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 Apr 2 2006, 03:24 PM
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well i had a bf and he broke upo with me because he said i became obssesed..and i really didnt though,,,i think about him all the time...........he sits behind or across from me on my bus all the time...also i catch him looking at me sometimes......hes in 7th grade im in 8th.....my firend in 7th say he still loves me...but im asking you ppl for advice what do you think...does he still like me?
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Apr 2 2006, 03:29 PM
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 hes the reason i smile.. <3 Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 158,486 |
ok .. well for one .. you are both still very young/ imature... neither of you know what love is yet ... i am 16 and my boyfriend is going to be 19 .. we are gettin married when i get outa school .. so yes i kno what love is ... buut just dont worry about having a boyfriend at this age, you will have so many boyfriends through your years of school. and you will get hurt .. many of times just like i have , but when u finnaly do fall in love .. you'll know it ..so just prepare yourself for the worst, and just have fun .
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Apr 2 2006, 03:38 PM
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wow. get over it. you haven't even gotten into high school yet. you will have alot of boyfriends in the future. no need to worry about some guy now. You have no idea what love is yet and neither does he. Move on.
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Apr 2 2006, 06:03 PM
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QUOTE(crazi_in_love_08 @ Apr 2 2006, 1:29 PM)  ok .. well for one .. you are both still very young/ imature... neither of you know what love is yet ... i am 16 and my boyfriend is going to be 19 .. we are gettin married when i get outa school .. so yes i kno what love is ... buut just dont worry about having a boyfriend at this age, you will have so many boyfriends through your years of school. and you will get hurt .. many of times just like i have , but when u finnaly do fall in love .. you'll know it ..so just prepare yourself for the worst, and just have fun . hahahahaha... how u gon' call her young and immature when u are only 16... wow wat a world of difference!  .... yur 19 yr old bf dont mean shit, in fact according to law he's a rapist if u guys are having sex, i cant debate whether or not u guys are in love i cant really prove or disprove it but wat 19 yr old is committin to a high schooler for life... 
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Apr 2 2006, 07:01 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^ i agree, 16 is also pretty young.
you're only in middle school, you've got a whole life ahead of you, don't fret about this guy breaking up with you. move on |
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Apr 2 2006, 07:52 PM
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Were you obsessed? Did you hang around him all the time, or call him all the time? Even in relationships, people need their space.
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Apr 2 2006, 08:00 PM
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LOve is such a strong word .. talk it over with him and maybe he will ask you back out or what will happen will happen :-)
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Apr 2 2006, 10:34 PM
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 Naughty... Group: Member Posts: 135 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,724 |
I agree, love is a strong word. I had an ex tell me I was obsessed, then again, a few days later he said I was the perfect girlfriend. Maybe your guy was just bitter, or going through a rough time, so he didn't want a girlfriend and broke up with you. The fact that you catch him staring at you might be just a coincidence, or it could mean he still likes you. Confronting him might be a bad idea, considering he could keep claiming you're obsessed. I'd just wait it out, and if he still doesn't talk to you then take it as a no, he doesn't like you/love you. You're young, don't let an ex bring you down. I had to learn that the hard way.
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Apr 4 2006, 04:40 PM
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 speechless Group: Member Posts: 869 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,564 |
I think he does. He's just not ready to be with you yet. Thats happened to me before.
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Apr 4 2006, 04:53 PM
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victim of myspace.com Group: Member Posts: 395 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,435 |
You honestly don't need to worry about him. It might seem like oh so major to you, but its only the beginning. Not every relationship is gonna last forever..
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Apr 4 2006, 05:06 PM
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 Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
yeah, i wouldn't worry about it too much...
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Apr 4 2006, 05:14 PM
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I don't mean to be mean about this, but first of all you're not in love.. && second of all wait till high school don't stress about him. Honestly, once you get into high school they'll be hotter guys.. new friends.. new guys you can chill with && date.. && new guys to become obsessive about.. I'm telling you the truth you can just forget about him..&& plus you're in 8th grade && it's almost the end of the year next year you're going to be in a whole different school && probably bigger too.. && Yes, maybe he does like you again b/c he's starting to realize that.. && he'll think WOW I'll really have the pimp status b/c I'm datin a freshman in high school && I'm jusst a middle schooler.. C'mon now I know you can put 2 and 2 together.. I say forget about the younger men I've tried it before it doesn't really work out.. b/c you kno how they say girls mature faster than boys.. that's a true face && now it's like double the immaturity since he's a year younger!!. So I say you just forget about him && move on with your life honestly.. I don't care how hot the guy is... b/c I was in your shoes last year && now I have a boyfriend whose a junior && we've been dating for about a half year now.. && plus this time you get to have the final laugh b/c remember he dumped you!.. All you really have to do is start learning to grow up sweetie && that's honestly all it takes!..
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