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 May 22 2004, 11:04 PM
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i have protective parents...if i dated or kissed or nething n they found out...well my life wuld kinda b over........is ne1 elses parents like this?? i dunt wanna lie to my parents...but i mean is it really that bad for me to have a bf n make out with him??
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| *tweeak* |
May 23 2004, 12:11 AM
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how old are you?
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May 23 2004, 12:22 AM
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*blink blink* Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,585 |
Same. It sucks big time. Although my parents are starting to be suspicious... lol...Oh well. I think in their minds they think I'm going out with my boyfriend, but they won't admit that they think that way. It's confusing, yes.
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May 23 2004, 12:45 AM
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really? but it IS your body...
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May 23 2004, 03:22 AM
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Lol my parents aren't like that.
My dad doesn't care. My mom is really out going. She makes me go for youth church just so that I can meet cute guys! o.O And she loves my ex BF to death. |
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May 23 2004, 10:58 AM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
my parents arent like that.. they trust ME.. but not always the guy... every guy i bring home to my parents.. they always like him... my parents are great! as long as im happy then their alright with it... but yeh they think im really wild with guys... but thats not true!
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May 23 2004, 01:43 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
Heh, I know exactly what u mean. That's how my parents used to be. They only mean the best.
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May 23 2004, 01:44 PM
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QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ May 23 2004, 10:58 AM) my parents arent like that.. they trust ME.. but not always the guy... every guy i bring home to my parents.. they always like him... my parents are great! as long as im happy then their alright with it... but yeh they think im really wild with guys... but thats not true! o yes i get this..."its not u i dunt trust, its the world i dunt trust" yeahh riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiite they just think im bad |
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May 23 2004, 02:03 PM
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 >>LILY<< Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,632 |
LOL. I dont tell my parents. They find out sooner or later. They either just mention it or not say anything at all. But they never really get mad lol.
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May 23 2004, 02:07 PM
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 -Moo?- Group: Member Posts: 99 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,414 |
It's not wrong to want to make out with your boyfriend. Parents need to realize that although teens can screw up, we don't always screw up. Parents just worry about us getting pregnant and that kinda deal. They can't protetc us forever. We need ta fly? You know...
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May 23 2004, 03:06 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
i got parents like tht. im not allowed to do these:
-Wear baggy cloths (I do anyways) -put my pic online (i dont anyways) -not allowed to talk to people i dont know online (i do anyways) -not allowed to curse (I do anyways) -cannot date till i dont know when (i date anyways...my parents just hadda live with it so they dont care bout this rule ne more haha) so basically just do it. ur parents will have to live through it sometime, why not now |
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May 23 2004, 03:11 PM
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My Parent s are protective. It's sucks. I'm starting to rebel a little too, and it's their friggin fault. Err, whatever. I'll do what I want when I want to, without their knowledge of course
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May 23 2004, 04:55 PM
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 The Used Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,501 |
yeah my parents are like that too. but try talking to them and see if they understand. and dont forget to cry
 but as long as youre not doing or wont do anything bad then you should be allowed to kiss n stuff |
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Jun 10 2004, 01:57 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
my parents are also like that. that's why I'd never tell them anything.
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Jun 10 2004, 02:48 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
my parents used 2 be like that, they only want the best for you and they want to keep you safe.......how old are u?
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Jun 10 2004, 03:13 PM
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Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
my parents are like tht (im 15)...it probably just cause my dad works fore the law enforcment or somethin. idk. before they wouldnt let me date or get a bf. when i turned 13 and went through tht rebel stage, i was like *screw u* and started going out with a guy i liked for a while. they were like
 *it was bound to happen...y not now?* but still, they wont let me go out past like 10 or some sh!t like tht. im trapped in this stupid house all my life...i dont tell my parents NE thin from my relationship now. they are stupid, they dont deserve to know. sry i just hate them cause they give me NO rite at all...so faggish... 
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Jun 11 2004, 11:11 PM
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Omg, last year my parents has ABSOLUTLY NOOOO trust in me. I couldnt go anywear. This year they are starting to forget all the stuff I did... that they found out about! ;)
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Jun 11 2004, 11:31 PM
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My parents won't let me date, yet I have a boyfriend. *shrugs* Just REBEL! I'm starting to.. I'm close to the point of k-i-s-s-i-n-g in our relationship..
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Jun 11 2004, 11:32 PM
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 Wow it's been a long time!! Group: Member Posts: 1,672 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,954 |
its okay, my parents are protective and they found out i had sex with my bf. imagine that! NOT pretty
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Jun 11 2004, 11:53 PM
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dats liike my parents too..but they found out my past two boyfrens..en they look at me like im a devil or sumthangg..they sed if i hav a third one..IM DEAD! lol..my dad sed his exact words "i'll kick your ass"..hahaha im only 12..kant hav a boyfren till 18...but heii..im datin my third one!..im such a rebel!!
 
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Jun 12 2004, 01:57 AM
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 <3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
no my parents arent strict but if i were u i wouldnt tell my parents im datin or kissin im afraid they wont let me...
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Jun 12 2004, 03:12 AM
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well you are not alone
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Jun 12 2004, 09:21 AM
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 Look its... Group: Official Member Posts: 5,817 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,767 |
QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ May 23 2004, 2:11 PM) My Parent s are protective. It's sucks. I'm starting to rebel a little too, and it's their friggin fault. Err, whatever. I'll do what I want when I want to, without their knowledge of course i do the same aslo. all the stuff i did was behind their backs. i get peopel over my house when theya rent home, i go to thier house while i say im ging to library or so. they dont let me do crap. at times they even listenin through the phone!!! thats why id ont be on it long... =( |
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Jun 12 2004, 12:36 PM
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My parents tell me that I can have as much freedom as I can handle. I love this rule. My parents trust me, so I can basically go where I want, when I want to. I can still get grounded and stuff, but as long as I don't do anything wrong I can have as much freedom as I want.
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Jun 12 2004, 12:43 PM
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[COLOR=green]i think its not very smart of parents to put so many restrictions on us girls when were getting pretty old. im in highschool and i dont really tell her anything but im officially alowed to start dating...and telling her when in 16. oops. but i know girls who go off to college and theyve lived a really restricted life and all of a sudden when theyre in college they have so much freedom they never had they go wild. i mean theyre not used to being allowed to stay out passed 12, drink, blah blah blah.
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