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 Mar 16 2006, 07:17 PM
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so this guy i barely know invited me to a party with him...my brother is kinda friendly with him but i barely know him n i met him thru my bro...and he made it really obvious that he likes me...well i went to this party even tho i dint really want to...n i had to drive him there lol...so he was like holding hands wit me the whole time at the party then he kissed me n we madeo ut for a really long time and he was VERYY VERYY touchy feely!! more than im alright with...and at first when he had his hand on my back i told myself if he goes to touch my boobs ill move his hand but then he did...n i didnt...i dunno why...i didnt want thim to do it but i didnt say n e thing....he was really in there...eww... he really likes me alot but i tottally dont feel the same way for him...so the thing is i need to figure out how to tell him i just want to be friends...truth is...i dotn even wanna be friends with him but i dont wanna be mean to him..ya know? i also dont wanna get my bro involved at all....thanx soo much for all ur help!
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Mar 16 2006, 08:00 PM
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Tu es laid. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,913 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,675 |
well first just go all out with honesty (in a nice way), even if your nervous or scared or etc you have to tell him cause he's just going to do things that you don't approve of and think nothing is wrong.
as stupid and yucky this may sound try practicing telling him in the mirror or something if your nervous. I would recommend you saying "I know you like me a lot but I just don't feel the same way as you feel for me. I feel like your doing some things I don't approve of and rather us be friends." |
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Mar 16 2006, 08:07 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Well, you're kind aleading the boy on with letting him hold your hand and kiss you and feel on your bewbies. You gotta be blunt, to get the point across. Notice I said blunt not rude. Just tell him straight out that you're sorry for all that happened the other night , that it didn't mean anything and you just want to be friends.
As for keeping your brother out of it, good luck (: |
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Mar 16 2006, 09:16 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^ i agree. you shouldn't have let him do what he did to you, be straightforward with him and tell him.
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Mar 16 2006, 10:07 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
just dont talk to him ever again.
and when he wants to ahng out tell him why not. haha.. |
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Mar 16 2006, 10:17 PM
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He doesn't love you... he wants you... like lust. Drop him like he's hot.
Tell him face to face about the way you feel. Even get mad if he blows you off cause you made it clear what your parameters were and he violated them. Have faith in yourself and your feelings and you'll be okay. |
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Mar 16 2006, 10:56 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 683 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,526 |
Haha bewbies?? :P
Do it like I do. ''F--k you b--ch I don't like you'' ....As mean as taht sounds, it usually works. |
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Mar 16 2006, 11:33 PM
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QUOTE(Shahin @ Mar 16 2006, 10:56 PM)  Do it like I do. ''F--k you b--ch I don't like you'' ....As mean as taht sounds, it usually works. haah thats awesome i wish i cud!! |
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Mar 16 2006, 11:51 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 683 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,526 |
^
 It helps when your an a-hole like me. :) Dono why ppl like me.
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