or go off?
She doesn't do this to the other girls who we're both friends with.

I totally understand where you're coming from. Me and my VERY close friends call eachother bitches sometimes, but just in a playful kind of way. There's a girl I know who's always calling me a skank and stuff, and I do take it to heart even if she doesn't mean it. I think you just need to ignore her, because she's just being a bitchy girl who's insecure about herself.

[neonpink]

well did you do something to make her be that way?

[shadowchild]

talk to her about it. Tell her that it bothers you and that you think she's going overboard.

If she gets mad, just ignore her until she simmers down.