do you ever feel left out when guys flirt with your friends?, just read |
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 Mar 8 2006, 07:19 PM
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 Emo Fruitcake  Group: Member Posts: 76 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 382,761  |
do you have friends that the guys always flirt with and you just kinda sit there and feel really
awkward??? i even try to join in and like talk with them too, but i also feel really weird and ignored cus they put all their attention to her... |
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Mar 9 2006, 09:54 PM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
Well yeah. I'd feel pretty left out. Any girl would, really. Unless she already had a boyfriend/girlfriend.
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Mar 10 2006, 01:10 AM
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yeah same here.
it feels akward because they go on and on about random things...and im just sitting there. them>>(   )  <<me
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Mar 10 2006, 01:14 AM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
Ugh, yes. Well, actually, it's a uh.. group flirt? *shrug* I don't know how to explain it.. I'm always left out of it though. It gets so annoying.
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Mar 10 2006, 06:15 AM
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yess same feeling here..
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Mar 10 2006, 12:03 PM
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yeah i do
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Mar 10 2006, 12:06 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
That hasn't happened to me but I'd feel awkward as hell if it did...
 I don't even know what to tell you because I wouldn't know what to do except feel very uncomfortable...But if you can tell that she likes him, try to help her out and be like "come on, give him your screenname/number." |
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Mar 10 2006, 04:52 PM
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Emo Fruitcake Group: Member Posts: 76 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 382,761 |
QUOTE(Chii @ Mar 10 2006, 12:06 PM)  That hasn't happened to me but I'd feel awkward as hell if it did... I don't even know what to tell you because I wouldn't know what to do except feel very uncomfortable...But if you can tell that she likes him, try to help her out and be like "come on, give him your screenname/number." no its more like he thinks shes hott and she just likes the attention. it happens around most guys. i dont know... i just dont want to feel left out cus shes the only person i talk to in that class  but thanks for trying to help
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Mar 10 2006, 05:49 PM
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 ...who created this mess...? Group: Member Posts: 451 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,244 |
Yeah... it has happened to me. It still does sometimes, actually. Just join in the conversation if you're with her and he comes up. Sure, it's still awkward, but it only feels that way. Think of it this way: what's so awkward about talking to a boy who's also talking with your friend? The guys won't think it's weird because you and your friend are friends already, and naturally you're just talking. I think it's just something to get used to. You shouldn't feel weird about it later.
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Mar 10 2006, 05:56 PM
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Emo Fruitcake Group: Member Posts: 76 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 382,761 |
QUOTE(xblueradiance @ Mar 10 2006, 5:49 PM) Yeah... it has happened to me. It still does sometimes, actually. Just join in the conversation if you're with her and he comes up. Sure, it's still awkward, but it only feels that way. Think of it this way: what's so awkward about talking to a boy who's also talking with your friend? The guys won't think it's weird because you and your friend are friends already, and naturally you're just talking. I think it's just something to get used to. You shouldn't feel weird about it later. yea i guess it sounds better that way, maybe i was just overreacting. but thanks for the help 
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Mar 10 2006, 07:42 PM
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I think it's awkward when they flirt and you're pretty much just left standing there, because you don't have anyone else to talk to. But I think I'd feel left out if it was someone that I liked, because at first it feels odd to be around that someone you like but them flirting with your friend just makes it that much weirder.
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Mar 10 2006, 08:51 PM
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I would feel left out, but I would just be like aww...
 I should be happy for my friends.
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Mar 11 2006, 11:13 AM
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 Just deal with it. Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 204,954 |
That never happened to my friends and me and plus guys dont ussually flirt with me cuz im shy and the last time a guy flirted with me i didnt even know it which was only once and didnt realize it until a year later on a dream i had.
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Mar 11 2006, 09:44 PM
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All the time... Of course my friends that I usually hang out with ignore me all the time anyways.
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Mar 11 2006, 11:51 PM
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yes I do TT___TT it's sad
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Mar 12 2006, 06:15 PM
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No, I don't think I've ever had that happen. I don't hang out with those type of people, so the guys never do so. Actually, most of my friends are guys.
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Mar 13 2006, 12:30 AM
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Yes, i do feel left out. And also i hang out with my friends that have bf && gfs and its kinda embarassing cause they ask me wheres your boyfriend or who was ur last boyfriend and i always reply
"ive never had one " so yea |
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Mar 13 2006, 05:15 PM
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yeh sometimes....
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Mar 14 2006, 11:35 AM
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Yeah, actually I do. It sucks pretty bad. Because I have guys that come up to me and talk about how hot my friends are and it's kind of like "...go tell them that not me." Plus they're all "grope" with their loves and I'm just T__T alone in a corner. But I can deal I guess.
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Mar 14 2006, 11:42 AM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
mm, not really. i usually just join in with them.
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Mar 14 2006, 04:48 PM
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 <33 Group: Member Posts: 2,745 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,234 |
yeah. I feel left out and feel that I don't exist around them. xD;;
But, sometimes I jump on in. Sometimes, I don't. |
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Mar 15 2006, 07:45 PM
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That's actually what's going on with me right now.. =/
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Mar 18 2006, 06:15 AM
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hmm. try all the time. lol.
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Mar 18 2006, 08:16 AM
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 unrequited love Group: Member Posts: 1,007 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,788 |
yeah i have that same thing! my best friend shes really pretty and all these guys flaunt all over her...but later on i just joined in! and some of the guys i didnt even know, until one day one of them was a pretty good friend of mine. and she told me she got jealous =o
haha so i say...just look for the right time to jump in so you can show them how great you are and that you wished to be talked to, too. or talk to it about it with your friend saying you feel sorta left out, if shes your friend she would help you join in with thier conversations. |
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Mar 18 2006, 01:06 PM
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 Loser Group: Member Posts: 1,101 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,558 |
It always happens. One of my friends (The guy I like) always flirts with my best friends, even if they treat him like shit, and I end up sitting there with an
expression, or
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