arggh, Another boy crazy girl Options

[Spazzzmatic]

There's this guy at my school. And I like him a lot. A lotta lot. The problem is, he always has like 98237234 girls hanging all over him & fawning over him, and I can't get over to talk to him unless I pretty much join in his "fan club". And I don't want to do that, look desperate and pathetic, that is. How can I talk to him without having to kill all the other girls in my school? And when you guys have your "fan clubs" of girls, do you find that flattering, or annoying?

Or just help me stop liking him. How do you manage that?

[alphanumeric]

You don't have to be part of the "club" just go up to him & start a conversation. Or get a friend to introduce you two. Wait, are you guys already acquaintances? Well, just talk[: You can't be considered 'desperate & pathetic' then. Good luck, too.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

I don't get why you would have to join the fan club when you could just go up and talk to him. Who cares what those other girls think, at least you're apart from them and would actually talk to him.

[_sarcastic_]

just be yourself and go after him, you don't have to be like other girls in his fan club. try standing out so that he'll notice you even more than the others.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

I don't get why you would have to join the fan club when you could just go up and talk to him. Who cares what those other girls think, at least you're apart from them and would actually talk to him.

agreed.

And you can't just stop liking someone like that. It'll take time then one day, you'll wonder why you even liked this guy.

[Kounouri]

i'm in pretty much the same situation.
i am in 10th grade, and i like a senior right now- but there are a LOT of freshmen at our school who flirt with him constantly. now, they may not like him, but they flirt with him- and that kind of annoys me.

fortunately, they're not always around.

i started out by just waving and saying "hey," in the halls, and would sometimes stop to talk. now every now & then he stops ME to talk : ) if he's in any of your classes you can talk to him in there, or after school if either of you take a bus, etc etc. try and catch him alone and build up a friendship with him... you won't seem pathetic.

sometimes these things just take time.

[subway]

push everyone out of the way and kiss him. that will get everyone to shut up.

[tooeffingcrazy]

I find you annoying.
You are a desperate pathetic girl right now, and you're just contradicting yourself.

Just talk to him, it's not that hard. Find some free time when he's alone.

[aicilah999]

well i find myself in the same situation ...
trying to get over a guy, sort of hard,
so i think im going after him xD

well just smile and start a convo with him?

[Syar]

You just have to get over him, or if you really like him, then just tell him straight up and see what he says. The best you can do is try to get yourself noticed.

[lilith]

hmm i think you should just start liking somebody else. chances are, he's gonna break your heart.

[nightowl89]

It really depends on the guy. I mean the guy I like seemed like tooootally unreachable and he always had girls throwing themselves at him. But it turns out hes just enjoying the attention and he actually doesn't have as many friends that are girls, genuine ones you know? So if you treat him like a real person that will get you some bonus points. Act as normal s you can...don't give up too fast! You never know. Tho if he really seems like he's a player...he probably is. So then I would say move on...