the first approach, asking someone out |
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 May 22 2004, 09:43 PM
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ok i know some people think that a guy is supposed to make the first move in asking a girl out...i do believe that too. but do guys prefer the girls to make the first move?
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May 22 2004, 10:22 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
most guys like it! it takes the stress off of them!
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May 22 2004, 10:25 PM
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 baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
most guys that I talk to say they wish girls would make the first move, it gives them a chance to go out with a girl without doing the hard job and it shows that the girl is confident enough in herself to put her in a position to possibly fall on her a$$
and guys love confidence in girls |
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May 22 2004, 10:33 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
Lemme make this clear. Once a girl makes a move, the guy automatically assumes either the girl is easy or the girl is really feeling him. It all depends on who the guy is. When a guy does the same thing, the girl usually thinks he really likes her. I'd rather have the guy do it is that's the case.
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May 23 2004, 01:20 AM
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 rawr Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,667 |
definately, guys like the girls to do the first move. for example: at our school dance, this guy whom i've known for a long time and i like, i was all nervous about asking him to dance. so i finally did, and the first thing he said to me, right in my eyes was "i've been waiting for you to ask me." **dreamy sigh** so the point is, yes u should ask him first. =]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]
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May 23 2004, 01:31 AM
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blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
I guess I'm old fashioned.
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May 23 2004, 01:41 AM
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 x3ania Group: Member Posts: 596 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,628 |
u cant ask such a question. it depends on every single guy. and put urself in the same position.. if a guy u like asks u out - youll be happy. if a guy you dont like asks you out - its awkward.
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May 23 2004, 04:17 PM
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 and then he died... Group: Member Posts: 338 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,047 |
QUOTE(NYsmiLez @ May 23 2004, 1:41 AM) u cant ask such a question. it depends on every single guy. and put urself in the same position.. if a guy u like asks u out - youll be happy. if a guy you dont like asks you out - its awkward. true. but like if you are a confident grl yourself [which is the whole point of asking a guy out - show them ur confident and u want them], then you wouldnt even wry about it now. thatz the thing if you are not confident, [which is the reason y you are concerned about it now], then you gonna stutter and all shy and maybe even shaking when you ask him. but again.. i gues a guy would appreciate the effort ya kno. |
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May 23 2004, 04:32 PM
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 Anime Freak Group: Member Posts: 247 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,476 |
i would like it if da girl makes da first move cuz it would make it so much easier on us guys
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May 23 2004, 04:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,989 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,691 |
Its okay if the girl makes the first move but I think the guy should make the first move.
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Jun 9 2004, 07:23 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,234 |
like nike says, just do it!
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Jun 11 2004, 09:20 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
hm.. I think it's right for both sexes to ask ppl out..
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Jun 11 2004, 09:50 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
a lot of my exes and my current boyyfriend said that they think its sexy when the girl makes the first move..and it takes a lot of pressure off of them too haha
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Jun 11 2004, 09:52 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
i say if the girl askesthe guy out she's just desperate, either she is impatient or needs someone... cause if the guy like her enough obviously he would ask her, even if he's shy he'll overcome that if she means that much to him...
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Jun 13 2004, 12:31 AM
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 =P Group: Member Posts: 207 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,290 |
it can go either way. sometimes it takes the stress off of the guys if the girls make the first move. it shouldnt be a rushed or planned thing though..
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Jun 13 2004, 12:59 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
I like it better when the guy asks .. just because I'm like that
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Jun 13 2004, 01:09 AM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
i`ve seen this freakin` topic so many times...gosh..
IT`S OKAY AS LONG AS YOU`RE TOGETHER. gosh. works both ways right?? |
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