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 Mar 24 2006, 08:55 PM
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What if you found out that you or your boy friend had an STD and didnt even know about it entill you got tested or got really really sick?
 I know its not something you really want to think about but I was and I just wanted to know what ever body else would do? I know theres nothing you can really do but other then that I could cry entill my heart couldent take it any more.  What would you do? |
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Mar 24 2006, 10:00 PM
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 (::()::) Group: Member Posts: 148 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,150 |
so i would have an std too then?
i would cry & cry & cry, then go to my dr. and/or research on it & find out if i'm gonna die/what's gonna happen to me. |
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Mar 24 2006, 10:17 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i'd make my bf tell me why he never told me he had an STD (maybe he didn't know)
i'll make sure it's not life threatening |
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Mar 25 2006, 12:47 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
I would be pissed if he gave me something because we're in a monogamous relationship, if I all of a sudden got something, it would mean that he cheated. Plus, some STDs can cause a great deal of damage over time, if I didn't get tested I might be incapable of conceiving.
I wouldn't care if it was an easy STD to get rid of, you're supposed to tell your partner about these things. I would find him, b*tch at him, AND make him pay for my medical bills. I'd sue him if it was a life threatening STD or one that makes me incapable of conceiving. I really <3 him but I'm not going to put him over my good health. |
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Mar 25 2006, 01:25 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,266 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,600 |
if i'd an STD, the first thing i'd do is probably yell at guy and then cry and then think of how to explain it my parents because having them worry about me dying because of and STD is the last thing i'd want them to worry and stress over. .
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Mar 25 2006, 01:29 AM
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kill her. shoot her. slap her. beat her up.
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Mar 25 2006, 02:51 AM
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 You shall know us by the trail of dead. Group: Member Posts: 21 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,208 |
Do yourself a favor.
Dump him. You don't want what he has. However, the statistics are startling. In some communities, STD rates are staggering. At my college, the HPV rate (HPV only manifests in 2% of cases, it's basically a recurring rash in the genitalia region) of infection is in almost 80% of sexually active students. If you have had, or are having sex, with someone who's been sexually active, there is not only a chance, but a probable chance, you will contract some kind of STD. The rub is that few are really noticable, or have outward affects. You don't die of most STD's. HIV, for instance, isn't an STD. Sex is just a method of transmittal. The subject of STD's is somewhat of a taboo, and the best protection is knowledge. |
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Mar 25 2006, 09:55 AM
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 hes the reason i smile.. <3 Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 158,486 |
i would be upset but if he didnt know he had them .. its not all his fault .. it would be mine for not having him tested before we had sex. .. but i kno a good bit about std's ... from research .. and there are really only 3 that u need to look out for .. hiv/ aids .. herpes- not life threatingin but they will never go away.. and i think the other one is genital warts .. but all of the other ones are treatable..
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Mar 25 2006, 10:04 AM
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I would get very pissed off. He should've told me he had STDs. It's not like I wouldn't have had sex with him anyways, if he told me (I would've used tons and tons of condoms). The fact that he kept it a secret prooves that he wanted sex not because he loves me but because he was selfish. Damn Shelby what brought you to think of something like this? It makes me want to drag guys I like to the HIV testing facility.
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Mar 25 2006, 01:52 PM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
id be f**king pissed.
if he kept it a secret then he obviously didnt even care about me. |
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Mar 25 2006, 02:31 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,614 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,903 |
QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Mar 25 2006, 10:04 AM)  I would get very pissed off. He should've told me he had STDs. It's not like I wouldn't have had sex with him anyways, if he told me (I would've used tons and tons of condoms). The fact that he kept it a secret prooves that he wanted sex not because he loves me but because he was selfish. Damn Shelby what brought you to think of something like this? It makes me want to drag guys I like to the HIV testing facility. I have a active mind and I said to you the other night that Im a worry wart.. I think to far in to things and yeah.. thats just who I am.. :-) I know its not a up best subject but I just thought I would get other peoples thinking. Every one is not the same so hey! why not ask. |
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Mar 25 2006, 08:29 PM
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Syar Group: Member Posts: 23 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,958 |
You should talk to him about it.
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Mar 26 2006, 01:11 AM
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 Tryina catch me ridin dirrty Group: Member Posts: 166 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 389,030 |
which is why.... go get a test before u do "stuff". no regret.
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