Over-reacting? Options

[dorkk-ie]

Over a week or so...
my bf hung out with one of his chick friend a lot. they don't have any connection before, heck they only known each other for a month or two tops? well, he hung out and went to places .. that he barely takes me.. i don't know.. maybe this part is just jealousy, but having a boyfriend that i feel doesn't like showing me off feels like poo... but anyways, my bf did not tell you anything about hanging out with this "friend" however.. after finding out that "friend" actually had feelings for him, he told her nothing could happen because he got a gf..

i dont know, am i just jealous and over-reacting over the fact that he didn't tell me about all those meet ups with some girl...

[IceCream4U]

Trust me, you aren't over reacting.

I think you should talk to him about it. That would be my first tip.

My second would be, if he absolutely refuses him, is to let him go. You don't deserve a guy like that. And remember, don't feel bad. You had (or have) a bf, which means your likeable! Which means you absolutely are not a bad person. Just be glad that your relationship happened!!

[Chii]

I think you are overreacting a little bit. He's your boyfriend, not your child. He doesn't have to check in with you if he's going to hang out with his friend who just happens to be a girl. Don't worry so much. He told her no and that he's with you.

He might not want to "show you off" because he wants to keep the relationship to himself. It's understandable. Tabloids break up celebrity couples because of all the talk and rumors. Things like that can happen if you're not celebrities, it may not be as extreme but it can still happen.

Just try to let it go. He acknowledged you when he was with her. That's a very good thing.

[*My Cinderella.*]

^ I agree with Chii partically. After all, he already told her that there's nothing that's going to happen between them because he's already got you. I, myself am a jealous person, and this would bother me just a litte bit. Unless you see some flirting or anything more than friendliness going on, I think you should try to let it go.

[_sarcastic_]

i don't think you're overreacting all that much, just trust your bf. he already told her that they won't have a future because he's already got you.

[priyas]

I think your overreacting. He's allowed to hang out with whoever he wants unless he's cheating on you.

Tabloids break up celebrity couples because of all the talk and rumors. Things like that can happen if you're not celebrities, it may not be as extreme but it can still happen.

^^ so true.

At least, he was honest with you.

[dorkk-ie]

At least, he was honest with you.

after i confronted him...

[lilith]

if he loves you and you know it dont worry about a thing.

[insanityislaughi...]

I think you're overreacting just a tad. I mean, why would you want your boyfriend to show you off? Makes you seem kind of like a piece of meat or something. At least, I wouldn't want my boyfriend showing me off. If you confronted him and he said that he told the girl he wasn't interested, then what's the big deal? The only problem would be if you confronted him and he said that he never did anything with the girl.

Seriously, jealousy is not cool. I had a friend who's girlfriend was a jealous monster, and she got pissed off whenever he did stuff with me or my friends. Just chill with this whole situation, I mean, it's just a guy, right?

[chococat15]

ur just overreacting a little. it's okay for your boyfriend to have a friend that's a girl. but if you're worried that they might be heading towards being more than friends, then talk to him.